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mrken12

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This is a false representation pandered by the media and lauded as 'fact' by those who don't deal with 'Black' women.

The majority of 'Black' women want a 'Black' man who can take care of himself/business, treats her with respect, and doesn't allow her to walk over him.

That's it.​

Doesn't "allow" her to walk over him? Why walk over someone to begin with? Especially if the person clearly cares about you?
 

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It's a catch 22 cuz too many black women want the guy who has it all, instead of building with a guy on his way up. There aren't many black men with money to begin with, and when you have money as a man you have more options on who you can date. Alot of those guys with money who choose to date interacially would have dated black women, but when he was on the come up they dissed him. Now he got a chip on his shoulder, and a complex against black women.

THAT IS SOME TRUE SH*T. They just want to be in the show and not part of the production. My own woman be nickpicking at me sometimes because sh*t isn't popping off bat in regards to my career. This is a serious grind in Miami in regards to professional jobs and there's hella nepotism.
 

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Nah. Women want a dude that can take care of basics without being lead by the hand. If they all wanted a 'super-nikka', the majority of us would still be virgins.​



Wrong. Not allowing her to walk over him = him just telling her 'No' and/or just walking away. The problem is many of us are so defensive about our 'manhood' that we don't know how to communicate effectively.
Most black women have no clue what they want.
 

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Ask yourself why Asian women top the list for every race for men.....Asian women are known to keep their mouth shut.(whether good or bad it can be debated).
It has nothing to do with confidence,...black women have been told their who lives nikkas aint shyt...so they treat most black men with disrespect.

A complete 180 when they date a white boy....
Explain why black men get the least responses. That's the real question. :leon:
 

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mrken12 said:
Doesn't "allow" her to walk over him? Why walk over someone to begin with? Especially if the person clearly cares about you?

Because gender roles don't exist anymore and people don't know how to show they care when involved in a relationship.​
 

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The problem to me is a lot of these brothas who feel slighted by black women they have met in their life need to holla at foreign black women who are raised differently. I never had a lot of problems with American black women in a sexual manner but other things that they do I don´t prefer. I´m on that black latina wave right now and never been happier. But yeah I aint checkin for american white women seriously cause they be on some BS too.

That right there is what it is. I've had my better relationships with women raised on Caribbean cultures. My women is grenadian but she has american customs too. She can be the best and worst in one day like yesterday. It is menacing.
 

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Nah. Women want a dude that can take care of basics without being lead by the hand. If they all wanted a 'super-nikka', the majority of us would still be virgins.​



Wrong. Not allowing her to walk over him = him just telling her 'No' and/or just walking away. The problem is many of us are so defensive about our 'manhood' that we don't know how to communicate effectively.

I really hope you don't believe this. Women will always pick flash over substance. Why you think dudes with nothing to their name except their gift of gab are swimming in women while "decent" men end up having to swim through their scorned leftovers and jump a bunch of hurdles she didn't put up for the smooth talker?

Just tell her no and walk away? Yeah cause a women won't follow you and try to bait you into the argument. Black women have this obsession with being tough to men and especially to their man and it's disgusting. The last person I want conflict from is my woman, it's counter productive.
 
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