UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

[Jason B]

I think what these dudes have been arguing for the past two days about (two millenniums actually) is, hey you wanna be a thot then be a thot. Just don't bring a kid into your thotdom and expect the next man to raise it, which is what a lot of women hope to accomplish.

A couple years back I over heard some female coworkers of mine commiserating about the lack of good men out there. This one dominican who got knocked up twice by the same scum bag says "I just want a nice guy" and they all concurred. In my mind, I was like

This is the bullshyt I'm talking about. Again do not be neither a nice guy nor a good guy because you will be the last resort in the dating game.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I would if it would put her at ease cause I'm not selfish and don't have anything to hide regarding the test. Condoms part doesn't really make sense if somebody getting tested "routinely" but I understand you have to wildly exaggerate to try to make a point right now.

Doesn't make sense? Really? Do you think it's impossible to catch something in-between tests? How is using condoms wildly exaggerating?

I honestly don't care if you guys agree or not. It's my life and if I don't want to be forced to test to test my kids every time I get pregnant, I have the right to end the relationship so no/no more children are made.

 

[GoPro]

This is the bullshyt I'm talking about. Again do not be neither a nice guy nor a good guy because you will be the last resort in the dating game.

If youre only intention is to fukk as many women as possible, then nope, don't be the good guy. Loose hot women don't want that guy.

But if you want a nice homely woman, then yes be the good guy.

 

[Jason B]

If youre only intention is to fukk as many women as possible, then nope, don't be the good guy. Loose hot women don't want that guy.

But if you want a nice homely woman, then yes be the good guy.

I absolutely disagreee because women in general view otherwise decent men as fukkin suckas/lames just like they do nice guys who are in actuality weak guys.

 

[kevm3]

Didn't need a study for something that has been so obvious and a lot of the conclusions of the study are nonsense like those sorts of women are seeking 'the best genes'. It's just a convenient way of excusing their actions. You don't see studies talking about men sleeping with strippers and prostitutes because they are seeking the maximum fertility.

At the end of the day, a lot of women place entertainment and the emotional rollercoaster as the number 1 value until they start seeing their clock ticking and they want some super simp to come in and finance an easy lifestyle. Really no different than a lot of guys wanting to smash a bunch of hoes, but then wanting the sweet virgin to settle with. There's no need to try to excuse the behavior by adding some biological tinge to it. A lot of those guys in prison were getting no attention prior to going to prison, but the combination of fame and having a newfound badboy image has some deranged individuals giving them attention. Their genes didn't suddenly shift into superior genes as soon as they hit prison.

 

[philmonroe]

Doesn't make sense? Really? Do you think it's impossible to catch something in-between tests? How is using condoms wildly exaggerating?

I honestly don't care if you guys agree or not. It's my life and if I don't want to be forced to test to test my kids every time I get pregnant, I have the right to end the relationship so no/no more children are made.

Doesn't really make sense. Yep that's what I put so really. Matter of fact really really. No I don't think its impossible to catch something in between tests. Nobody is going to make you and or ask you to test that often so you just was making some shyt up just because that's what I was getting at. You honestly do care since you keep coming back in here going back and forth with people. I don't care what you do just disagree and this is a messageboard. We ain't married so do what you do.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Gotta wonder if alotta nikkas who raising kids are biologically related

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

You ain't stating the truth at all. Also my nikka you're not worthy of propaganda esp on a messageboard full of dudes unless you looking for dikk and I'm "lowering" your value to these dudes with my "propaganda". My views aren't narrow at all yours are just bullshyt on this issue and usually come from ugly cats not getting chicks.

Sound like a female in here calling nikkas ugly n shyt

 

[philmonroe]

Sound like a female in here calling nikkas ugly n shyt

Whatever makes you feel better about yourself man

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Didn't need a study for something that has been so obvious and a lot of the conclusions of the study are nonsense like those sorts of women are seeking 'the best genes'. It's just a convenient way of excusing their actions. You don't see studies talking about men sleeping with strippers and prostitutes because they are seeking the maximum fertility.

At the end of the day, a lot of women place entertainment and the emotional rollercoaster as the number 1 value until they start seeing their clock ticking and they want some super simp to come in and finance an easy lifestyle. Really no different than a lot of guys wanting to smash a bunch of hoes, but then wanting the sweet virgin to settle with. There's no need to try to excuse the behavior by adding some biological tinge to it. A lot of those guys in prison were getting no attention prior to going to prison, but the combination of fame and having a newfound badboy image has some deranged individuals giving them attention. Their genes didn't suddenly shift into superior genes as soon as they hit prison.

nikka i dont want no dam virgin to settle with i could careless how many bodies she got

As long as im the only body she got when we together

 

[kevm3]

nikka i dont want no dam virgin to settle with i could careless how many bodies she got

As long as im the only body she got when we together

And what exactly is the likelihood that a woman that has slept with, let's say 50 men, will be the only body she'll be satisfied with when she gets with you?

 

[Big Boss]

30 percent of married men are not raising their kids and they don't even know it

 

[Draje]

On one hand, every dude should get his child tested. Told my girl of 3 years that we getting tested, no matter what, and I did get my son tested.

On the other, why are we lambasting women for this attraction? nikkas talk about how some women are for fukking but not wifing all the time. This is just the women version of that.

The problem comes from lying about it and tricking dudes into fatherhood. That's scumbag shyt.

 

[jason stackhouse]

I really hate this whole internet "alpha/beta" thing.
Can we just say masculine/feminine?

Cause lets just face it.

Masculine
______________
-Assertive
-Straight Forward
-Brave
-Tough
-Confident


Feminine
_____________
-Weak
-Sensitive
-Emotional
-Frail
-bytchy


So in other words girls are attracted to real men(masculine) similar to the cave man days.

 

[Jason B]

I really hate this whole internet "alpha/beta" thing.
Can we just say masculine/feminine?

Cause lets just face it.

Masculine
______________
-Assertive
-Straight Forward
-Brave
-Tough
-Confident


Feminine
_____________
-Weak
-Sensitive
-Emotional
-Frail
-bytchy


So in other words girls are attracted to real men(masculine) similar to the cave man days.

You are right in this regard. But what is often downplayed is the misrepresentation of the two in regards to how decent men are viewed by women as being feminine by just because they have a moral compass TO NOT do scandalous, foul shyt and the men who do scandalous shyt are viewed as masculine.

Since women often reward the scandalous men with love and respect, this gives other men the incentive to be just as scandalous because such behavior receives positive reinforcement.