How come no one calls em out on making another human being a fetish?
When I was younger, I thought "Cool someone likes me for me" I wasn't woke at all. Thinking back on it, they all had father issues and I feel like they used me to "get back" at their parents for whatever reason. I had some who (later on I realized) wanted the stereotypical black guy they saw in movies and rap videos.
Fast forward a few years, I legit had a (white) girl tell me she liked the idea of me more than me myself . I curbed her so fast. Then went back
then walked away that same night, deleting that number for the last time.![jawalrus :jawalrus: :jawalrus:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/jawalrus.png)
My point is how come people cape,simp,etc for people who never respected you to being with? Who only see your entire race as a sexual object? I don't know if I could ever date a white girl again and being more aware now, how can you? Even back then, if she said somethin racial, I wouldn't just take it. So many fights.
Had a white girl tell me "It's hard being white ya know? Especially a girl in these times. In this area man, it's crazy"
I'm like![ohhh :ohhh: :ohhh:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/ohhh.png)
maybe..."
"Hol up
"
"What?!
"
Best time I've ever had was with this Filipino/black nerdy chick. We both had way too many demons, but I like to think she gave me a new perspective on dating. I never thought about race when dating, thinking it wasn't a big deal. As much as race shouldn't be an issue, it is. It's our reality and the amount of times I've been threatened and make a joke in front of their families, it hardly seems worth it.
I recently lost a friend to the PAWG life, so it got me thinkin![yeshrug :yeshrug: :yeshrug:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/yeshrug.png)
When I was younger, I thought "Cool someone likes me for me" I wasn't woke at all. Thinking back on it, they all had father issues and I feel like they used me to "get back" at their parents for whatever reason. I had some who (later on I realized) wanted the stereotypical black guy they saw in movies and rap videos.
Fast forward a few years, I legit had a (white) girl tell me she liked the idea of me more than me myself . I curbed her so fast. Then went back
![snoop :snoop: :snoop:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/snoop.png)
![jawalrus :jawalrus: :jawalrus:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/jawalrus.png)
My point is how come people cape,simp,etc for people who never respected you to being with? Who only see your entire race as a sexual object? I don't know if I could ever date a white girl again and being more aware now, how can you? Even back then, if she said somethin racial, I wouldn't just take it. So many fights.
Had a white girl tell me "It's hard being white ya know? Especially a girl in these times. In this area man, it's crazy"
I'm like
![ohhh :ohhh: :ohhh:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/ohhh.png)
![jbhmm :jbhmm: :jbhmm:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/jbhmmm.png)
"Hol up
![why :why: :why:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/why.png)
"What?!
![stopitlsime :stopitslime: :stopitslime:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/stopitslime.png)
Best time I've ever had was with this Filipino/black nerdy chick. We both had way too many demons, but I like to think she gave me a new perspective on dating. I never thought about race when dating, thinking it wasn't a big deal. As much as race shouldn't be an issue, it is. It's our reality and the amount of times I've been threatened and make a joke in front of their families, it hardly seems worth it.
I recently lost a friend to the PAWG life, so it got me thinkin
![yeshrug :yeshrug: :yeshrug:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/yeshrug.png)