UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

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This some real shyt. I regret myself not locking down a childhood sweetheart cuz I wasn't focused or ready back in the day. Getting to know new women and finding out their issues later on is a lot to deal with.
My regret is being too serious and only focusing on getting good grades. I grew up mad poor and as a black man I could not afford to mess up in school so I went HAM in school. Said fukk the parties and chasing women, only study. I wish I had a balance, like you can still do well in school and chase the good women that you want. But I 100% focused in school and I regret not finding that one woman in College that would end up being my wife. :francis: I regret ignoring women's advances too as I was afraid i was going to get distracted from school work. Growing up poor really ain't shyt man, the pressure to succeed and make it out the hood really got to me.
 

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My regret is being too serious and only focusing on getting good grades. I grew up mad poor and as a black man I could not afford to mess up in school so I went HAM in school. Said fukk the parties and chasing women, only study. I wish I had a balance, like you can still do well in school and chase the good women that you want. But I 100% focused in school and I regret not finding that one woman in College that would end up being my wife. :francis: I regret ignoring women's advances too as I was afraid i was going to get distracted from school work. Growing up poor really ain't shyt man, the pressure to succeed and make it out the hood really got to me.
:mjcry: Pass on punani brehs . But seriously what’s ya dating outlook as of now
 

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:mjcry: Pass on punani brehs . But seriously what’s ya dating outlook as of now
Definitely open to dating women now. But its tricky cuz all the good girls been snatched up (likely in college) and girls nowadays are demanding too much or they got too much bodies.

I really fukked up in college and it pains me to think about it.
 

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Y'all nikkas take ANY opportunity to shyt on women don't you? :skip:

the study from UCLA shows women ain’t shyt. The numbers don’t lie. Only difference from white women to black women is that white women keep it on the low until one day they show Kenny divorce papers and take half his stuff with the kids included. black women blatantly tell hard working black men that they will be clean up men while some goon that plays xbox all day will get to have her best years and later on bytch and complain that “there are no good men out here” to pick up her garbage she created. As I say again women ain’t shyt. they chose to show you what they want You to see. She is a whore for one dude and give rules and regulations for another. fukk em. :beli:
 

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nice guys mad that these women want the nikkas with swag to dikk them down #NiceGuysFinishLast :mjlol:

the thing is... why don’t women just deal with the swag dudes and leave us hard working dudes alone? Why is It hard for men to hold women accountable? :pachaha:
 

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Have fun being single moms and more statistics
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THIS. Don’t come over to my place asking me to help your fix your sink, teach your snot nose kid to euro step on the court or change your tire. Ask that clown that got you pregnant and left to do it. He can pause his online gaming, I can’t pause my life for you and your b*stard child :usure:
 

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I have told the story of wife #1. :mjcry:




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You know its hard out here for a Simpppppp! :noah:



Had to literally change my whole way of thinking after that fiasco. :mjcry:

brah... I remember that long ass essay you wrote back in 2015. This man been through a lot. Driving state to state to find out these females truly ain’t shyt. :to:
 

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I just took parts that interested me
women face the threat of being left without the resources needed to successfully raise their children. Ancestral women needed to be sensitive to how well a man could invest in her and her children, and also how likely he would be to continue to do so for the duration of time it took to raise a child to maturity.

And.
Thus ancestral women also needed to be able to predict, in the absence of observable wealth, which men would be most likely to be good providers in the future. Studies of modern hunter-gatherers' foraging returns further indicate that ancestral men probably did not reach their peak level of productivity until relatively late, for example, in their mid-30s suggesting that the observation of a young man's foraging returns may have provided an imperfect estimation of his potential quality as a provider.

Hmm. . . . .wait what . . .the . . . fukk . . . :stopitslime:
Fourth, women display skepticism by often requiring large economic investments before consenting to either marriage or sexual intercourse. Being skeptical of men's intentions, delaying sexual intercourse, and demanding large initial economic investments allow women to better evaluate the true intentions of potential partners and make less costly errors.

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According to life history theory (Bonner, 1965; Hill, 1993), women who are exposed to harsh environments in their childhood may facultatively adjust their reproductive strategies to favor a more short-term oriented strategy, in which there is little expectation of male provisioning after conception (Belsky, Steinberg, & Draper, 1991; Chisholm et al., 1993; Stearns, 1992). Women pursuing this strategy may engage in sexual activity at an earlier age, be more willing to have sexual intercourse early in their relationships, place less emphasis on emotional attachments before sexual intimacy, decrease the duration of relationships, place greater emphasis on immediate resource extraction from sexual partners, and place greater emphasis on indicators of good genes, including physical attractiveness. Several researchers have demonstrated an association between a childhood environment that includes cues to relationship instability—including harsh parenting, father absence, and socioeconomic stress—and short-term oriented adult mating behaviors

Take care of your daughters dammit :martin:
Father absence. The absence of an investing adult male in early childhood is another possible cue that may shift women's reproductive strategies. Draper and Harpending (1982) proposed that the presence or absence of a biological father in the home during early development provides girls with information about the reproductive environment they will likely encounter in adulthood. In fact, girls who grew up in fatherabsent homes are more likely than girls who grew up in homes with a father present to engage in the short-term mating behaviors described above, and they are more likely to begin reproduction early (Ellis et al., 2003). In a study looking at the effect of father absence on girls' orientation toward early parenthood, researchers found that girls who grew up in father-absent homes showed greater interest in infants, measured by time spent looking at images of infants compared to other images, at an earlier age than girls whose fathers has been present in the home (Maestripieri, Roney, DeBias, Durante, & Spaepen, 2004).

Selection Pressures Favoring Dual Mating Offspring success depends in part upon the quality of genes inherited from parents. Because half the child's genes come from its father, but it is the mother who bears the majority of the obligatory costs of reproduction, it is likely that there was strong selection for discriminating mate choice among women on the basis of indicators of good genes. Although the best outcome for an ancestral woman may have been to form a longterm social relationship with a partner who could both invest heavily and transmit good genes to offspring, several sources of evidence indicate that women probably faced trade-offs in mate choice, and that gaining access to investment and good genes through the same partner was often not possible. (basically had to pick either good genes or proper investing partner)


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Similarly, Roney, Hanson, Durante, and Maestripieri (2006) found that women preferred facial photographs of men who were high in testosterone as short-term mates, but not as long-term mates. Using the same set of photographs, and with no other information, women also rated men who had scored high on a measure of interest-in-infants as more attractive as long-term mates, but not as short-term mates, further suggesting the trade-off between investment and heritable quality (Roney et al., 2006).

:dwillhuh:Body morphology. Height is also sexually dimorphic and has been linked with reproductive success in men
(I thought this was just coli bullshyt:mjcry:)

I do the same thing to them. I refuse to deal with a woman that isn’t 5’9-6ft, works out and under 25. I put that on my tinder profile I got banned. Told a chick that she spit her gum at me and her friends started to hit me. They don’t like it when you beat them at their own game. :ohhh::unimpressed::pachaha:
 

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Nothing wrong with a nikka stepping up to raise a kid that he KNOWS isn't his (as long as he's 100% sure, and doesn't try to bail out after he's in too deep)

On the other hand....when you're coerced into it after being deceived, via religion/female persuasion......like this Christian cac whose wife got pregnant by a young nikka who they let in their house :snoop:....



dude... everything is wrong with what you said. There is a problem with a man raising a kid that is not his. No man is suppose to step up and save women from the choices they made. Listen, women know exactly what they are doing they use that “my emotions” bullshyt as a scapegoat to get out of being held accountable for their port choices.
 

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What I get from this study is years and years ago.....back when female sexuality was guarded by the older generation, the fathers and the elderly women would heavily scrutinize any potential male suitor. Back in previous centuries, having a b*stard kid was the worst thing a woman could do. And women couldn't work. So they had to marry well. And to make sure the daughters married well, the fathers and the older females in the family would steer their daughters away from the Lotharios and the Casanovas (bad boys of their times). Because once they had sex with the daughters or got them pregnant....once word got out....those girls could never marry anyone of worth.

The parents wanted their daughters with good, stable providers because they would commit to them for a life time but, the daughters were truly attracted to the Lotharios and the Casanovas (bad boys). The fathers knew those types would never offer commitment. They had to shame women (slut shaming) into marrying the nice guy betas they weren't sexually attracted to for her own good.

That entire system is over with. Dead and gone. Buried in the ground. Women don't need men for resources anymore, so they can have whoever they want and make their own money. And they're free to have the Lotharios and Casanovas without any shame. Some of these chicks will get the bad boys to settle down with them. But a large amount end up ran through sexually and raising b*stard children. Before you had women using their youth to attract good mates who were providers. Now women spend their youth attracting high status mates, and once their youth has left them, often with children, they try to attract the provider types in a last ditch attempt. Backwards.

The great thing about this is men get to have sex with women before marriage. The bad thing is you end up with a scenario where women have b*stard kids and numerous sexual partners but, expect some guy to marry them.

All done by their poor choices. They never learn from their mistakes. :mjlol:
 

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To be fair, if you broke down men's mating habits on an anthropological level, they would sound just as shytty.

Don't men also want a wife at home, even as they have something on the side?

Don't men also place unspoiled p*ssy on a pedestal but lust after promiscuous women?

No. There is common ground with this topic. Women chose those particular men to deal with to put a burden on society.
 

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You have that right. :manny: He can test the kids because they would be his too but I know they would be his. It's just the whole disrespect thing. Like, I'm pregnant with your kid and all you can think is im a dirty lying hoe that would not only cheat but get pregnant and make you raise the kid. I don't want to be with someone that thinks of me like that.

Tough luck sport. If women were truthful you wouldn’t have this problem. He is doing the right thing by protecting himself and getting tested. :usure:
 
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