UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

[philmonroe]

I seen it with my own 2 eyes. Years ago, brehettes turned me down cause I wasn't flashy and wasn't driving nothing flashy. They chased some other dude with that tight mouthpiece and swag.

Maybe you just ugly? nikkas online got tons of excuses and they all don't have shyt to do with anything they've done. Its always the next person y'all don't get tired of living like that?

 

[Ol’Otis]

what exactly is a cac bad boy?

women(well black women,some not all) have this false view of what a real man is
(father or real man wasn't present during childhood)

 

[RiffRaff]

how am I ducking? and what crazy stance? I said he could get the test? I literally said it multiple times but you guys keep talking about men being forced to raise kids that aren't theirs. He can get the test, no one will be raising a kid that isn't theirs. I honestly don't know how to say it any clearer.

So repeat once again what would you do if your husband got a paternity test. Because that's what we're all honestly discussing. That's where all this stems from, but you'd rather play dumb

 

[Wild self]

Maybe you just ugly? nikkas online got tons of excuses and they all don't have shyt to do with anything they've done. Its always the next person y'all don't get tired of living like that?

Nah, I ain't ugly at all. Just stating the dam truth. Don't spread propaganda against people that don't share your narrow views.

 

[Wild self]

Still doesn't exactly say what you said. You reaching. Nowhere in there does it say that's the only options. My comment is in response to all the coli nerds always bytching about girls wanting thugs/bad boys. If you happen to be one of them nikkas then i guess a hit dog hollers

Nah, I ain't a "nerd" at all. Or a simp.

 

[philmonroe]

You can get my Honda for 15 with low miles and good on gas and cheap to fix or you can buy a 2005 bimmer 540 thst looks much nicer get mad chick's but with high mileage and mad high maintenance. Guess what lotts dudes choose? They make my money and can't save anything just floss for hoes then the women gets stuck with the kid and s broke dude and once the dikk gets tired they have nothing else.

And all women have one friend they all wanna be like who got a good dude nice house and kids and they all want that. Then the see though through the image and get bitter.

Then try try to shame the decent dudes into taking them and their kids.

Thst BMW transmission alone new will run you as much as an new Honda. So they get them rebuilt by some hood cats and sell the car and the dealer or new buyer is stuck with the issue.

This is how so many dudes get shot and killed.

Get this bitter broke nikka shyt out of here. I actually agree with you you shouldn't buy a old bmw just for,the badge. You sound like a hater breh with the nikka always got the used luxury car and can't pay the note shyt. It never fails online either so gotta keep it real with you and call you a bitter hating nikka on this one.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

What if he's a nice guy with good genes though

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

Nah, I ain't a "nerd" at all. Or a simp.

If you are crying about who women prefer to date then you are indeed a nerd and simp, cause real nikkas don't give a fukk who a thottie wanna spread her legs for

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

is everyone ignoring what I said? I said he could still get the test. It's like everyone is conveniently skipping over that part.

But the fact that you're going to leave him, that is the problem.

 

[ezrathegreat]

See most chick bag a nikka that make her wet, but then she wants to change him so she likes him more. Etc, Stop smoking, stop drinking ,stop hanging with them no good friends.....

Down the line the nikka so changed he more p*ssy then her, her p*ssy don't get wet then it a wrap she done with him in her mind. Then when he want to have sex it's im not in the mood baby Etc.

Only thing I can tell you never change who you are, if she want a nikka who don't smoke tell her go find one or love you for YOU!!! How you going to build a relationship on sand bending over every time she cry's. Be the rock that you supposed to be stand strong.

Don't ever fall for that line : I'm trying to make you a better person!!! Is she god how does she know stopping you from doing things you enjoy will make you better person?

I'm typing to much need to get back to this homework.

Best post on the page.

 

[Wild self]

If you are crying about who women prefer to date then you are indeed a nerd and simp, cause real nikkas don't give a fukk who a thottie wanna spread her legs for

I ain't either of the 2. Again, there are more than 2 labels to describe men. I ain't some pushover or a "real nikka."

Too many people over simplify the labels.

 

[Ashley Banks]

So repeat once again what would you do if your husband got a paternity test. Because that's what we're all honestly discussing. That's where all this stems from, but you'd rather play dumb

so you have a problem with me leaving my husband? um why is that any of your concern?

Well since this is soooo important to you, I'm going to do that for multiple reasons:

1. I'm big on trust. I think that's a big thing in a relationship, so I do everything I can to prove to him that he can trust me so after I do everything I do you STILL don't trust me after years of being together. I don't think there's more I can do.

2. I'm not a hoe and I'm not a cheater. If he really knew me he would know that. But since he thinks he needs to get a paternity test, he obviously thinks I'm a hoe.

3. It would make me feel like shyt. Like I'm just a hoe to him. and that will change how I feel about him which will change the relationship.
So I'm just avoiding dragging out a relationship that will end anyways. you can think it's dumb all you want but you're not the one being insulted.

 

[Ashley Banks]

dbl

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

I ain't either of the 2. Again, there are more than 2 labels to describe men. I ain't some pushover or a "real nikka."

Too many people over simplify the labels.

Because it is that simple. How about i put this in better terms; Nobody with a LIFE actually gives a fukk who some thottie dates. You have to be really butthurt to go on rants about women you don't even know liking quote "Bad boys"

"Why won't women date nice guys like me, whaaaaaa"

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

How does that make yall nice guys feel

Here's the study:

http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf

• Across all cultures, women deploy a dualistic sexual strategy: Coupling (simps) and Dual Mating (thugs/bad boys)
  
  
• Coupling (simps), meaning the formation of a long-term 'monogamous' relationship with a provider, is necessitated by human infants requiring long years of high resource expenditure before they are independent.
  
  
• Evidence indicates that for the purpose of Coupling (simps), women seek out men that display characteristics like ability to provide (simps), kindness and reliability. When selection is constrained, women will prioritize the ability to provide (simps).
  
  
• Women will display Commitment Skepticism (shyt testing and comfort testing) with their Coupling partner (simps), requesting a variety of displays on his part (failed shyt tests) to gaurantee he'll be willing to commit once they have coupled (and she's likely pregnant). This is because a wrong investment on the woman's part would prove disastrous for her, leaving her without her Coupling mate's resources (simps).
  
  
• Dual Mating (thugs/bad boys) is a strategy in which women seek to reproduce with men offering better genes (thugs/bad boys) than their Coupling partner (simps), while retaining the commitment (simps) of the Coupling partner
  
  
• Women are specifically drawn to Dual Mating during the fertile phase of the ovulatory cycle, and women in long-term relationships display a larger attraction to Dual Mating than otherwise
  
  
• For dual mating, women prefer men with the following (thugs/bad boys) characteristics: body and facial symmetry, facial masculinity (large jaw, prominent brow), dominance, deeper voice, physical size (in relation to their partner)
  
  
• Evidence of Dual Mating is the adaptation to sperm competition (the relatively large-sized testes in men follow the pattern in other primates of larger testes = more sperm competition), the commonality of extrapair mating (cheating, with around 20% of women admitting to at least one lifetime instance), and the development of jealousy (which isnot ubiquitous among primates) in males, including to the point of violence

Conclusions:

• alpha fukks (thugs/bad boys), beta bucks (simps) is evolutionarily ingrained in human females and guarantees their best reproductive success
• the scientific evidence for it is multi-dimensional and overwhelming
• alpha and beta characteristics are hardwired, not cultural; cultural and social context can add something on top but can never replace or overcome instinctual behaviour
• LIFT, become assertive and learn to speak with a proper voice

I think it's funny how the female posters are nowhere to be seen. It seems like they can't handle the heat... the data's right here ladies . Right @LadySimone @bcrusaderw @Jisselle @Giselle @Spotlessmind @Kiki128 @Ming Garden @Dollfacecraze @Paradise Road @Caliban @ChocolateQueen @Colicat @princess125 @VFib @Chelsea Bridge @MsCritic7 @agnosticlady @SouthernBelle @thirdeye. Oh and I predict that @Strawberry will be a single mother. She is always talking about sleeping withmen so I feel bad for the simp that decides to save her once her youth is gone .Look ladies there's no problem with wanting to have kids with someone you are attracted to. The thing is though, don't try to coerce someone else to take care of your kids once this "amazing guy" has pumped and dumped you. Single moms don't need love, they need to live with the mistakes that they have made. If someone drops out of college then proceeds to cry about how they can't find a job, it's their fault. If someone complains about not being able to attract women but is fat, that's their fault. IF A WOMAN DECIDES TO HAVE A KID WITH SOMEONE THAT SHE KNOWS WILL NOT STICK AROUND, THAT"S HER FAULT. Oh and I also have a theory about women who use thecoli.com. These female posters tend to be women who fall into one of 4 categories. 1. women who have been pumped and dumped by alphas so they spend their days on the internet because they realized that they were used and have no worth 2. women who get no male attention irl so they seek attention online.3. women who are mad that they can't attract alphas so they come online to spew their hate of men (see feminists). 4. fat women. #HOHs should be #HOW hard on wh*res.