Why do men get shamed for liking big women?

Ms.CuriousCat

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Can you ever find someone sexually attractive without it being a fetish?

Yes. The difference between being attracted to someone and having a fetish for a particular group is, amongst other things, the intention and exclusivity that comes with it.

You filter people by that trait and then think about them as an individual. You're dating that trait not that person.

If a guy says he only dates big girls and specifically goes out to find big girls then it's a fetish. If a European American girl only wants to have sex with African American guys and isn't interested in anyone else then it's a fetish.

If an African American girl only wants fellow African American men then it's not a fetish, it's prejudice.
 

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This is one of the only times when the "why do you care about where another man puts his dikk at :dame: applies. Clowning someone for dating your oppressors is fine but if you dating bbw black women, there is no issue. And let's keep it 100, how many nikkas do you actually think would or even could turn @Marti (:wow::ohlawd:) down (raw:banderas::manny:):mjgrin:?
 

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Yes. The difference between being attracted to someone and having a fetish for a particular group is, amongst other things, the intention and exclusivity that comes with it.

You filter people by that trait and then think about them as an individual. You're dating that trait not that person.

If a guy says he only dates big girls and specifically goes out to find big girls then it's a fetish. If a European American girl only wants to have sex with African American guys and isn't interested in anyone else then it's a fetish.

If an African American girl only wants fellow African American men then it's not a fetish, it's prejudice.
Seems like a bunch of mental gymnastics leading to the same conclusion, which is fukking who you find attractive
 

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Some BBWs put the weight on quiet well & have cute faces.

Dudes will clown u if shes busted but

Ive seen more women more judgemental of another womans looks. "U think shes cute:hhh:?". Commenting on every part of her. Dudes will smash regardless.
 
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