18 Ugly Truths About Modern Dating

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

And not a word on race or colorism... must be nice to be one of the ethnicities that don't have those stigmas in dating

What race are you???

 

[MAKAVELI25]

And not a word on race or colorism... must be nice to be one of the ethnicities that don't have those stigmas in dating

You nikkaz really have to make everything about race, don't you? It's not that hard: If a chick isn't fukking with you, for WHATEVER reason then take her off your radar

Some of you dudes spend too much time worrying about women that aren't interested in you for whatever reason. If a chick isn't interested in black guys so what? Find someone that is and go about your life

 

[Ashley Banks]

On a serious note, if you got a chick playing the games above.... Throw her in the bushes, she aint real or what you need

Exactly. Same for men. If a guy isn't doing what I want him to do, then I just move on. People make things so much harder than they need to be.

 

[Chris.B]

Exactly. Same for men. If a guy isn't doing what I want him to do, then I just move on. People make things so much harder than they need to be.

for some women a good dikk supersedes all

 

[Ashley Banks]

for some women a good dikk supersedes all

That's why I said people like making things harder than they need to be. Constantly complain about someone but continue to fukk with them.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

The list is too real.

 

[DaPresident]

I see some of these things are "true" in that I've personally seen or dealt with them.

Some of this stuff is silly, some of it actually has merit. To me, the game gonna always be the same no matter what. You have to be clean (fellas) and be able to speak decently (not pimp talk but can hold a convo) and last but not least be interesting. You NOT gonna pull every female you encounter, as long as you keep casting the net, you'll find a fish or two...

Key is WHERE you cast your net, that makes all the difference! That'll determine if the "fish" are poisoned or if you going after "too big" or "too small" fish. Throwing that "net" in the right spot will usually pay dividends

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I see some of these things are "true" in that I've personally seen or dealt with them.

Some of this stuff is silly, some of it actually has merit. To me, the game gonna always be the same no matter what. You have to be clean (fellas) and be able to speak decently (not pimp talk but can hold a convo) and last but not least be interesting. You NOT gonna pull every female you encounter, as long as you keep casting the net, you'll find a fish or two...

Key is WHERE you cast your net, that makes all the difference! That'll determine if the "fish" are poisoned or if you going after "too big" or "too small" fish. Throwing that "net" in the right spot will usually pay dividends

Yep. Have your shyt together too. And don't take shyt so personally early on.

Lot of people tell on themselves with the shyt they think is normal. I remember a dude on here was complaining about not being able to trust chicks cause they were known to set nikkas up for robberies. Dude should be workin on getting out of the hood, not dating

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

People want to be saved by people who aren't qualified to save anyone.

 

[el_oh_el]

Everything on the list is true

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Yep

Lot of the shyt on that list is only a problem if you entertain it

Another big problem with "modern dating" is a lot of people date strangers... ... all the chicks I knew before I dated = zero problems. Scumbags and slores tend to congregate as do generally good people... if u maintain a quality social circle shyt like this shouldn't be too big of an issue.

You're speaking truth

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

#6


I don't even bother going after women anymore, I just focus on myself & my hobbies

 

[The ADD]

I keep trying to wade into the argument here but I can't find the nucleus or the energy to get involved.

 

[philmonroe]

I see some of these things are "true" in that I've personally seen or dealt with them.

Some of this stuff is silly, some of it actually has merit. To me, the game gonna always be the same no matter what. You have to be clean (fellas) and be able to speak decently (not pimp talk but can hold a convo) and last but not least be interesting. You NOT gonna pull every female you encounter, as long as you keep casting the net, you'll find a fish or two...

Key is WHERE you cast your net, that makes all the difference! That'll determine if the "fish" are poisoned or if you going after "too big" or "too small" fish. Throwing that "net" in the right spot will usually pay dividends

Yeah this is true. If your life together you'll usually be aight in the dating game for the most part.

 

[Yinny]

This list is accurate, it also feeds a short life cycle of a lot of hangout-hookup interactions. I try to just be upfront about what I'm looking for, which I don't even know but I've been focused on myself and absent from the dating scene in part because of this.