Woman crushed by online dating -Asks Reddit Am I Ugly? (PHOTOS)(Update: she joined the coli pg 88)

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Why wouldn't I want him to me healthy and physically fit? If you care about the people in your life you encourage a healthy lifestyle. So yes I would have him slim down.

How do you know he's not healthy and physically fit?

What if he looked at you and told you to slim down? Vast majority of Black women are obese. What if he said he'd only date slim Black women, as he cares about the woman he dates? :sas2: How would that be received?
 

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A lot of Black men end up being statistics trying to fit the mold of what Black women desire in their younger years. Those same Black women then lament their lack of options once their taste in men change 10-15 years later! They do realize that a lot of the men they liked got caught up in the system trying to perpetuate an image and that Black men can't bounce back from hiccups as easily as white men. They know these things, yet still try to come at us with this bullshyt.

Black men are wising up. We know our value outchea. A Black man with his shyt together doesn't have to put up with bullshyt from Black women. Give me Priya with the real Indian hair over some bitter chick wearing a hair hat that came from Priya's head.

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She's pretty woman.
Since you think non black women are better than go perhaps then you will get married sooner.
 

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How many Black women would be checkin' for this dude? Not many.

How many Black people even know who he is? I'll give you all a hint. He's one of the top programmers at one of the brehettes' favorite websites. Breh will probably not have to ever worry about money in the future. But, he doesn't fit the profile of what Black women deem attractive.

Yet, if he wifes up some Asian or cac chick who was showing him love and knows who he is and his potential, he's the sellout! :mjlol:

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That kid would get NO puzzy whatsoever from most black chicks :mjlol:

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A lot of Black men end up being statistics trying to fit the mold of what Black women desire in their younger years. Those same Black women then lament their lack of options once their taste in men change 10-15 years later! They do realize that a lot of the men they liked got caught up in the system trying to perpetuate an image and that Black men can't bounce back from hiccups as easily as white men. They know these things, yet still try to come at us with this bullshyt.

Black men are wising up. We know our value outchea. A Black man with his shyt together doesn't have to put up with bullshyt from Black women. Give me Priya with the real Indian hair over some bitter chick wearing a hair hat that came from Priya's head.

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Personally the guy doesn't look too happy in the first picture.
 

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A lot of Black men end up being statistics trying to fit the mold of what Black women desire in their younger years. Those same Black women then lament their lack of options once their taste in men change 10-15 years later! They do realize that a lot of the men they liked got caught up in the system trying to perpetuate an image and that Black men can't bounce back from hiccups as easily as white men. They know these things, yet still try to come at us with this bullshyt.

Black men are wising up. We know our value outchea. A Black man with his shyt together doesn't have to put up with bullshyt from Black women. Give me Priya with the real Indian hair over some bitter chick wearing a hair hat that came from Priya's head.

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Basically as a black woman I am held to the choices I've made from the age of 14 for the rest of my life.
But priya saw his potential that's why he picked her:ohhh:
Well let his black legacy continue through her then:ehh:
 

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Yes. She is gorgeous. I can get married right now. Men have that luxury. We don't have to wait until some chick proposes to us. We control who gets married and who doesn't.
So what is stopping you?
 

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Looks pretty happy to me

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And if you think this guy was not vetted by her family then you are sadly sorely mistaken, you see a couple pictures online and infer a whole backstory.
 

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1) How do you know he's not healthy and physically fit?

2) What if he looked at you and told you to slim down? 3) Vast majority of Black women are obese. 4) What if he said he'd only date slim Black women, as he cares about the woman he dates? :sas2: 5) How would that be received?


1) I did not say that he was unhealthy; I said that he looks chubby and I would want him to slim down

2) I would not have an issue with that at all

3) Your point?

4) I have no problem with that either

5) Have no idea because I do not speak for other people.
 

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Why wouldn't he? He seems to be a positive, Black man who is doing something productive with his life. A lot of women would find that admirable.
He seems, lol byt a picture of a woman second guessing her attractiveness due to her lack success in dating makes you infer that she is uppity.
 
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