Why wouldn't I want him to me healthy and physically fit? If you care about the people in your life you encourage a healthy lifestyle. So yes I would have him slim down.
How do you know he's not healthy and physically fit?
What if he looked at you and told you to slim down? Vast majority of Black women are obese. What if he said he'd only date slim Black women, as he cares about the woman he dates?
How would that be received?




