18 Ugly Truths About Modern Dating

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Actually it's a black dude

Anyway sad but true, I'm out that game though

OK then he is just a power simp. Dont know what a power simp is?



There are plenty of women eager to cooperate. Question dude should be asking is why he can't find them.... instead of blaming a couple of women not feeling him on "society".

Heres a gem of advice. Nobody ever accomplished anything by sitting around blaming other people for their own failures and feeling sorry for themselves.

 

[LezJepzin]

Damn, I hate #16. People (especially women) now need to feel validated from not just by their partner, but by everyone else. That's why they air out their relationship business on social media. To ask everyone else is it ok to date this person.

The ones who post affectionate text messages/love letters from their spouse for likes are the worst

 

[4North1Side2]

OK then he is just a power simp. Dont know what a power simp is?



There are plenty of women eager to cooperate. Question dude should be asking is why he can't find them.... instead of blaming a couple of women not feeling him on "society".

Heres a gem of advice. Nobody ever accomplished anything by sitting around blaming other people for their own failures and feeling sorry for themselves.

Your a fukking idiot, talking out your ass just like an non reading bytch would.

 

[london]

Another big problem with "modern dating" is a lot of people date strangers... ... all the chicks I knew before I dated = zero problems.

lemme ask you what you would do in this situation, hopefully I don't sound like too much of a simp lol

there is this girl that I have liked for a while, she's really attractive, we have a lot in common and we get on well, but I have tried to not get too friendly to avoid the 'friendzone' but I would still joke and flirt with her

she was going out with this guy for a few months who was cool, he became one of my boys but they recently broke up (it was a mutual decision). They are still cool with each other and hang from time to time, along with myself but I still really like her and I feel like I would trust her because I know her more than some other girls.

I've known her longer than the guy she was dating but now I'm cool with him (I didn't say anything to her before because I didn't know her that well before, I got to know her alot more since they were going out), would I be a bad friend if I told her that I like her? I don't wanna disrespect the guy but I feel like I have a lot more in common with her

sorry if i sound like a simp but up until now, relationships have been alot more straight forward for me

 

[Drew Wonder]

OK then he is just a power simp. Dont know what a power simp is?



There are plenty of women eager to cooperate. Question dude should be asking is why he can't find them.... instead of blaming a couple of women not feeling him on "society".

Heres a gem of advice. Nobody ever accomplished anything by sitting around blaming other people for their own failures and feeling sorry for themselves.

you're making a lot of assumptions bruh. obviously it's a general list that doesn't apply to EVERYONE but I'll be damned if it isn't accurate for a lot of people(myself included in some cases). the list is more of an honest critique on a good portion of our generation than the rantings of some bitter simp like you seem to think it is

not everything that gets posted on here has some anti-women agenda, shyt most of the stuff on this list applies to men just as much as it does to women. article is more about human nature than anything else

on another note, single people who hate on people in committed relationships are annoying, I agree. but people in committed relationships who have a holier than thou condescending attitude towards single people are equally annoying, especially when they try to front like they never had the same struggles or insecurities

I'm not saying you fall in that category(don't wanna contradict myself and make an assumption) but your posts in this thread have that tone...

 

[Illuminatos]

@4North1Side2

How's your wife doing these days?

 

[Huellz Santana]

7. The only difference between your actions being romantic and creepy is how attractive the other person finds you. That’s it, that’s all.

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[www.THUG.com]

2. Because we want to show how cavalier and blasé we can be to the other person, little psychological games like ‘Intentionally Take Hours Or Days To Text Back’ will happen. They aren’t fun.

4. Making phone calls is a dying art. Chances are, most of your relationship’s communication will happen via text, which is the most detached, impersonal form of interaction. Get familiar with those emoticon options.



I agree with this but I'm also guilty of doing this.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

OK then he is just a power simp. Dont know what a power simp is?



There are plenty of women eager to cooperate. Question dude should be asking is why he can't find them.... instead of blaming a couple of women not feeling him on "society".

Heres a gem of advice. Nobody ever accomplished anything by sitting around blaming other people for their own failures and feeling sorry for themselves.

Aren't you married and in your 30s? No offense, breh, but you're not really an authority on TODAY'S dating. As someone who is in his early 20s and still dating I can tell you this list is completely true

 

[Kenny West]

7. The only difference between your actions being romantic and creepy is how attractive the other person finds you. That’s it, that’s all.

realist shyt I never wrote

16. When dating, instead of expressing how they feel directly to you, a person is more likely to post a Facebook status or Instagram a Tumblr-esque photo of a sunset with a quote or song lyric of someone else’s words on it, and while it may not mention your name, it’s blatantly directed at you.

This shyt here too. Chicks air all yall relationship problems out of social media just without mentioning your name. Yet everybody knows who tf she's talking about.

I cut a chick off that was making her way to girlfriend territory cuz of this shyt (and some other violations)


Social Media in general isn't conducive at all to healthy relationships. Women love telling yall business for likes, attention and sympathy, folks love being in yall business for various other reasons (stealing your gf/bf, ego validation etc.

 

[kermit da hustla]

On a serious note, if you got a chick playing the games above.... Throw her in the bushes, she aint real or what you need

majority of females play the above games, though.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Modern dating is what it is because marriage is no longer the price men pay for p*ssy. And people can bullshyt their way from person to person while still making sure their needs get met without any type of commitment. Back in the day dating was a transitional period that lead to marriage. Now a days its a stage that people stay in for decades.
To me it's all about supply and demand.
Social media hasn't made things better either.

 

[The ADD]

Modern dating is what it is because marriage is no longer the price men pay for p*ssy. And people can bullshyt their way from person to person while still making sure their needs get met without any type of commitment. Back in the day dating was a transitional period that lead to marriage. Now a days its a stage that people stay in for decades.
To me it's all about supply and demand.
Social media hasn't made things better either.

I see where you are going with this but that quote

 

[lightskinjezebel]

18 reasons why I'm getting me a mail order bride

18 reasons why I'm date European men and will continue to do so
Hey, American men are fukked up too. Either they are macho a$$holes or a effeminate prick.