30 + , single, no kids, debt free...

Phoenix_Knightly23

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I of course do. I feel that twinge every time I see an adorable youngin. But I will not sacrifice my well being "just because". If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. I've seen plenty of ill fated mistakes transpire within my lifetime. Cautious is the word.
I hear you! It'll happen when it's meant to happen :smile:
 

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All brehs and brehettes subscribing to the above...

How do you see your life playing out? be truthful, please.

Relationship wise, I won't settle. I know who I am and what it is I bring to the table. Make me smile and laugh... And that's a great start. We can go from there.

Professionally... This could be different for everyone obviously. As long as I know I'm doing my job efficiently and succinctly then I'm good. I need more aspiration though. Comfortability is the devils work.

Let's here it Coli. I'd even go as low as 25+.

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Done using that black woman you were cheesing it up with nikka?
 

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Is the childless life really all that it's cracked up to be? I wouldn't know since I was a young mum and all lol but I cant really imagine what i'd do with all my free time. I still get to travel..my pockets COULD be fatter but :yeshrug: i'd probably blow it all on food and travel anyways lol
It wasn't for me. Then again I am a guy so I'm not with my kids 24/7. But I love my kids. Before my kids my life was boring af. I even thought about suicide a couple of times
 

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Is the childless life really all that it's cracked up to be? I wouldn't know since I was a young mum and all lol but I cant really imagine what i'd do with all my free time. I still get to travel..my pockets COULD be fatter but :yeshrug: i'd probably blow it all on food and travel anyways lol

It just proves alot of options and freedom.

It is a bit overrated, until you don't have it. :pachaha:


Like tomorrow I could decided i think I wanna go to the bahama's and its nothing to get up and do if I wanted. Kids take those kind of options away. But that joy and entertainment and constant something to do that they provide yall with.:mjcry:
 

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Do you childless folks have any interest in having kids or feel any concern to having kids when you're "older"?

@Bless't

Nope. The older I get I want kids less and less. Rather spend that money on myself and do random shyt like go OT for the wknd, but decide to do it a day or 2 before I leave. Freedom is my biggest thing and in my mind kids wouldn't allow me to be free. I'm totally fine with dying alone or without an heir.
 

Bless't

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It just proves alot of options and freedom.

It is a bit overrated, until you don't have it. :pachaha:


Like tomorrow I could decided i think I wanna go to the bahama's and its nothing to get up and do if I wanted. Kids take those kind of options away. But that joy and entertainment and constant something to do that they provide yall with.:mjcry:
We always want what we don't/can't have. Simple as that.
 

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Just get your money and stick to the cacs bruh. I know you a outcast among but you gotta buckle down and find a nice becky to seed up. Black women shouldnt be mating with bashful face cacs with gang tattoos. Its not right.
You're pointless.
 

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It just proves alot of options and freedom.

It is a bit overrated, until you don't have it. :pachaha:


Like tomorrow I could decided i think I wanna go to the bahama's and its nothing to get up and do if I wanted. Kids take those kind of options away. But that joy and entertainment and constant something to do that they provide yall with.:mjcry:
Biology is difficult to deny. My peoples that dont have kids constantly take potshots at the family life when no one is trying to convince them that thats the life they need to leave. If youre into You, do you. Yall single folks be trying to throw your life in peoples face maliciously like we're miserable and you happy, but the more yall brag about your travels, things many of us did in our 20's the more i begin to feel like youre putting up a facade.
 
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