Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You're being dramatic. I'm not setting my child up for failure. A child can live a perfectly normal life with divorced parents.
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You're being dramatic. I'm not setting my child up for failure. A child can live a perfectly normal life with divorced parents.
wrong. perfectly normal is having a family and coming home to mum and dad. eating at a table with family. not being shipped around between mum and dad. son got to come home to his mother smashing dudes thats not his dad. why do you think the vast majority of gang members and criminals were raised by single mothers? do you think thats an accident?
just what the black community needs more single mothers.
i pray you never have kids you are sounding like an immature teenager. this isnt a beyonce song this is real life. you are playing with a kids life. smh
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
wrong. perfectly normal is having a family and coming home to mum and dad. eating at a table with family. not being shipped around between mum and dad. son got to come home to his mother smashing dudes thats not his dad. why do you think the vast majority of gang members and criminals were raised by single mothers? do you think thats an accident?
just what the black community needs more single mothers.
Chances are those kids were accidents and raised by mothers that weren't fit to be mothers. If I have a child, the child will be planned and it will be when I'm ready. and I won't be "smashing" anyone since I don't believe in sex outside of marriage and I only want to get married once. Me and my child's father will do our best to make sure our kid doesn't become a criminal or a gang member, we don't have to be married to do that.
and stop it with the "beyonce song" bs no one trying to live their life like a damn song.
you only want to get married once but will get a divorce if he asks for a dna test?
womans logic. why do you deserve to have the child? you have proved you are not emotionally stable enough to take care of a child.
your whole line of thinking is just baffling. so you will only get married once. you ill divorce the guy when he asks for a dna test. you will never marry again and you will never have sex again? AND the child will stay with you? does this make sense to anyone else in this thread?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
You guys are going too hard on Juicy. She just sounds young and naive. Leave it alone. It's her life.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
I thought this thread was about raising another nikkas kid.
This devolved into some other shyt
This devolved into some other shyt
the problem is shes like 28.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
you only want to get married once but will get a divorce if he asks for a dna test?
why do you deserve to have the child? you have proved you are not emotionally stable enough to take care of a child.
your whole line of thinking is just baffling. so you will only get married once. you ill divorce the guy when he asks for a dna test. you will never marry again and you will never have sex again? AND the child will stay with you? does this make sense to anyone else in this thread?
You're all over the place. How does any of this relate? What does me only wanting to get married once have to do with the reason I'll leave someone? What does me not having sex have to do with me having custody of the child? How does leaving a relationship make someone emotionally unstable? You're trying way too hard.
I'm 23.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I agree they're being dramatic, relationships end everyday. but I'm not young or naive.
I think I'm allowed to leave a relationship for any reason and that doesn't reflect on the type of parent I'll be or my mental state. I think It's perfectly normal to be hurt if you tell your spouse you're pregnant with the child that you've both been trying for and they tell you they don't believe it's theirs. I don't know why everyone is trying to make it seem like I'm being dramatic, like it's an everyday thing for husbands to deny their kids and their wives are just overjoyed by it.
because you would supposedly leave someone you loved and decided to spend the rest of your life with because the way them asking for a dna test makes you feel
its not just leaving a relationship. you are leaving a marriage because of the emotions a dna test brings up. marriage is supposed to be a commitment. and you completely back out of your commitment because he asks for a dna test? thats emotionally unstable.
how are men supposed to trust women when they will tell you that they love you and agree to marry you and then file for a divorce the second a dna test gets brought up?
lmao. im not trying hard at all. you are so full of entitlement its amusing. i bet you want alimoney and child support too dont you.
@PartyHeart
I gotta step in and disagree with you here
"Men have the added burden of being uncertain of paternity " isn't the little mild annoyance that you make it out to be if the child isn't theirs. Not just the financial implications but what about years spent bonding or not bonding with a child? What about. The child being deprived of his opportunity to bond or not bond?
It's certainly not the same as "well we women have to go through the pain of childbirth "
Think of it this way. If tomorrow hospitals did away with all safeguards and security to ensure mothers were going home. With. The correct bio baby and it came to light that 30% of us took home the wrong baby, would we women not. Rightfully raise all kinds of he'll to get that addressed? Of course we would.
As far as the comparison to outside babies we can divorce and not concern have any of our monetary or time or emotional resources go towards this outside baby that's not ours. In most states or after a certain amount of time, men can divorce but they cannot deny his monetary resources to or emotional resources to. This equally outside baby.
Posting from my phone. Sorry for. Crazy punctuation and. Capitalization.
I gotta step in and disagree with you here
"Men have the added burden of being uncertain of paternity " isn't the little mild annoyance that you make it out to be if the child isn't theirs. Not just the financial implications but what about years spent bonding or not bonding with a child? What about. The child being deprived of his opportunity to bond or not bond?
It's certainly not the same as "well we women have to go through the pain of childbirth "
Think of it this way. If tomorrow hospitals did away with all safeguards and security to ensure mothers were going home. With. The correct bio baby and it came to light that 30% of us took home the wrong baby, would we women not. Rightfully raise all kinds of he'll to get that addressed? Of course we would.
As far as the comparison to outside babies we can divorce and not concern have any of our monetary or time or emotional resources go towards this outside baby that's not ours. In most states or after a certain amount of time, men can divorce but they cannot deny his monetary resources to or emotional resources to. This equally outside baby.
Posting from my phone. Sorry for. Crazy punctuation and. Capitalization.
Girls get turned on when you verbally assault them
And can everyone please back off Juicy? It's several posters vs just her.
She doesn't even have any babies and is still a newlywed. No need to personalize the argument about hypothetical babies.
Let's keep it relatively cordial please.
She doesn't even have any babies and is still a newlywed. No need to personalize the argument about hypothetical babies.
Let's keep it relatively cordial please.