UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

[Ashley Banks]

You're not testing because you don't know who the father is. You're testing because you know exactly who the father is.
And you should know your husband well enough to know that he loves you and doesn't think you're a hoe.

That's your right ofcourse. Whatever works for you and your husband works for yall.

It's a reality that it's mommas baby daddy's maybe though.

But if he didn't think I was hoe why does he need to test our kids? And shouldn't he know me well enough to know that I wouldn't do something like that? He has the right to test our kids but that would be the end of this marriage. It wouldn't be the same, all I would think about was how shytty he thinks I am.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

What the typical coli poster looks like; who claims to be #HOH and #GMB.

nikka look like the square root of 50 cent

 

[MalikReloaded]

But if he didn't think I was hoe why does he need to test our kids? And shouldn't he know me well enough to know that I wouldn't do something like that? He has the right to test our kids but that would be the end of this marriage. It wouldn't be the same, all I would think about was how shytty he thinks I am.

if you loved your husband, you would understand why he needs to know for sure.

you know for sure.

why can't he?

think about how selfish you sound. because of your hurt feelings, some guy is supposed to go 20 years raising some kids that you say are his to keep you from feeling offended. women verify everything else about a man. His credit score, his salary, his debts, his medical health but, you feel mad offended about someone verifying paternity.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

This scares me for some reason. Everytime I think about raising another man child I keep thinking about

 

[Ashley Banks]

if you loved your husband, you would understand why he needs to know for sure.

you know for sure.

why can't he?

think about how selfish you sound. because of your hurt feelings, some guy is supposed to go 20 years raising some kids that you say are his to keep you from feeling offended. women verify everything else about a man. His credit score, his salary, his debts, his medical health but, you feel mad offended about someone verifying paternity.

I never said he couldn't do it, I would just leave him. Not like he would care, I'm just lying hoe to him. Right?

 

[ALonelyDad]

I am a nice guy and I will take care of any coli women and their kids, please dm me your number

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I guess but I know a lot of nerdy looking guys that would easily take heads off. It's 2016, you would be surprised by the number of boys and men joining their local fight gyms. Anyone could easily become a feature on the next WS fight comp.

"Old folks say "cam stop ur route
Why you gotta get the guns, just box it out"
Listen, that there's strife, only fightin' is the doctor
And that's for your life."
-

 

[wickedsm]

But if he didn't think I was hoe why does he need to test our kids? And shouldn't he know me well enough to know that I wouldn't do something like that? He has the right to test our kids but that would be the end of this marriage. It wouldn't be the same, all I would think about was how shytty he thinks I am.

I see how you're seeing it, I just see it the opposite way.
Obviously those 30% of guys who are unknowingly raising babies that aren't theirs biologically trusted their wives too.

I personally think that every baby should be tested at the hospital and then there wouldnt be this stigma that you would feel your husband didn't trust you.

Since that's not likely too become the rule any time soon so the next best thing is for men to voice their want for a test from early on in the relationship. That way hopefully there's no arguing or bad feelings on either part.

Children are entitled to know their biological history at the very least.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

I know I wouldn't cheat on my husband but if he said he wanted to DNA test our kids I would make sure I didn't have any. And if I was pregnant or already had the kid, that would be the end of our relationship. Hoes need to test their kids to know who the father is, since I'm not a hoe, I don't need to test them. I'm not being a good wife to you so you can treat me like a hoe.

In other words, he aint the father. Got it.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I see how you're seeing it, I just see it the opposite way.
Obviously those 30% of guys who are unknowingly raising babies that aren't theirs biologically trusted their wives too.

I personally think that every baby should be tested at the hospital and then there wouldnt be this stigma that you would feel your husband didn't trust you.

Since that's not likely too become the rule any time soon so the next best thing is for men to voice their want for a test from early on in the relationship. That way hopefully there's no arguing or bad feelings on either part.

Children are entitled to know their biological history at the very least.

yeah it would be best for him to bring it up early on, so I could just avoid it altogether and not get pregnant or leave if I wanted kids.

I honestly wouldn't want the hospital to test my kids either. I'm just against DNA testing. Of course if I needed it to be done like if I didn't know who the father of my child was, I would do it. But since I'll never have that problem, I don't want any of my children I have to do it.

 

[Ashley Banks]

In other words, he aint the father. Got it.

Um I said he could test them and I would've try to stop him and that he would be the father. I just don't want to stay with someone that thinks so negatively of me. I think I have that right.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Um I said he could test them and I would've try to stop him and that he would be the father. I just don't want to stay with someone that thinks so negatively of me. I think I have that right.

So your feelings are more important than his, which means you actually don't love that man. You must be using him to keep a roof over your head, because love is sacrifice, and if you're not even willing to sacrifice your little hurt feelings to give that man peace of mind, then you must be out here trying to have it both ways.

 

[wickedsm]

Um I said he could test them and I would've try to stop him and that he would be the father. I just don't want to stay with someone that thinks so negatively of me. I think I have that right.

Question. Not to put you on the spot at all but do you guys as a couple believe in transparency in general? Like phone and email access?

 

[MalikReloaded]

so basically any guy that has kids with you has to take your word for it that it's their child if they want to keep you happy and have a relationship with you.

that's emotional blackmail.

what's there to hide?

your.....opinion.......would sound so, so, sooooo sketchy if it was about taking an HIV test instead.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

To be fair, if you broke down men's mating habits on an anthropological level, they would sound just as shytty.

Don't men also want a wife at home, even as they have something on the side?

Don't men also place unspoiled p*ssy on a pedestal but lust after promiscuous women?

It's not the same. Men don't want to impregnate women who aren't nurturing and loyal then marry a nurturing woman to raise the kid. Lmao that would be counter productive to say the least.

Yes, I'd love to have something on the side if my girl liked her too. I was trying to marry these two best friends I dated. I didn't date them at the same time. A man can dream. I call them Eve and Delilah. They were beautiful, mean, and lol yes promiscuous. I did lust after them. I was young and still learning the game. "Unspoiled p*ssy" that made me laugh. I'm not sure what that means.

I know I wouldn't cheat on my husband but if he said he wanted to DNA test our kids I would make sure I didn't have any. And if I was pregnant or already had the kid, that would be the end of our relationship. Hoes need to test their kids to know who the father is, since I'm not a hoe, I don't need to test them. I'm not being a good wife to you so you can treat me like a hoe.

I wouldn't sleep with a girl I wouldn't raise a kid with. I wouldn't marry a woman I couldn't trust enough to know it's mine when she's pregnant. I think it's a little naive but believing in love and having faith requires a little naivete. I view relationships as partnerships. Trust is the foundation of all my relationships. My mom told me if I ever have to think about trusting or loving someone then I don't.