Why should a bad person not be shamed because she has a p*ssy
UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...
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Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Gonna have to keep it that way for the rest of your life cuz one slip up and you gonna have 18 years of hellI don't have any kids
Pullout game A1
so you have a problem with me leaving my husband? um why is that any of your concern?
Well since this is soooo important to you, I'm going to do that for multiple reasons:
1. I'm big on trust. I think that's a big thing in a relationship, so I do everything I can to prove to him that he can trust me so after I do everything I do you STILL don't trust me after years of being together. I don't think there's more I can do.
2. I'm not a hoe and I'm not a cheater. If he really knew me he would know that. But since he thinks he needs to get a paternity test, he obviously thinks I'm a hoe.
3. It would make me feel like shyt. Like I'm just a hoe to him. and that will change how I feel about him which will change the relationship.
So I'm just avoiding dragging out a relationship that will end anyways.you can think it's dumb all you want but you're not the one being insulted.
In the three things you listed, I saw a lot of "I" and "me", but when children are involved, it's not all about YOU. And it's natural to feel the way that you feel, but given everything you've stated in this thread you seem to dismiss your spouses's point of view and how they might feel about the situation. You have no doubt that kid is yours, a good husband would like to believe it his as well. No one gets a paternity test because they want to believe their significant other is a whore or to shirk from responsibility, they do it for peace of mind most of the time. Because unfortunately everything you have said even up to, you would leave your husband if he got a paternity test, has been said by cheaters who knew the kid wasn't his. This is reality, this happens. So knowing there are women out there who do this, I don't blame a man for wanting to make sure, that's them doing their due diligence. The problem is that a lot of women have the same viewpoint you have and that makes men think twice about even asking. Even worse the real whores out here KNOW this and so take advantage of that fact. And like I said above, on the outside looking in these women could be the most perfect spouses ever, but doing dirt on the low and the husband never knows because he didn't want to hurt her "feelings". I think it takes a very understanding woman to know why a man would want to do this, and it's usually not because they think their wife is a whore, so I really respect the ladies who get it.
Ultimately, it's your life, your marriage, your husband, your children, and how you choose to go about it is your decision. I just wish women who share your view could put themselves in the other person's shoes for once or even the kid's for that matter and have some empathy for why a man might just do this.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You taking it too personal. It's just a lot of stories out here of girls getting nikkas. Knew a nikka that raised a kid for 12 years then found out it wasn't his and he STILL has to pay child support even after finding out
Breh you're testing the kid i gave birth to because you think i cheated and I'm trying to force you to raise a kid that isn't yours doesn't get more personal than that. Like I said, he can get the DNA test. I'm just leaving. I think I have the right to leave someone that makes me feel like shyt.
BruhManFromTheFifthFlo
Veteran
nikka I'm skipping countryGonna have to keep it that way for the rest of your life cuz one slip up and you gonna have 18 years of hell
This site is like revenge of the betas. When these dudes are 40 STILL broke, STILL unsuccessful, and STILL unattractive they're still going to be crying about the supposed dating preferences of women. It's their coping mechanism. You just have to feel bad for them.Stop typing just to see yourself type. Women have been In this thread.
Myself included.
Keep your lil list of categories of why women are on here.
All you need to know is we on here cause we want to be and we can.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
nikka I'm skipping country
BruhManFromTheFifthFlo
Veteran
You have the right to do what you want, I'm just saying you're being a bit emotional about it. And like i said, it's dirty bytches out here that would do shyt like that. It may not be you but that kind of stuff makes nikkas think
What the fukk are you talking about?
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I said he could get the test. I just don't want to continue the relationship after. I think my feelings are just as important as his and I shouldn't be shamed for not wanting to stay with someone that makes me feel like shyt.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
That makes you look gulity tho. But some guys would do some fukk shyt like that
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You have the right to do what you want, I'm just saying you're being a bit emotional about it. And like i said, it's dirty bytches out here that would do shyt like that. It may not be you but that kind of stuff makes nikkas think
There's no way to not be emotional about it. You're saying you think I would cheat, get pregnant, lie to you, the child, and the real father.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I said he could test the kid. How does that make me look guilty?