1st generation Mexican-American, I identify with both... grew up watching Americn TV in the 80's. Learned to speak English through Sesame Street as a shortie. I would speak fluent Spanish with my parents, but speak English with my brothers/sisters and friends. Grew up listening to Rap music, but also enjoy spanish music. Narco-Corridos go harder than a lot of rap joints.
If I go to Mexico, and visit the fam. They'll look at me as full fledged American.
See this is exactly how it is and how I relate, like there is somethings where im totally mexican on (food, spanish music and family stuff) but then there is somethings where i feel im more american than anything (lifestyles in this country, rap/metal and pride in this country to begin with). Seriously, to me there both equal cause i can relate with both. Im American first and for most, so thats where my pride is in a sense, but im also mexican, so i got love for them too. But if you put me in a room with some mexicans from the mother land, there going to look at me like an american and thats it, nothing else. Spanish they speak is different, their culture is totally different, and i cant relate to them with some of those differences.