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if you fukk em repeatedly, you in a relationship with them whether you want to be or not.

In some cases, not all in my experience.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

That's not the issue. The issue is that I am finding women that really like me and seeing what they're capable of makes it seem pointless.

Sex is great, but that's not the issue. The issue is that when you've been with a certain amount of women, it becomes the same. You've seen enough of the game to know that you can easily be the guy that she is lying to over the phone while she's in your living room about to top you off. No matter what age, no matter how much she makes, no matter if she has a boyfriend or a fiancé. All you have to do is hit the right switches and it's over.

My question is, if you've reached this point with women, why would you still want to claim one?

Who wants to be alone? If you know bytches ain't shyt, roll with it. Find you pne that doesn't get on your nerves too bad. Don't set yourself up for disappointment.

 

[TransJenner]

So sayeth a lot of lonely chicks in the church.:mjpalm:

There time will come

I haven't been to church since middle school

 

[Balla]

Relationships gets old too.

That gets old after awhile
Not only that but you begin to see them as objects which is never good


The world embraces care free living now which why marriage seems obsolete these days but there's someone still out there , don't give up

 

[Shadow King]

I find more pleasure having 2 to 3 mini relationships throughout the year vs. trying to get in a long 2-3 year relationship.

6 months is enough to enjoy someone then keep it moving. Some people just like to keep it going until the wheels fall off although there are signs early on that they are with the wrong person.

So OP, try doing mini relationships for a couple years, spending significant time with 4-6 women in these 2 years and tell me what you think.

So serial dating or that's a term for some other dynamic? I see myself eventually going that route. No energy for 10 women, no energy for 1. Hitting the eject button when the red flag(s) pops up on month 4-6 instead of month 28 seems like the middle ground.

 

[TransJenner]

Relationships gets old too.

Not if you found the right one

 

[Balla]

Not if you found the right one

 

[Balla]

At one point it is good to find one to build with tho.

Not if you found the right one

 

[Shadow King]

w

You must got a lot of free time on your hands.

The Quick Gems thread taught me the definition of a "roster" is not universal.

 

[TransJenner]

At one point it is good to find one to build with tho.

I already found one
Once you find the right person you'll know

You're heart will tell you

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

The most stupid thing about threads like this is hearing people act like it's easy to find a good woman or it's men that are always making bad decisions. Dudes can literally meet a woman with great qualities and still end up having their time wasted.

I can understand why dudes get frustrated but I'm just going to see what happens. There's really nothing we can do when dudes can try to be the best they can and still get screwed over by women regardless of the type of women we choose. There's more important things to care about in life besides women so I've stopped stressing about it.

one, this is such a pessimistic, negative view to have of relationships. And what do you mean by having your time wasted? What are you putting out there to these women? Are you showing you're worth them being serious with? And if this is about relationships that end in a break up, that's life. Why act like it's the end of the world?

Still get screwed over? Again, seems like y'all are looking for shyt to go awry or you're messing with terrible women if you feel like the majority of them are screwing you over.


But that's cool, jaded pessimists are better pulling yourselves out the serious dating/relationship game cuz you'll end up being nothing but frustration or heartbreak for someone with a brighter outlook on love and life

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I didn't think I did till I met a girl some months ago who changed my whole perspective.

I do, but I'm not ready yet. I need to get this bread and set my future up, first.

This gotta be one of the most hustling backward things I hear y'all say, especially average dudes making average money. If you were zuckerberg, elon musk, Ryan coogler, random nba player, I could see this. But two incomes are better than one, the reason married couples have higher net worths and more assets.

Ol let me build alone and pay all these bills myself when two incomes would actually have me further ahead ass nikkas

 

[International Playa]

Stay single keep a roster and juggle a bunch of chicks

Is the method I live by now

Im 31, this is my motto until I meet the woman I wanna settle down with.

 

[bennyfein]

I really think that social media changed everything.

 

[Blackrogue]

Only a small percentage of people men or women are to be taken seriously. You can find a quality woman who likes you and wants to build with you and won't budge when others try to move her. Or you can be unknowingly sharing women with other dudes.

That's what OP sees. There's a ton of women who are no quality on that fukk shyt. I used to catch feelings about it till I realized many people look out for numero uno and they don't have my best interest in mind so I don't act blind and don't lie to myself about her nature. Just enjoy what you enjoy about her without commiting to her or giving yourself to her. Don't care what else shes doing as long as you're not her man. Let her play the games by herself. You'll find a group of guys who recognize these women for what they are and they literally just sharing these chicks but not wifing them.
But there's also quality women out there that are not playing those games and have their shyt together. Good morals and ethics too. That's who you really searching for going through the mess of people out there