UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

[badtguy]

Lol DNA on a kid is mandatory TF. I don't care if it's my wife or not.

After all when responsible people start getting serious with eachother they get STD test. How is that any different?

We know married couples are exchanging STD all the time by cheating. If my chicks says let's get an STD test before or during marriage. I won't be mad at ill, I'd understand.

 

[Robert Trejo]

To *some* men, providing for their family makes them a simp...

Never that. Being able to provide makes you a man. That's what alpha males do in nature. Providing is not just money it's also protecting and showing your woman that you can handle things.

 

[badtguy]

Hoes get DNA test? Lol I guess hoes get STD test too? Hoes take birth control? Hoes make dudes wear condoms?

 

[Amphibious]

Awww shyt
The daily nice guys finish last discussion!
Watch all the coli SIMPs poor there hearts out.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don't think I was going where you think I was going...

I actually thought if y'all have a really open trusting relationship in general that
It would support your feeling of "where did this come from?" "Why would you doubt me?"

Like I said though I wasn't trying to pick with you or single you out.

It's fine! I understand not everyone thinks like me but I do everything I do to avoid this. You know? I waited until we got married to have sex, I'm always honest with him, he cam check any of my social media, my phone, email internet history whatever so if he tries that on me after all of that, then he'll never trust me so I think it would be better to just move on.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Imagine if the shyt in this study was more socially acceptable in our society. For women to be allowed to let their lust dictate who impregnates her, then gets to choose another suitor for the job of raising the child.

"Well I had a baby by that fine ass nikka Jodi, but he ain't shyt so I want you to raise the baby".

 

[Barnett114]

Imagine if the shyt in this study was more socially acceptable in our society. For women to be allowed to let their lust dictate who impregnates her, then gets to choose another suitor for the job of raising the child.

"Well I had a baby by that fine ass nikka Jodi, but he ain't shyt so I want you to raise the baby".

It already happens

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

It already happens

You ain't lying.

 

[MalikReloaded]

What kind of alpha men can't provide? Being able to provide don't make you a simp

Read bro....read.


Commitment skepticism.

A man's access to resources is not useful to a woman if he is not also willing to commit them to his partner and her children. This is a nontrivial concern, because men faced trade-offs between parenting effort directed toward long-term mates and mating effort directed outside of long-term partnerships. According to Error Management Theory (Haselton & Buss, 2000), there should be systematic biases in assessing others' intentions when the costs of making different types of errors are asymmetric. In the case of assessing a man's interest in long-term relationship commitment, Haselton and Buss hypothesized that it was more costly for an ancestral woman to falsely infer commitment in a prospective mate and risk being abandoned than it was to err on the side of skepticism and risk missing an opportunity to conceive (an opportunity that would have been relatively easy to replace).

 

[General Mills]

I can't wait until you meet a really good beautiful kind strong chill woman who spoils you and caters to you, makes $$$, holds you down and twists you out AND whom your Moms will approve of. That day is coming.

Mama Mills will be so proud.

 

[MalikReloaded]

It already happens

More than people realize

 

[Robert Trejo]

So are you telling me alpha males can't provide and also commit? In my opinion a man can do that with out degrading himself.

@MalikReloaded

 

[Ashley Banks]

So your feelings are more important than his, which means you actually don't love that man. You must be using him to keep a roof over your head, because love is sacrifice, and if you're not even willing to sacrifice your little hurt feelings to give that man peace of mind, then you must be out here trying to have it both ways.

I have limits and if I do everything to show you I'm faithful and you still don't believe after years of being together, then and I said I wouldn't stop him. I'd just be done.

 

[Barnett114]

More than people realize

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

So are you telling me alpha males can't provide and also commit? In my opinion a man can do that with out degrading himself.

In my world, they DO and they CAN. I don't have any doubts about men- in reality. I was just addressing the skepticism that some people seem to have towards fidelity and trust in a relationship. I don't have any reason to cheat or even entertain that. I also have no reason for my children to not be a part of a household of me and my husband. Children deserve to be born into a loving supportive household. That can't happen if he and I are at odds or don't trust each other. Loyalty is so very important.