Woman crushed by online dating -Asks Reddit Am I Ugly? (PHOTOS)(Update: she joined the coli pg 88)

[Yup]

Yes, it does influence, but it doesn't exclude.

I grew up around all races of people.....I like ALL women. But I stil like black women, as do the MAJORITY of black men


If ur a black women with no kids, no relationship baggage, nice looking and in shape and you can't find a black man to be attracted to you.....then I dont know what to tell you.


The ones who can't usually have attitudinal problems which cause relationships to fail or their ego is too big b/c they know they are different from the other single Black women w/ kids. In other words, they price themselves out the game.

If you are not a black woman navigating the dating world than you don't know what they go through.

 

[MikelArteta]

I see they must have told you you were their bbc, eh please share with the rest of the coli.

um no nice try yet again, it pains you that I wasn't some fetish lik you would be to tyler or brad eh

 

[Yup]

....however, the love and attention that I HAVE and DO receive from white, Hispanic and yes even Asian guys more than makes up for it.

I will be honest and say that one of the reasons the insults that are constantly hurled at black women by (some) black men truly do not affect me. I think that it is very sad that many black women settle for the verbal abuse that is drilled into us by members of our own community from the time that we even begin to crawl. And a lot of black women believe the LIE that no one else wants us. No one else could ever love us. No one else could ever understand us. We, as black women, believe it so deeply that we spew it at each other if one of us dares to love an "other". Black women can often go even harder than black men at a black woman who dates/marries out (trust me, I know).

We, black women, need to stop thinking with a group mentality and do what benefits us individually.

Agreed.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes, it does influence, but it doesn't mean exclude.

I grew up around all races of people.....I like ALL women. But I stil like black women, as do the MAJORITY of black men


If ur a black women with no kids, no relationship baggage, nice looking and in shape and you can't find a black man to be attracted to you.....then I dont know what to tell you.


The ones who can't usually have attitudinal problems which cause relationships to fail or their ego is too big b/c they know they are different from the other single Black women w/ kids. In other words, they price themselves out the game.

pretty much
92% of black men still marry black women
majority of black men date black woman

its just black women looking for anyway to date massa offspring.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes, it does influence, but it doesn't mean exclude.

I grew up around all races of people.....I like ALL women. But I stil like black women, as do the MAJORITY of black men


If ur a black women with no kids, no relationship baggage, nice looking and in shape and you can't find a black man to be attracted to you.....then I dont know what to tell you.


The ones who can't usually have attitudinal problems which cause relationships to fail or their ego is too big b/c they know they are different from the other single Black women w/ kids. In other words, they price themselves out the game.

pretty much
92% of black men still marry black women
majority of black men date black woman

its just black women looking for anyway to date massa offspring.

 

[Yup]

um no nice try yet again, it pains you that I wasn't some fetish lik you would be to tyler or brad eh

Actually, it doesn't. I don't care, but a man that invested in what black women do in their love lives but claim not to care about their opinions has to be coucou.

 

[Barnett114]

....however, the love and attention that I HAVE and DO receive from white, Hispanic and yes even Asian guys more than makes up for it.

I will be honest and say that one of the reasons the insults that are constantly hurled at black women by (some) black men truly do not affect me. I think that it is very sad that many black women settle for the verbal abuse that is drilled into us by members of our own community from the time that we even begin to crawl. And a lot of black women believe the LIE that no one else wants us. No one else could ever love us. No one else could ever understand us. We, as black women, believe it so deeply that we spew it at each other if one of us dares to love an "other". Black women can often go even harder than black men at a black woman who dates/marries out (trust me, I know).

We, black women, need to stop thinking with a group mentality and do what benefits us individually.

I'm giving you some attention now.

Can I fukk?

 

[Yup]

pretty much
92% of black men still marry black women
majority of black men date black woman

its just black women looking for anyway to date massa offspring.

Bla bla bla bla

 

[Killer Instinct]

Life as a average looking bedwench is always hard.

 

[GiGi]

If ur a black women with no kids (CHECK), no relationship baggage (CHECK), nice looking (CHECK) and in shape (CHECK) and you can't find a black man to be attracted to you.....then I dont know what to tell you.

Right. So why the bed wench comments?

 

[jadillac]

If you are not a black woman navigating the dating world than you don't know what they go through.

yeah b/c dating as a Black man is SOOOO easy.

Sometimes I feel like a young Brad Pitt out here.

 

[Yup]

I'm giving you some attention now.

Can I fukk?

You think she needs your sloppy seconds

um no nice try yet again, it pains you that I wasn't some fetish lik you would be to tyler or brad eh

Lol, keep putting your pawgs on a pedestal.

 

[MikelArteta]

....however, the love and attention that I HAVE and DO receive from white, Hispanic and yes even Asian guys more than makes up for it.

I will be honest and say that one of the reasons the insults that are constantly hurled at black women by (some) black men truly do not affect me. I think that it is very sad that many black women settle for the verbal abuse that is drilled into us by members of our own community from the time that we even begin to crawl. And a lot of black women believe the LIE that no one else wants us. No one else could ever love us. No one else could ever understand us. We, as black women, believe it so deeply that we spew it at each other if one of us dares to love an "other". Black women can often go even harder than black men at a black woman who dates/marries out (trust me, I know).

We, black women, need to stop thinking with a group mentality and do what benefits us individually.

what insults are that?
the only black women who complain about the dating scene and black men in general

a) have kids out of wedlock
b) are obese
c) are old

again I've never seen a young in shape black woman with no kids have trouble finding a black man NONE

 

[XII]

RACE TRACKED

 

[Yup]

yeah b/c dating as a Black man is SOOOO easy.

Sometimes I feel like a young Brad Pitt out here.

I don't speak for black men. Y'all say how easy it is for black men, I am not a msn how should I know?