Both pretended to be someone they weren't.
This is why older men should tell the younger chicks in their life what to look for, because conversation ALWAYS tells you about someone. The only time he can fool you is if you have no idea what to look for in character.
One thing I give women who come from the streets, and came up, is they know bullshyt when they see it. People talk shyt about them, but a lot don't go through the shyt square chicks go through. The issue is they seen so much bullshyt, its hard to get them out of that tricking mentality, they have game, and know how to get shyt from it. that aint a good thing if you want a trusting relationship, you never know when she is gaming you or if she is serious