Why do men get shamed for liking big women?

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Saying that you have a broad interest or even prefer women who are bigger it's cool. Going specifically after big girls and wanting them because of that specifically is weird.

It's weird to be attracted to a certain type of woman?

It's weird to be attracted to how most women are?

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

cause they look unhealthy .idk
never heard no one get shamed for this.

i know some bbws taking good care of my nikkas that got records/cant get jobs.
i appreciate them.very much

You haven't been here long have you

 

[DPresidential]

Those who do the shaming are completely held prisoner by societal standards and peer pressure.

Since those people live in the NOW, they believe courting a Kardashian because she'll garner you so much validation by being on your arm somehow trumps the fact that if you do spend the rest of your life with her and at age 65 with at least another 20 years to live, you'll want a person who you'll actually be able to enjoy being around.

Now, am I saying the most attractive women are hollow personalities? No. Am I saying big women are all such great people? No.

But, if you're a person judging and critiquing others on their mates not meeting your or societal standards... no matter the size, you're working little dikk nikka logic.

Saying that you have a broad interest or even prefer women who are bigger it's cool. Going specifically after big girls and wanting them because of that specifically is weird.

This, I agree with.

It reminds me of when I was in my early 20s and would salivate at the thought of meeting Brazilian women. I had to take a step back and realize I'm only thinking that way because I'm legitimately fetishizing them on some creepy objectivity shyt.

You could see an average women, and then tell me that she's Brazilian and my indoctrinated ass would have instantly been more attracted to her.

So, when I hear brehs talking about they target big girls or a certain subsect of women...it is kind of weird.

 

[Zero]

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Ethnicity/Tribe? How do you feel about AA'?

I'm Somali. I don't really know any African Americans. I've been on holiday to the states so I've seen people who I assumed were AA but the coli has been my only two way interaction. One way via media: TV, music and books.

So any views I hold are very simplistic.

 

[K.Dot]

I'm Somali. I don't really know any African Americans. I've been on holiday to the states so I've seen people who I assumed were AA but the coli has been my only two way interaction. One way via media: TV, music and books.

So any views I hold are very simplistic.

I live in Ohio which is a Somali stronghold, but I'm always curious of how my people are perceived out of the states, what's your view so far?

 

[Marti]

but that's different because nobody, and i mean no mother fukker body, likes ugly women. Even the ugly women that i've been friends with or had relationships with, I didn't like them because of their looks. Big women can actually look sexy.

Its odd that u say this because ugly skinny women have been my number one haters my whole life

I see why

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

It's weird to be attracted to a certain type of woman?

It's weird to be attracted to how most women are?

You can't help finding something attractive but what do you do about it?

I watched a documentary years back. This guy had a thing for hairy chicks. We'll add something "normal" in brackets to see when it gets weird.

This guy had a thing for women with a lot of body hair (women with natural hair).

He approached this girl in the mall who had noticeable hair on her arms (thick natural hair) because he found her attractive.

They started dating and were together for a while. But after some months he realised she wasn't hairy enough for him (her hair wasn't natural enough).

So he decided to travel to countries where the women were hairier (had more natural hair) so he can find someone who could meet this need.

That's a fetish.

It's not about the person, it's about you. Their characteristic becomes your high.

But you raise a valid point. Humans to a point objectify what they find sexually attractive, a fetish is just one step further.

Concussion: if someone finds you attractive, don't take it personally. It's about them.

 

[K.Dot]

Its odd that u say this because ugly skinny women have been my number one haters my whole life

I see why

Not like you can blame them, jealous ones envy.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Big girls like their steak like their sex. Raw.

Ayyyye

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Y'all remember the BBW rapper Stretch Markie?

Way better than MC Lyte

 

[skokiaan]

Intentionally condemn your seed with bad genetics brehs

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Intentionally condemn your seed with bad genetics brehs

Leave my fiance out of this nikka. You crossing the line.

 

[Marti]

This is one of the only times when the "why do you care about where another man puts his dikk at applies. Clowning someone for dating your oppressors is fine but if you dating bbw black women, there is no issue. And let's keep it 100, how many nikkas do you actually think would or even could turn @Marti () down (raw)?

 

[SunZoo]