most of the list is "true" but there is a simple solution to all of it. simply don't try to outsmart the game. whatever you bid in the game (time, money, emotion, body, energy, reputation, your security, etc) you bid it in order to maybe gain more. just remember that you never have to play and it's always your choice. and if you do choose to play, be at peace with the possibility that you might lose what you bid in. if you can't afford it, don't buy in.
the problem with us is that we always want to outsmart the game.
On point. Folk just need to be honest with themselves and the person they're seeing. I think if you're looking for a meaningful relationship you shouldn't fukk quickly. You should try to build a friendship first. Get to know who the fukk you're dealing with first.



at how real this is.




