Why Is It That If A Black Man Is Single Up To His 30's Or 40's He's Suspected As 'Gay'?

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

yr just a fakkit.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Its not a black thing. Any man who is 30s with no kids and no girl is going to have people wondering

This

 

[Rekkapryde]

I've not ever heard of this.

not for mufukkaz mad at their own miserable shytty lives.

 

[JQ Legend]

I just turned 37 Sunday

No wife or girl for that matter

No kids

Besides my homeboys most people have not seen me with a woman

Ask me if I give a fukk

And it's one thing for women to say this but the fact men are in this thread cosignin it is ironically even more suspect

Men tombout " he such a good catch, why he ain't got a girl? "

 

[Commish]

I agree with this statement. We are all different as people even though we do have similarities everyones path is different. While personally, I will date/hookup......I don't want marriage and kids until my mid 30's. It's just sad to see brothas hit with that if they aren't going with the everyday flow of wwhat others are doing.

We all will be judged by others. Said judgment may be justified while others may not be justified. As for you, what you choose to do with your life is your business!

When you are ready to settle down, you will do so. In the meantime, live your life to the best of your ability and always stand on whatever decisions you make. That is called being an adult!

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Because people love gossip and minding other people's business.

 

[patscorpio]

IT WASN'T JUST BEING SINGLE. IT WAS NOBODY EVER SEEING YOU WITH A GIRL.

this...i got plenty of my boys who are over 30 and still play the field like nobody's business including some of my younger cousins

 

[Why]

Thought that was some old saying
Only heard old women say this

 

[SirReginald]

Because people love gossip and minding other people's business.

Truth. Reminds me of this clip.

 

[desjardins]

My great grandma was questioning my sexuality cause I ain't have a gf by 18

Turned around and had a baby by 20
Showed her ass

 

[Thanos]

I think Single or no girls up to 40 is kinda odd. I understand up to 30, being hella focused on your career.

 

[WesCrook]

Because people love gossip and minding other people's business.

Just last week I was in the middle of writing something on a sticky note that was going read:

"Meet me in the parking lot in 10 minutes". I had a leftover can of Hawaiian Punch in the car that I was going to give to someone. No big deal.

Anyway, some girl walked past my desk and glanced at the note as I writing it "Meet me in the..."

Her: "Who is that for?"

Me:

She even asked 2 more times throughout the day.

Nosy broads, man

 

[The ADD]

My great grandma was questioning my sexuality cause I ain't have a gf by 18

Turned around and had a baby by 20
Showed her ass

 

[SirReginald]

Thought that was some old saying
Only heard old women say this

No, you have young people who say that shyt too.

 

[DaKidFromNoWhere]

Never here this in recent times and seems like the ones who be getting exposed as gay the past few years be fukking a lot women from what I can tell, also be having kids too.
Like someone said ignorance.