5 Signs You’re About to Be Racially Fetishized

[Meadow]

This is all 100% accurate

 

[Milomann]

If it gets your dikk sucked, do you really care?

 

[Taadow]

So is it not a "fetish" if someone black only wants to date other black people?

 

[The Oracle]

The author had to be entertaining these cacs for quite some time to get this huge list of complaints about em.

She sounds upset it didn't work out

 

[The Oracle]

"Hey guys, my eyes are up here."

 

[Jean Jacket]

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Some people’s “types” have more to do with racial fantasies.

5 Signs You’re About to Be Racially Fetishized

1. The Celebrity “Double”

“You’re really hot. You remind me of ... [insert random celeb I bear little or no resemblance to—outside of race—here]”

Clearly, this is meant to be complimentary, but it’s suspect. First, it implies a very limited scope of “acceptable” black beauty. Basically, it’s the romantic equivalent of the “paper bag” test.

Second, if the scope of beauty is that specific, it begs a question of exposure: Exactly how many black people has this person encountered—let alone found attractive?

2. The Same-Girl Game

They’re open about having a type (fair enough), but a roundup of their exes resembles a lookalike contest—on paper and off.

Case in point: a dude who, upon learning of my modeling career, casually prattled off the names of several other models he’d dated.

Fun fact: Not only were we all the same physical type, but we also worked with the same agency. Apparently he liked one-stop shopping—and his women interchangeable?

Way to take a “type” to the extreme ... right into fetishism.

3. The Bonding Fail

It’s that awkward moment when an attempt at bonding becomes fetishistic, usually through unsolicited but enthusiastic declarations of interest in “urban culture”—which, of course, I share because I’m ... “urban”?

“Don’t you love that new Kanye?”

Umm ... no. But of course I’m up on the latest hip hop/R&B/reggae/trap music/line dance/episode ofLove & Hip Hop: Whatever: I’m black!

4. The First-Timer

“You know, I’ve never been attracted to black men/women before, but ... ”

Well, please don’t make an exception on my account, because I’m not attracted to anyone who has previously disqualified an entire race from consideration.

In an atmosphere that’s often overwhelmingly white (*cough* online dating), making me a concession isn’t complimentary. So, no, your interest does not make me feel special. And no, I’m not interested in confirming or dispelling myths about “my people.”

Please. Take your race-curious ass on somewhere.

5. The “Down-for-the-Cause” Fetish

“You marched with BLM—and your parents were Freedom Riders? Great. Oh, you minored in African-American studies? Cool! You’re rereading Between the World and Me? Awesome!”

We just met, and already I’m exhausted, because the idea of becoming an accessory in someone else’s activism sounds like a full-time job: fetish enabler.

as long as the p*ssy comes with it



act like black women won't fukk you for the same exact reasons except number 4 brehs

 

[Cadillac]

She can go the easy route and exclude whites

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Don't need these signs if you're dating Black only

We don't all got the numbers to that and still you deal with colorism smh.

 

[philmonroe]

as long as the p*ssy comes with it



act like black women won't fukk you for the same exact reasons except number 4 brehs

Basically this list can be about intraracial relationships too outside of four. Folks out here bored that's all

 

[Wildin]

Be a personal dildo for White Women, brehs...

I get what your saying but you sound like you were trying to fall in love or something. Ive had consensual sex with girls that I didnt and dont know their name, nothing to be proud about but as humans sometimes we just need a sexual release. Ive fukked a broad or 2 on some, my dikk is hard your p*ssy is wet type shyt. Was it wrong, yes, but it was 100% consensual. I wasnt begging for it and whether you know it or not you've likely been one womans personal dildo once or twice, whether she hit u up for a late night booty call or she planned it out a week in advanced and told you she wanted to go to dinner and a movie. You dont have to be a bed buck and get on your knees for a white woman or feel special like your chosen-- its just sex. some women just want a dikk like a man wants a p*ssy. You might have been overthinking it although there are times when a woman will fetishize sleeping with a black man because they want to experience sex with a black man.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

I get what your saying but you sound like you were trying to fall in love or something. Ive had consensual sex with girls that I didnt and dont know their name, nothing to be proud about but as humans sometimes we just need a sexual release. Ive fukked a broad or 2 on some, my dikk is hard your p*ssy is wet type shyt. Was it wrong, yes, but it was 100% consensual. I wasnt begging for it and whether you know it or not you've likely been one womans personal dildo once or twice, whether she hit u up for a late night booty call or she planned it out a week in advanced and told you she wanted to go to dinner and a movie. You dont have to be a bed buck and get on your knees for a white woman or feel special like your chosen-- its just sex. some women just want a dikk like a man wants a p*ssy. You might have been overthinking it although there are times when a woman will fetishize sleeping with a black man because they want to experience sex with a black man.

Thing is in my school every weekend all everyone did was fukk. We used to party for hours and soon as the parties were over dudes were bringing bad bytches back to their dorm rooms. I fukked so many bytches during those 4.5 years shyt was amazing I used to have bytches moaning mad loud and waking up everyone on my floor. Nikkas would come up to me the next day on some "Were you killing that chick last night or something? " That's why I don't really give a fukk about that White chick, I already knew I'd be smashing something sexy on the Weekend regardless

 

[Pinyapplesuckas]

fetishized is the buzz word of the year

 

[Wildin]

Thing is in my school every weekend all everyone did was fukk. We used to party for hours and soon as the parties were over dudes were bringing bad bytches back to their dorm rooms. I fukked so many bytches during those 4.5 years shyt was amazing I used to have bytches moaning mad loud and waking up everyone on my floor. Nikkas would come up to me the next day on some "Were you killing that chick last night or something? " That's why I don't really give a fukk about that White chick, I already knew I'd be smashing something sexy on the Weekend regardless

that's what up. it just seemed like you curbed her because she was a white chick and she just wanted some dikk rather than her fetishizing over a black dikk. im never going to use the term again, ive met country girls from towns of 1100 people and other small towns that have never seen or went to school with black people let alone had an opportunity to date or sleep with one be in full fetish mode. theres a difference between personal preference and fetishizing, and just wanting to get off.

 

[Medicate]

So is it not a "fetish" if someone black only wants to date other black people?

This has to be craziest ass post i've seen in awhile. I may just put this garbage in my sig, ......