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What have been said in this thread and on this site is offensive to black women. Boy bye!
Ohhh so what did I say that is offensive to black women?

Black men aren't a monolith

There you go again stereotyping all black men.
 

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what insults are that?
the only black women who complain about the dating scene and black men in general

a) have kids out of wedlock
b) are obese
c) are old

again I've never seen a young in shape black woman with no kids have trouble finding a black man NONE

Well I'm glad that you know ALL black women on planet Earth...but you are mistaken.

But I have been dating non-black since high school so I was never stuck in the "Black men only" mindset. And I am VERY grateful for it.
 
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And you are concluding this base on what. Being average does not mean not having any standards.
Many average dudes here that expect women out of their league but y'all want to talk about women?
So does average white woman deserve more than an average black woman?

you think average white women are getting the brad pitts and channing tatums?

A man expecting a woman "out of their league" is in terms of looks and with charm, being funny, good personality its possible, if a man has his ish together and making good money is some dime working full time at starbucks really out of his league?

average looking black women expecting idris elba and tupac in a business suit
 

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you think average white women are getting the brad pitts and channing tatums?

A man expecting a woman "out of their league" is in terms of looks and with charm, being funny, good personality its possible, if a man has his ish together and making good money is some dime working full time at starbucks really out of his league?

average looking black women expecting idris elba and tupac in a business suit
You are average why do you deserve a model?
 

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Well I'm glad that you know ALL black women on planet Earth...but you are mistaken.

But I have been dating non-black since high school so I was never stuck in the "Black men only" mindset. And I am VERY grateful for it.

And yet you're pushing 30 and still ain't married.
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Well I'm glad that you know ALL black women on planet Earth...but you are mistaken.

But I have been dating non-black since high school so I was never stuck in the "Black men only" mindset. And I am VERY grateful for it.

so a young black woman in shape wiht no kids is out there struggling to find a black man

where? Russia ?
 

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Well, women deserve criticism when they're less than good-looking and use their degrees and jobs to overcompensate for their lack of looks.

I don't think men in general pursue women just because of their education/jobs. Women's looks are the first thing men consider in deciding whether to pursue a girl or not.

When women use their degrees/jobs to justify why they deserve a certain type of men, they're going against the biological grain. That's not how the laws of attraction work.

Men look to women for their good looks. Women look to men to provide for them.

Now, good looks alone won't guarantee a woman will find a man. BUT they're a step in the right direction.

But for some reason, women don't want to understand this.

Breh, let them new age chicks tell it, their degrees are supposed to get a nikka's dikk hard. :skip:
 
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