30 + , single, no kids, debt free...

[Mowgli]

You too remember when the coli ladies favorite white knight fukked that wench in every orifice and tossed her in the bushes What a time to be alive

Now his whole attitude changed.

No more Mr nice guy

 

[Rocket Scientist]

100% happy,sure some point I will get married,kids maybe but right now just worried about getting thru the day and loving what I do.

 

[1thouwow]

Do you childless folks have any interest in having kids or feel any concern to having kids when you're "older"?

@Bless't

I wanna have kids when I'm married and preferably when I'm 30+. For some reason people like having kids when they're still in their 20s

 

[Rocket Scientist]

i just hope it's with a smart healthy woman who doesn't believe in horoscopes or other stupid ass shyt like that.

"Are you a Leo too let me look up your chart"

 

[the bossman]

Add "in shape" to the title...

THIS separates the wheat from the chaff for women. You can find hundreds of thousands of the 30+ single no kids debt free, but is she in shape too?

 

[the bossman]

31 at the end of the year. I'll keep it 100 - I do feel a sense of urgency. Not in a sense that I'll be old and flabby and sick therefore unable to get the dimes, dough, etc..

Of course not, I'm a healthy, not fat, smart black male.

But it's more like a "nut up or shut up" way of thinking. All of my insecurities, my hesitations, my indecisiveness, regrets.. They're gone. In my 20s, all that fukked with me heavily. I eradicated those thoughts.

I don't worry about failure in any endeavor anymore. My standards are sky high in relationships. I've dated a cute borderline personality disorder havin' chick for the last two years and I've learned that aiming low can get you killed. Literally.

I got fired from my auditing job of 5 years out of the blue last year. Entrepreneurship is my only option in my 30s. Can't be a wage slave.

Long story short (I'm drinking fat tire in a bar), our 30s must embody the word excellence to the god damn letter.

It's now or never, brehs. I look at my friends now, the ones I once envied..with the marriage and the kids... And I see them becoming a shell of themselves.

They burned out early. I know it can be a bytch sometimes to be 30 in this place, but that's just mostly social pressure and people telling us how we "should live."

In reality, We're free as FUKK. It's no time for a pity party like most 30 year olds, family.

Life is good. Some amazing things are definitely going to happen this decade.

this some powerful shyt breh. got me ready to get the fukk up and go to the gym right now

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Now his whole attitude changed.

No more Mr nice guy

Had our queen @Colicat all "I wish brothers were more like him " What a time to be alive

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

I feel you @Bless't

I made sure my girl finished her degree and she got focused and got her a new job paying double and got her drivers license before I really made it official.

She always had potential but she needed me to kind of motivate her and help her. She was a city girl so never needed a car.

We aren't thinking about kids until we are 32 to 34 lol

But if she never did those three things I would have had to axe that lol

Didn't you have a girl before though?

Is it bad that I wouldn't be able to date a college educated female?

 

[Sean312]

Mid 20s and dont have any felonies. I see myself changing the world. #soon

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This thread ain't for me

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

You aren't the only one. Lol.
I want the same.
Just can't wait until I'm debt free.
Summer set me back a little.
But I'll be straight this winter.

I'm must be the only guy on thecoli who wanna have a normal life : wife, kids, family house, family vacation, doing stuff with my kids

I'm enjoying my youth and bachelor life right now but when it will be time to settle I will do it with a smile on my face : I'll create a family and enjoy another form of happiness, the same way I left my childhood and became an adult.

 

[flea]

you look fukking stupid in your avy

 

[↓R↑LYB]

if my math is correct, that's 33 shots from twin glocks,

At 16 a piece, that's 32 shots. One of your guns must have been holding 17

 

[BaldingSoHard]

37, good job, educated, got tons of money, in great shape, abnormally handsome, no debt, no ex-wives, no kids. Still not in a rush. If I find an equal, I'll marry her. If not, I'm fine rolling solo tbh. Barring an acid attack, finding companionship is never going to be an issue for me. I'm never going to compromise when it comes to a LIFE partner. fukk that.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Yeah children are like lifetime emotional and financial contracts. Need to plan them when you are ready and create them with the right person which most people's decision making skills, outside of an Eagle Scout, are shyt in their 20s and even early 30s. Don't rush into having them and throwing them on your mom's living room floor nights and weekends like most.

My significant other wants them, I want none, never wanted any, so we will see how this works. I travel a lot for work and leisure and enjoy the unattachment. Bae is awesome, from a good fam, and would make a great parent so I am willing to make the sacrifice reluctantly.

Would be cool to summon little minions from upstairs/outside to fetch the remote (in arms reach), program some new electronic when I am too lazy for instructions, and provide ridiculous lists for corner store runs while providing less money than the items totaled. Need to pay it forward.