25% Of Married Couples Sleep In Separate Beds

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I can see this, as me and mine went through a year stretch where we were sleeping in separate beds. We were going through some things, though.

At the end of the day, I prefer laying up with her. I like to cuddle, and it’s great having her booty pressed up against me and her feet rubbing up my legs.
 

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More married couples than you would expect are only together due to other circumstances (financial/insurance and the biggest, CHILDREN).
 

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Marriage is hard sometimes. Sometimes you just need a break.

You feel like you're forced to deal with the same person every day. Talk every day. You do that with literally NO ONE else... your job gives you vacay and you can't do that with your wife...

It's crazy
that sounds like it makes sense but it doesnt.

you get what? 2 weeks from your job per year. 2 weeks. you work a minimum of 8 hours per day there and probably more. you're at work more than you're at home. and i know we're talking about sleep time now. but that only partially counts. its not like you have to "DEAL" with your wife/husband while you're knocked out in bed.

So if you take away that 5 to 8 hrs per night. you're with your sig other like a few hours a day during the week and more time on the weekend which is only 2 days. you're at work more than any place else by far. so yeah, you shouldnt be sick and tired of your spouse. if you are it has nothing to do with you having to be around one person a lot. it has more to do with you not liking something about her or you not liking how she treats you or talks about something she doesnt like that you like to do.

If you stop fighting it and realize its a compromise on both sides. the better off you'll be. and that "happy wife . happy life" is nonsense. its Happy wife and happy husband = a happy life.

women need to get hobbies and learn how to entertain themselves(not talking about clubbing or going to the islands with your girls.) women a lot of times look for their dude to entertain them like their dude is some type of comedian, singer, rapper, dancer, tour guide, specialist. some dudes are those things. but most are not. learn how to entertain yourself when you're bored.

Dudes need to stop thinking of their wife as a peace of tail and a cook/cleaner. the moment you think of your wife as a person and your best friend. you will stop feeling like its a big chore to hang with her. dudes have a habit of feeling this way. dudes feel like its a box we need to check off. "okay, i went to work, took out the trash, and hung with my wife for an hour today."

you've never in life thought about it like that when you were single hanging with your best friend(s). you just hung out. and enjoyed doing it.

Does she need to stop being so naggy...to make those hanging moments more fun? YEP

Do you need to stop doing the wrong stuff you're doing to make her want to nag you to death? Probably.
 

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Well the courting time for marriage has gone down.It went from being a 2yr relationship 1yr engagement to 6month relationship 6month engagement.
which translates into, I didnt know you before we jumped that broom. and now that i think i know you ... uhhh. i dont like you that much... thats a sad state of affairs. but all isnt lost. once yall two realize you're on a deserted island alone and there's no way off that island so you better make the best of it. and dont be too lazy to constantly try to compromise.

I dare people to actually be honest and talk about it for real.

like what dont you like about me?

and i'll tell you what i dont like about you?


you can then look at the dislikes and find out which ones are things that are true negatives/character flaws. while other dislikes are just the other persons weird pet peeves but there is nothing of substance to their dislike. if you expose that fact and he/she is open to that. you can change the idea of what said person disliked about you once they realize they were disliking something for no real reason. take it a step further. you have to make people realize that some of the things you say you dont like about me are things that make me who I am. which is who you do like overall.
 

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I've heard about this so much... I'm surprised it's only 25%
 
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