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[Taadow]

See, everybody just look and meditate on this:

If you don't trust your wife/mother of your kids 100% why be with her?

Yea I know you can't trust anyone 100% .

This is stone cold logic.

We can all agree that you can't trust anybody 100%.

Consequently, why would trust somebody 100% in a "relationship"?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

@BalmainReyes who hurt you?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

No offense, but do you honestly believe anything you've said in this topic has done anything but further validate the understandings the men in this topic have about women?

That wasn't the goal

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I'm glad you brought this up. Women can't stand it when they see or know that a man is building himself up.

They hate it because it shows that you're trying to get above their level, and they know that once you hit that point they can't hit you with the same runarounds. Thus, if you're a man who knows what he wants out of life and you put women out of the equation because you know they'll slow you down, they will come to hate it because it shows that you can't be manipulated like most men. p*ssy is the often only ace up a woman's sleeve. Once you become immune to this weapon you're literally above 50% of the planet. Society doesn't teach men this when we're younger though.

What kind of dusty ratchet bytches do you hang around?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

A man living with his mother making poverty level income with substantial debt is a bum
No decent woman wants that.
Stop lying to faceless avatars
Your only argument is that someone the other woman’s income is going to benefit him
Which is absolutely ridiculous

That's not a bum, breh seems - I could be wrong - like he's working toward digging himself out of that. If he's content staying where he is, then I'd have another view.

 

[kaldurahm]

Yes, somewhat of one.


If u want to make it in todays dating game as a man.

See, I get this and believe me I've seen L's happen with some older family. For some reason though I don't want to go down this path.. Probably count as "living life more" but I'm hesitant, just not my character.

On the other hand I know tons of a simps as previously indicated. One or the other seems kind of wack because my parents relationship ain't nothing like that.

 

[seabreeze80]

biggest lie told in modern times. These women, even when comfortable, never show their bad habits until its too late. The fact is the majority of the male population isn't educated from these "red flags" and people STILL refuse to teach men about them, is why these hoes, thots, scandalous broads are causing havoc and leaving dysfunctional traits as the norm.

I disagree. Either you are blind or lack discernment. Even that gut feeling telling you that something is wrong is a red flag. People are easy to read once you get to know them.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I'm 32 turning 33 in June, I was engaged and was blindsided when my ex fiance changed her mind. Once I recovered I just started talking to and going out with a bunch of girls and I like it so I expanded and so far so good.

Women change like the weather but I got all season tires now:mjsmiles:.

It seems like you were hurt by your ex and you’re trying to hide/mask your pain by saying several chicks

 

[Taadow]

The thing is if you've found through your own personal experiences that marriage/relationship life is not for you then that's great. Just live your life like that. But to try to throw shade at the people who are still about that life makes no sense.

In the OP, there was no shade...bruh asked if anybody else felt like he did...

It was y'all who are allegedly "still about that life" that came in with that extra bullchit...

 

[Kenny West]

What Ive learned in 36 is that you cant base a relationship off of that love/lust. Keep those people as fukk buddies. Relationships should be looked at as a business. Of course you wanna love that person and be physically attracted to them. But you also wanna make sure that person is stable. I learned that the hard way because I was young. Ive been holding down a little roster for that past couple years. Some have come and gone. The main one is still here. I know once I decide Im ready for a relationship again we would've skipped all that lust bs. Me and her been thru the same exact shyt and can relate on a certain level. When it came to my ex wife that lust part had been disappeared but I knew that shyt was temporary anyway. Problem is she didn't and her expectations were unrealistic as a result. But it took time for shyt to build up within her before she cheated. I knew immediately when she started because she changed and I acted accordingly.

Thank you for sharing your story, however you did not answer my question.

Which is the most chilling type of answer I expected you to give

 

[Wild self]

I disagree. Either you are blind or lack discernment. Even that gut feeling telling you that something is wrong is a red flag. People are easy to read once you get to know them.

If what you said was true, there wouldn't be so many divorces and arguments.

 

[DPresidential]

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons and bad shyt will eventually happen. I been there. People get into these things because the other person makes them feel good and they fall in lust. Once that lust runs out then they find out they don't have much in common, they have different life goals, etc. Once that happens then they become disinterested and look elsewhere. When women base their relationship off the fact theyre "in love" its a recipe for disaster because its like a high that they want to keep chasing. Ive been building with someone for two years and at this point I know she's as compatible a woman Ill find. She knows what I went thru and has given me all the time I need to be ready for a relationship again. I respect the hell outta her for that. At the end of the day tho relationships are always a gamble no matter the time or place and men and women are equally as grimey. Whether you chose to hold or roll the dice is on you

That being said some of yall are way too young to be as bitter as you are. Im 36 and done seen it all. Been cheated on and divorced from the person I thought I was gonna be with for the rest of my life and I still have a more positive outlook than some of yall

Great comment.

Breh...these nikkas are literally approaching the point where there is going to be a thread title, "Brehs...if the doctor tells y'all you're having a daughter, should you just force an abortion right then and there?"

These brehs legitimately HATE women.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

biggest lie told in modern times. These women, even when comfortable, never show their bad habits until its too late. The fact is the majority of the male population isn't educated from these "red flags" and people STILL refuse to teach men about them, is why these hoes, thots, scandalous broads are causing havoc and leaving dysfunctional traits as the norm.

Who hurt you

 

[the bossman]

And this rhetoric of "Any Given Sunday" she can just flip a switch and cheat from some magic dude whispering some magic words in her ear doesn't make sense either. It typically doesn't work like that. Things built up to that point where she's in a position to cheat. Most times there are little red flags that came up long before it got to that point. Whether you as a man had the experience/spider-sense to peep them/catch them/address them is another story.

It could've started with her simply saying some slick shyt under her breath when talking to you on some passive aggressive steez, then turning into constant arguments, etc. Hell. in my homie's case. His shyt started before they even got married during his engagement. He realizes now there were red flags and he shouldn't have went through with it, but he didn't want to call off the wedding at that point because he didn't want to look like an a$$hole.

 

[Shorty K]

That wasn't the goal

Are you aware that you are only reaffirming understandings?