What Is The Number One Reason The Opposite Sex Loses Interest In You?

[ScottyG]

I hold them accountable, they don't like it

 

[sfgiants]

Not being the guy to fix the damage a previous relationship caused.

I got my own problems

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Little signs of distance

 

[SupremexKing]

intelligent conversation. women's game nowadays in based off the assumption that you're an idiot, a simp, or somehow not game to their nature.

it's extremely disappointing to them once they find out you won't acquiesce to certain things the average dude will, and i don't blame them i guess.

letting them know i have an intense disdain for cacs.

also lately females have been on their "political" shyt, so if you're not a liberal or inter sectional feminist (meaning kissing women's ass for existing) then you're problematic.

so it's either get with a semi-"smart" chick and acquiesce to her ideology (something that personally for me is totally diametrically opposed to being a man)

or get with a not so bright chick but be tortured at how you can't have a basic conversation with them.

it's weird, they pay their bills, get degrees, maintain great credit, but cannot speak on any complex concepts outside of regurgitation

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Inconsistency...


Im really just juggling other females tho, and aint got the time.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

This right here.

You often game a chick just to smash for a while. Suddenly she's hooked on you. However, you are really not feeling her like that. Her emotional investment could be at 70% to your 30% at some point.

After a while, you STOP gaming and start acting out your true feelings: texting/calling less, conversations get shorter and less interesting...because make them less interesting, etc.

It's all downhill from there.

I'll be honest. That's another reason women lose interest in me. I know how to get em', but don't care to really put the effort in to keep em'

Women are draining. Always overly emotional, overly sensitive, always complaining about some stupid ass shyt that doesn't even matter, always in crisis mode, always getting an attitude quickly when the shyt ain't even necessary, etc. I get turned off by that. That shyt is draining, especially at my age

I'm dealing with REAL shyt in my life that I could be focusing on, not dealing with your self created issues.

They are a drain on peace of mind and spare time. So, once I hit or get over that "honeymoon phase" where those endorphins are flowing from being involved with someone new, I'm over them

 

[Cloud]

Low confidence

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

intelligent conversation. women's game nowadays in based off the assumption that you're an idiot, a simp, or somehow not game to their nature.

it's extremely disappointing to them once they find out you won't acquiesce to certain things the average dude will, and i don't blame them i guess.

letting them know i have an intense disdain for cacs.

also lately females have been on their "political" shyt, so if you're not a liberal or inter sectional feminist (meaning kissing women's ass for existing) then you're problematic.

so it's either get with a semi-"smart" chick and acquiesce to her ideology (something that personally for me is totally diametrically opposed to being a man)

or get with a not so bright chick but be tortured at how you can't have a basic conversation with them.

it's weird, they pay their bills, get degrees, maintain great credit, but cannot speak on any complex concepts outside of regurgitation

What is this shyt about bro? Something about BLACK women being offended by a BLACK man expressing his loyalty and love for BLACK people. They (Black women) also get offended when you start speaking down on illegal immigration from these damn Mexicans, which hurts Black folks in the workplace

I don't know what's up with our women being offended or feeling the need to be contrary when you express an intense love for and affinity for your people over stupid ass, demonic CACs and illegal Mexicans wanting to overtake this country like a roach infestation

They immediately get on some "all lives matter" type shyt and start trying to lecture me on the "error of my ways"

 

[Afro]

Indeed the game has changed with smartphones, apps such as Tinder, and social media. Things are more fast-paced, and courting is dead (because of women).

There are two ways I've noticed women losing interest in me.

1. I fail to physically escalate on the first date. These bytches have 100s of nikkas in their inboxes. They don't have time to move slow. If you don't grow some balls and escalate to at least a kiss on the first date, they will move on. With all the nikkas in her inbox, if she chose to link up with you, she's ready to get it poppin. Once I actually internalized this, my p*ssy rate went way up.

2. I was too eager. If my nose gets too wide open, it will repel most chicks. Keep shyt casual, and if it turns into something more, it will do so organically. I was running through OKCupid & POF chicks before I met my girl. She happened to be the one that organically developed into a relationship, because we're so good for each other. However, trying to force romance or relationship status will run a bytch away from you every time.

I'm definitely guilty of number 2. "I don't want to waste my time" is my thought process but yea it would turn ME off if a woman pursued me the same way.

But I will take number 1 to heart also

I'm not great at escalating.

For me, I'm inconsistent with affection. I get lost in my own world too much and sometimes they take it as I don't care about them. It's not the case at all, when you've been alone for a long time, you kinda get used to being alone period


Also when a woman is frustrated about things and just wants to vent, I'm always trying to find a solution.
I know women like to do that, but when I vent, its because I'm trying to figure something out. Not just saying it out loud to feel better. I mess this up a lot

 

[WesCrook]

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[Commish]

I'm talking about the things that you CONSISTENTLY notice as being the reason that your relationships fizzle out or don't prosper long term...

For me, I refuse to play the fool for a woman. I believe in spoiling being a two way street. Not me just constantly giving and her doing all of the taking with no reciprocation of the giving. Women these days don't want a good man with morals and values. This ain't 1998 anymore. Social media done changed the game, permanently. Women nowadays want a chump that they can use and drain of resources for their own personal benefit.

A walking ATM with a low IQ and low self esteem to match. And I can never be that. I have never just given a woman my money with no return on my investment. She either has to be cooking, be super sweet and loyal, believe in spoiling her man, etc. But just because you got a fat ass and every other sucker you run across pays you? Naw. Ain't happening this way. So they lose interest when they see they can't play me and that I'm not an idiot


Also. I call women out on their nonsense. I don't let her bad attitude hold me hostage. You got an attitude? Ok. Holla back when you're over it and ready to have a civil, adult conversation. Your attitude doesn't cause me to go into panic/ass kissing mode for fear of losing you or us not speaking anymore. You wanna leave? There's the door. I'll have you replaced by sundown

Remember. The power in all relationships lies with whoever cares less. And, I'll make sure that's always me

OP..

This is one of my favorite posts of this year by far! I could not have said it better!! Great post! Salute to ya!

 

[ViShawn]

Not giving them enough attention.

Talking too much.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

I'm talking about the things that you CONSISTENTLY notice as being the reason that your relationships fizzle out or don't prosper long term...

For me, I refuse to play the fool for a woman. I believe in spoiling being a two way street. Not me just constantly giving and her doing all of the taking with no reciprocation of the giving. Women these days don't want a good man with morals and values. This ain't 1998 anymore. Social media done changed the game, permanently. Women nowadays want a chump that they can use and drain of resources for their own personal benefit.

A walking ATM with a low IQ and low self esteem to match. And I can never be that. I have never just given a woman my money with no return on my investment. She either has to be cooking, be super sweet and loyal, believe in spoiling her man, etc. But just because you got a fat ass and every other sucker you run across pays you? Naw. Ain't happening this way. So they lose interest when they see they can't play me and that I'm not an idiot


Also. I call women out on their nonsense. I don't let her bad attitude hold me hostage. You got an attitude? Ok. Holla back when you're over it and ready to have a civil, adult conversation. Your attitude doesn't cause me to go into panic/ass kissing mode for fear of losing you or us not speaking anymore. You wanna leave? There's the door. I'll have you replaced by sundown

Remember. The power in all relationships lies with whoever cares less. And, I'll make sure that's always me

This is why some of them want to get married so bad
To have that power over you to the point where you have to put up with all you described because you don't want to deal with divorce
Imagine having to deal with all of that and not being able to leave without legal consequences

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

OP..

This is one of my favorite posts of this year by far! I could not have said it better!! Great post! Salute to ya!

Respect breh. Real nikkas gonna recognize real nikkas every single time Every man, if you ain't a sucka and you recognize TRUE female nature, you gonna recognize and respect the game in here being put down by certain brehs in here

 

[42 Monks]

People say that I care too much

Or they do and they're not used to it

That's why I'm all about heaux now I'm tired