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Some people lives are so boring that they welcome struggle and drama.
bro its not always struggle and drama....its about passing a legacy......but to each his own
 

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Most of the people on God's green earth are poor. Are we all supposed to stop reproducing based on economic rules? That would be stupid. Look at the big picture.

If you have a chance to become wealthy and pass a lot more down to your kids, why wouldn't you do it BEFORE having kids? :what:

Only people who are rushing for kids without a coherent plan, are broke people who refuse to embrace personal development of any kind.
 

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bro its not always struggle and drama....its about passing a legacy......but to each his own

A legacy of what? Mediocrity? Or someone that would make a world a better place?

I don't want my kids to be like " :pacspit: daddy ain't about shyt! He needs to be in a nursing home."
 

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That's wouldn't be stupid it would actually be smart. Reproduce just to be reproducing brehs.

You dont get the big picture. It's stupid for an INTELLIGENT species to let contrived economic rules control his breeding patterns. Keep thinking like a sheep. By your logic, only white elites should have kids, especially with the shrinking middle class.
 

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Most of the people on God's green earth are poor. Are we all supposed to stop reproducing based on economic rules? That would be stupid. Look at the big picture.

So you advocate continuing the circle of poverty? You see how dumb that sounds?

Be poor--> Have Kid---> raise kids poor---> poor kid ----> has child---> Rinse and repeat?

Yes economic rules should be a deciding factor in whether you should have children or not. Especially in a first world country like America.
 

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Nah, that's how a lot of black folk lose. You build wealth, THEN you have kids. Not have kids, then figure out what to do. :dahell:
thats the most logical way to do it...the problem is....wealth building can take a long time for alotta ppl...and u might end up old with kids....my cousin husband is wealthy but hes 43 now with his first....i would like to be able to play sports with my son...but thats all past tense because this current society is just set up differently...so you're correct, u def gotta be wealthy to raise children....sad, because well be old men with young kids
 

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If you have a chance to become wealthy and pass a lot more down to your kids, why wouldn't you do it BEFORE having kids? :what:

Only people who are rushing for kids without a coherent plan, are broke people who refuse to embrace personal development of any kind.

MOST people who actually do get to financial comfort dont do it until 38-45. Everybody can't wait until late 30s early 40s to start a family. People have different health issues and lifestyles.

My accountant had is first kid at 22. He's a millionaire now at 48.
 

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You dont get the big picture. It's stupid for an INTELLIGENT species to let contrived economic rules control his breeding patterns. Keep thinking like a sheep. By your logic, only white elites should have kids, especially with the shrinking middle class.

White elites???? Stop downplaying what us educated black people are out here doing
 

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do you know how many childless people I know who can't even keep their lights on? Childless people swear they balling and Taking trips every month. If you have good money management skills and a decent job then money shouldn't be a huge concern. But like I said most of these young nikkas with no kids will blow their check in dumb shyt then wonder why their credit is fukked up. Immaturity. Lack of long term vision.



You assume that all parents were bums before having kids and had to scramble to get it together after the baby came. What if they already had the cash flow but decided to step it up a notch so they have something to pass down to the next generation?

You're assuming a lot, no offense.
 

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thats the most logical way to do it...the problem is....wealth building can take a long time for alotta ppl...and u might end up old with kids....my cousin husband is wealthy but hes 43 now with his first....i would like to be able to play sports with my son...but thats all past tense because this current society is just set up differently...so you're correct, u def gotta be wealthy to raise children....sad, because well be old men with young kids

You can play sports with your kids as long as you keep yourself healthy. Even at a later age. Good news is that black don't crack. :myman:
 

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So you advocate continuing the circle of poverty? You see how dumb that sounds?

Be poor--> Have Kid---> raise kids poor---> poor kid ----> has child---> Rinse and repeat?

Yes economic rules should be a deciding factor in whether you should have children or not. Especially in a first world country like America.

Thats sheepish logic. We are biological creatures, NOT robots. If economic rules determine breeding patterns thne that makes us collectively stupid. Every other species on this plant breeds at will and are part of the harmony of the ecosystem NOT economics. You're basically admit that you're submitting to a flawed system. Instead of pushing for a better lifestyle that allows us to breed and flourish you just throw up your hands and say "Oh well, these economic rules made up just a few decades ago are what we have to go by".

Again thats sheepish and lacks independent thought. An intelligent mind would think that the current status quo needs an overhaul or serious adjustment, not just walk off the edge and fall off.
 

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MOST people who actually do get to financial comfort dont do it until 38-45. Everybody can't wait until late 30s early 40s to start a family. People have different health issues and lifestyles.

My accountant had is first kid at 22. He's a millionaire now at 48.

My genetics allow me to be alive well over 90, thanks to my family history. Only broke, desperate women rush to have kids when they young, and stay broke.

Some people, gotta play the game smarter. Can't have kids and not have the basics to raise them. They will grow up and will turn against you.
 

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Thats sheepish logic. We are biological creatures, NOT robots. If economic rules determine breeding patterns thne that makes us collectively stupid. Every other species on this plant breeds at will and are part of the harmony of the ecosystem NOT economics. You're basically admit that you're submitting to a flawed system. Instead of pushing for a better lifestyle that allows us to breed and flourish you just throw up your hands and say "Oh well, these economic rules made up just a few decades ago are what we have to go by".

Again thats sheepish and lacks independent thought. An intelligent mind would think that the current status quo needs an overhaul or serious adjustment, not just walk off the edge and fall off.

I rather have money, then have kids with a huge bank account, a house paid off, car paid off and so on. While living below my means to save money and to stabilize myself.

Having kids for the sake of it halts most form of economic mobility. And intelligent mind would fight to make the world.a better place to raise kids, not bring them to a sad situation.
 
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