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All my female co-workers wondering why I'm single. I told them there's literally no point in being in a relationship if your a man who's not settling down for a female and the relationship will end anyways... I focus on my economic situation and getting my money right... they think I'm crazy...:dahell:

I spent my 20's fukking around and not having anything to show for it... You literally cannot have it all... So I'd rather have stacks of money and chilling out...
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I've made peace with that choice and it drives them crazy... :ld: Don't know why???
 

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All my female co-workers wondering why I'm single. I told them there's literally no point in being in a relationship if your a man who's not settling down for a female and the relationship will end anyways... I focus on my economic situation and getting my money right... they think I'm crazy...:dahell:

I spent my 20's fukking around and not having anything to show for it... You literally cannot have it all... So I'd rather have stacks of money and chilling out...
:manny:

I've made peace with that choice and it drives them crazy... :ld: Don't know why???

I'm glad you brought this up. Women can't stand it when they see or know that a man is building himself up.

They hate it because it shows that you're trying to get above their level, and they know that once you hit that point they can't hit you with the same runarounds. Thus, if you're a man who knows what he wants out of life and you put women out of the equation because you know they'll slow you down, they will come to hate it because it shows that you can't be manipulated like most men. p*ssy is the often only ace up a woman's sleeve. Once you become immune to this weapon you're literally above 50% of the planet. Society doesn't teach men this when we're younger though.
 

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The most stupid thing about threads like this is hearing people act like it's easy to find a good woman or it's men that are always making bad decisions. Dudes can literally meet a woman with great qualities and still end up having their time wasted.

I can understand why dudes get frustrated but I'm just going to see what happens. There's really nothing we can do when dudes can try to be the best they can and still get screwed over by women regardless of the type of women we choose. There's more important things to care about in life besides women so I've stopped stressing about it.
 

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The most stupid thing about threads like this is hearing people act like it's easy to find a good woman or it's men that are always making bad decisions. Dudes can literally meet a woman with great qualities and still end up having their time wasted.

I can understand why dudes get frustrated but I'm just going to see what happens. There's really nothing we can do when dudes can try to be the best they can and still get screwed over by women regardless of the type of women we choose. There's more important things to care about in life besides women so I've stopped stressing about it.

EXACTLY.... there's plenty of more important things in life besides relationships with women... :manny:

They seem to NOT understand that at all...:patrice:
 

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I find more pleasure having 2 to 3 mini relationships throughout the year vs. trying to get in a long 2-3 year relationship.

6 months is enough to enjoy someone then keep it moving. Some people just like to keep it going until the wheels fall off although there are signs early on that they are with the wrong person.

So OP, try doing mini relationships for a couple years, spending significant time with 4-6 women in these 2 years and tell me what you think.
 

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I want a relationship wit a Woman, I'm compatible wit
and attracted to.:shaq:
Who's as faithful as me. And gets her own Money.
So, yeah. I still have hope to find her, and build a life wit her.
I won't waste my time on a Woman who don't fit my standards and don't share my values or interests.:yeshrug:
 

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It's about that time ladies and gents, when the nikkas who think they're funny come out of the woodwork.

Incidentally, no, I don't hate women. If I hated women I wouldn't be able to have sex with them, because women can tell when a guy hates women and refuses to open up to.

you mean like ted bundy? lol stop it breh, women dont have some special ability to tell shyt like that.
 

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I always thought it was interesting how in this hyper connected society of ours good relationships are harder to find than ever. Sex is easy, even more so for us compared to men.

A lot of it does seem pointless.

After someone's physical appearance draws you in that's when the fukk shyt really starts because most people are a disappointment and love is usually conditional...until it's not.

But you're lucky to get that kind of bond with someone maybe once-twice tops. I think I'm on my second chance in my current relationship. It's something you can't miss.
 
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EXACTLY.... there's plenty of more important things in life besides relationships with women... :manny:

They seem to NOT understand that at all...:patrice:

I know that, but does that mean we can't discuss this kinda stuff? I love experiences provided with money more than I do relationships. I love traveling to the Caribbean more than I do relationships. Those are just a couple stuff from my end, though.

I find more pleasure having 2 to 3 mini relationships throughout the year vs. trying to get in a long 2-3 year relationship.

6 months is enough to enjoy someone then keep it moving. Some people just like to keep it going until the wheels fall off although there are signs early on that they are with the wrong person.

So OP, try doing mini relationships for a couple years, spending significant time with 4-6 women in these 2 years and tell me what you think.

I've never even considered a mini-relationship but it's an interesting proposition. Dunno if I'd do it, but that's an option I never considered.

you mean like ted bundy? lol stop it breh, women dont have some special ability to tell shyt like that.

Lol, you'll learn soon. When you've been with enough women you'll know that all women have the insight to see things for how they are. A woman can see your girl and tell you if she's not truly committed to you or not. You'll learn soon though.

that whole first post was projection too. the whole topic is BS.

Lol, you'll learn too.
 

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I always thought it was interesting how in this hyper connected society of ours good relationships are harder to find than ever. Sex is easy, even more so for us compare to men.

A lot of it does seem pointless.

After someone's physical appearance draws you in that's when the fukk shyt really starts because most people are a disappointment and love is usually conditional...until it's not.

But you're lucky to get that kind if bond with someone maybe once-twice tops. I think I'm on my second chance in my current relationship. It's something you can't miss.

Dope shyt bro. I love hearing shyt like this. You sound like you actually get it as opposed to these whiners on the Coli talmbout some "Wuuuu wuuu u just h8 womeennn"
 

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I know that, but does that mean we can't discuss this kinda stuff? I love experiences provided with money more than I do relationships. I love traveling to the Caribbean more than I do relationships. Those are just a couple stuff from my end, though.



I've never even considered a mini-relationship but it's an interesting proposition. Dunno if I'd do it, but that's an option I never considered.



Lol, you'll learn soon. When you've been with enough women you'll know that all women have the insight to see things for how they are. A woman can see your girl and tell you if she's not truly committed to you or not. You'll learn soon though.



Lol, you'll learn too.


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straight up moving the goal post.... women dont have super powers... stop it child.
 

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Lol, you'll learn too.
dog, your whole first post is projection. it’s not even about “me”, it’s about you. if I was to interject, that would be the ONLY analysis I could come up with. now, anyone else reading your words should take a second and consider projection a possibility...
 
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