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[Wild self]

Who hurt you

That was over a decade ago. She broke up abruptly, had a mental breakdown, cut her hair, and became a mess. I learned from there that it is much better to understand a woman instead of loving a woman.

 

[Taadow]

Great comment.

Breh...these nikkas are literally approaching the point where there is going to be a thread title, "Brehs...if the doctor tells y'all you're having a daughter, should you just force an abortion right then and there?"

These brehs legitimately HATE women.

Watch - nobody will have a problem with you generalizing, doe.

 

[seabreeze80]

If what you said was true, there wouldn't be so many divorces and arguments.

People divorce for a lot of different reasons

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Thank you for sharing your story, however you did not answer my question.

Which is the most chilling type of answer I expected you to give

The answer was within my post

.When it came to my ex wife that lust part had been disappeared but I knew that shyt was temporary anyway. Problem is she didn't and her expectations were unrealistic as a result. But it took time for shyt to build up within her before she cheated. I knew immediately when she started because she changed and I acted accordingly.

I got put on to that type of advice from OGs early on in life. The problem is I thought I could convince her that she was wrong for still expecting that. I learned the hard way on the front end. But she learned the hard way on the back end because she misses the life that she had with me

 

[Wild self]

People divorce for a lot of different reasons

Add the fact that the dating game is constantly changing, and men are left out on the cold in terms of getting quality information on how modern females behave, and there is an epidemic of dysfunction in today's society.

 

[Shorty K]

Great comment.

Breh...these nikkas are literally approaching the point where there is going to be a thread title, "Brehs...if the doctor tells y'all you're having a daughter, should you just force an abortion right then and there?"

These brehs legitimately HATE women.

So in your mind, what is an acceptable level of criticism a man is allowed to make towards a woman without you attaching some form of extreme emotion to it?

You are aware that men are able to detach emotions from their ideas, correct?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Great comment.

Breh...these nikkas are literally approaching the point where there is going to be a thread title, "Brehs...if the doctor tells y'all you're having a daughter, should you just force an abortion right then and there?"

These brehs legitimately HATE women.

I put women in the same category I put men: some aint shyt and some are. That why even tho I have a ton of homies and associates I keep my personal circle tight. People are always looking for a way to get over on somebody else

 

[Mass]

That's not the issue. The issue is that I am finding women that really like me and seeing what they're capable of makes it seem pointless.

Sex is great, but that's not the issue. The issue is that when you've been with a certain amount of women, it becomes the same. You've seen enough of the game to know that you can easily be the guy that she is lying to over the phone while she's in your living room about to top you off. No matter what age, no matter how much she makes, no matter if she has a boyfriend or a fiancé. All you have to do is hit the right switches and it's over.

My question is, if you've reached this point with women, why would you still want to claim one?

18 pages. I only read page one. And this is factual. But the truth is you just have to accept it.

 

[Kenny West]

The answer was within my post



I got put on to that type of advice from OGs early on in life. The problem is I thought I could convince her that she was wrong for still expecting that. I learned the hard way on the front end. But she learned the hard way on the back end because she misses the life that she had with me

So how can you tell in the future when a woman's lust/love expires?

And where do you go to meet women who don't date based on lust/love?

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

What’s the difference between this and “all men are dogs”?

Not saying the dating scene doesn’t have its pitfalls but goddamn some of you all sound really hurt

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Are you aware that you are only reaffirming understandings?

what are you talking about? the majority of my posts have been replying to one particular person about women dating men who are still establishing themselves. the men complaining in here think all women are the same and are waste of time - my responses have nothing to do with that.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

So how can you tell in the future when a woman's lust/love expires?

And where do you go to meet women who don't date based on lust/love?

I won’t be in that situation again because I move things at my pace and if they don’t like the pace they can leave

 

[winb83]

You confront her?

In a roundabout way. I didn't confess to searching her phone but I let her knew I suspected she was seeing other people. She lied and I tried to shift to an relationship where it was just about sex but it didn't workout. I was too bothered by the betrayal to make that work.

I thought I had a real relationship and apparently it wasn't.

If a woman wants to deceive a man about such things it isn't hard for her to do.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Well the first step is, to stop dating women with social media.

Which is like 5% of women or less.

I see where you coming from but a few of the shorties who I know that deleted their social media are on SUPER creep shyt and don't want people to find or know them

 

[Shorty K]

what are you talking about? the majority of my posts have been replying to one particular person about women dating men who are still establishing themselves. the men complaining in here think all women are the same and are waste of time - my responses have nothing to do with that.

Yeah and are you aware that what you are saying is only reaffirming to these men what they already know of women? Do you honestly believe you are giving them some sort of fresh and original take on women? Your perspective and rhetoric is not something they've already heard and understood and might just be the reason why they're in here complaining?


You think most men posting in this topic didn't already know without you posting what you were gonna say? You really think your take is that different from the average woman's, huh?