After the thread about the white father sticking up for his daughter, I thought this would be an interesting read.
http://www.theroot.com/articles/cul...peak_about_growing_up_with_white_parents.html
Me personally, I am for any child being taken out of the system and raised in a loving, stable enviornment. However if you adopt a child from a different race it is your duty to take up the extra work to cultivate their racial identity. Its a delicate situation.
http://www.theroot.com/articles/cul...peak_about_growing_up_with_white_parents.html
Raised by white parents in a mostly white community, Goller-Sojourner had an identity that was completely assimilated. “One of the interesting things from when I was younger is when you grow up with white parents, white neighborhood, white church, your default identity is a white kid. Blackness comes later,” he said, adding, “People always reminded me I was black.”
“If you’re going to adopt kids, it’s the white parents’ obligation to shepherd them in same-race maturation,” he said. “When you have a transracial family, mixed-race family, you’re going outside the normal. Somebody has to be uncomfortable and it shouldn’t be the child. ... Your child should not be your first black friend. That’s the bottom line. If you don’t know no black people, why are you trying to bring one to your home?”
Her parents tried to raise her in a “colorblind” environment, which she attributes to the idea that some white parents hold that their whiteness can protect their children from the harm of racism.
“It’s the idea that you can put this veil around [the child], this veil of white privilege,” she said.
“My parents honestly thought in their hearts they could raise us in an environment where you don’t see color, and unfortunately that’s just not possible,” said Noerdlinger.
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Me personally, I am for any child being taken out of the system and raised in a loving, stable enviornment. However if you adopt a child from a different race it is your duty to take up the extra work to cultivate their racial identity. Its a delicate situation.