15% of men don't have a close friend

NoirDynosaur

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The way this rat-race culture is set up, it's difficult to make friends especially in a individualistic society. Most people are out for themselves.

Real genuine friendship is timeless and blissful. Friendships that last over 10+ years is very rare. In adulthood, there's still room for acquaintances.

Making friends is easier as a child because we're still innocent, open and not very guarded. It's all about adventure and having fun. Adults lose that "childlike" part of themselves once they get older.

The best type of friendships are molded through shared interests, common values, intellectual discussions, admiration for each other and going out. Relationships itself start as friendships unless it's just hooking up.

Making friends is not easy but it's worth when there's the individual is worth it. Exchange of value.

Being vulnerable is how you become close to someone. It's like a game of lottery. Certain individuals are worth opening up and some aren't. It's a matter of trust. I have trust issues myself and I don't open up to every person I meet unless they're cool.

Having charisma, positive energy and being confident is how I befriend others including women.

Last but not least, be your own best friend. Discover what you enjoy about yourself. Work on your weakness and incline on your strengths.
 
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