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[Ohene]

yump.funny thing is the homey that play ball asked me on friday "who's that lightksin baddie in yo class" . gotta chop before he plot dont eem ask me how

i miss school

 

[the bossman]

Yup we gon see whats up, i was supposed to be in Salvador right now but my former job still owe me some money, so i basically have to wait for them. smh
There's way too many cacs where i'm leaving right now i don't really wanna approach these white hoes.

Get to Salvador and eat breh

We gon stunt when I come

I was in Lençóis Bahia like 6 hours inland from Salvador earlier in the month for columbus day weekend. shyt was NUTS. There was a music festival going on that was one gigantic block party of at least 5,000 ppl in this small ass town all weekend. All Brasilians doing nothing but hiking thru waterfalls and hills during the day and nothing but drinking and dancing at night. never seen anything like it . festival de Lençóis. yall nikkas need to check that shyt out next year

 

[Larry Lobster]

I was in Lençóis Bahia like 6 hours inland from Salvador earlier in the month for columbus day weekend. shyt was NUTS. There was a music festival going on that was one gigantic block party of at least 5,000 ppl in this small ass town all weekend. All Brasilians doing nothing but hiking thru waterfalls and hills during the day and nothing but drinking and dancing at night. never seen anything like it . festival de Lençóis. yall nikkas need to check that shyt out next year

shyt looks nice, did you stay in a hotel? how much did u pay

 

[Giselle]

People may call ducktales but sometimes that's all it takes. Some females are literally walking around looking for some dude to be conversational with. Stop letting the bs they put in the media disturb your mind. Sure, some females are ready to turn their nose up and are on that garbage YouOK sis movement. But I can assure you there are females out there who have never heard of that shyt and never get approached at all. They probably think something is wrong with them, but the truth is you have a bunch of dudes scared to approach females because they are awkward with them or got Instagramitis.

It's a numbers game fellas. You are gonna get shot down. Denzel Washington doesn't get every role he goes for only the ones you hear about. It's a numbers game.

Yes.
& If a woman is like the woman in those feminist cat calling videos thinking that saying "hello beautiful" to a stranger is wrong, then you don't need to be with her anyway. There is nothing wrong with talking to a stranger as they are going about their everyday life. Where else are you supposed to meet/talk to people? People say bars/clubs, but everyone doesn't like going to parties/bars/clubs.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Learned to talk to women before the Internet was the main from of communication.

Props though.

This

Shyt has to be natural tho. I don't use lines or any corny shyt.

 

[Mowgli]

This

Shyt has to be natural tho. I don't use lines or any corny shyt.

most cold conversation between men and women has the foundation of mutual attraction so you do not need any corny lines. all you have to say are basic things like hello what is your name where are you from and reciprocate the same answers. from there everything branches off effortlessly with subtle teasing playfulness and genuine flirtatious interest

 

[Anno Domini]

I tried this a bunch in college. shyt is waaaay more effective than you'd think.

 

[KingFreeman]

The more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just continue and it will become natural to you.
Even strike up convos with ugly chicks just to get that rhythm

This is golden advice right here. This can easily lead to brehs getting the skills they need to eat. That and not putting it on a pedestal

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Good shyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

We need to encourage this

Can save lives real talk

Bein social and the ability to make friends>>>

 

[VFib]

I'd be interested in hearing some ladies' take on the "give vs get number" debate. I've always thought a guy asking for a girl's number is standard, but I think giving her your number might be an underrated move. I think it depends on the girl, but a lot more modern girls are more...independent (if that's the right word) and I think would appreciate you giving her the option whether to initiate further contact or not. I know I've seen my girl friends and sisters give dudes fake numbers or get a ton of thirsty ass simp messages blowing up their phones. I can definitely see how some girls would be put off by having to be the ones to further initiate, but I think some girls might appreciate being given the breathing space of being able to choose.

I don't know which female posters would be good to answer this question though, so someone should tag them.

I don't play games. I have never given out a fake number. No matter how aggressive and annoying you are, you can't make me give you a number, whether real or fake. If I verbalize my lack of interest and you keep trying, I'll just ignore you and keep it moving. That being said, I only give out my number to men I look forward to speaking to again.

I have had a man give me his card. No I didn't call because he services weren't needed (I think he was an IT consultant or something, I forgot). In my opinion, and mine only, if you give me your number, you aren't THAT interested in me. I'm only interested in spending quality time with a man who is clearly also interested. Again, I don't play games and I'm not broke, so I don't need to go out on a date to score free food. (Waste precious hours of my life for something I can already afford? Please.) Besides dinner dates are overrated and boring. They only serve as an intimate way to get to know each other better with minimal distraction. I'd rather have home cooked meals.

 

[FrankyFourFingers]

I don't play games. I have never given out a fake number. No matter how aggressive and annoying you are, you can't make me give you a number, whether real or fake. If I verbalize my lack of interest and you keep trying, I'll just ignore you and keep it moving. That being said, I only give out my number to men I look forward to speaking to again.

I have had a man give me his card. No I didn't call because he services weren't needed (I think he was an IT consultant or something, I forgot). In my opinion, and mine only, if you give me your number, you aren't THAT interested in me. I'm only interested in spending quality time with a man who is clearly also interested. Again, I don't play games and I'm not broke, so I don't need to go out on a date to score free food. (Waste precious hours of my life for something I can already afford? Please.) Besides dinner dates are overrated and boring. They only serve as an intimate way to get to know each other better with minimal distraction. I'd rather have home cooked meals.

What would you say is your ideal first date. Lets say im just trying to get to know you, and you know im interested

 

[VFib]

What would you say is your ideal first date. Lets say im just trying to get to know you, and you know im interested

I've never really though about it. At least not seriously. I wouldn't reject a dinner date since it seems to be the go to date, but I would rather it be something that we did AFTER doing something. If it's strictly dinner, I'd probably want us to try out a black owned restaurant neither of us have been to.

For me, I just want it to be somewhere public. What's important to me is to feel safe and comfortable around you. Let's use the first date to try something new, but would also allow us to talk and get to know each other.

 

[FrankyFourFingers]

I've never really though about it. At least not seriously. I wouldn't reject a dinner date since it seems to be the go to date, but I would rather it be something that we did AFTER doing something. If it's strictly dinner, I'd probably want us to try out a black owned restaurant neither of us have been to.

For me, I just want it to be somewhere public. What's important to me is to feel safe and comfortable around you. Let's use the first date to try something new, but would also allow us to talk and get to know each other.

How about movies and the beach? This at night to. Cant do beach in the day

 

[VFib]

How about movies and the beach? This at night to. Cant do beach in the day

The movies aren't my ideal first date. You two are sitting there for 1.5+ hours, not talking when you barely know each other as it is. I wouldn't do that until I got more comfortable with him. I like to cuddle up at the movies. Another woman may feel different bout that, though.

A walk on the beach sounds nice after dinner. I've never done it. It sounds romantic if we are both clearly into each other.