I think alot of women are retarded with things like that. They complained about not having careers and when they get them they feel entitled still NOT to pay for anything.
So basically you are supposed to support her funky ass and pay for everything why she stacks dough and just spend on herself?
if they want to be grown children in 2015 they will be treated as such
I think alot of women are retarded with things like that. They complained about not having careers and when they get them they feel entitled still NOT to pay for anything.
So basically you are supposed to support her funky ass and pay for everything why she stacks dough and just spend on herself?
Male: Check please sir
Female: Separate checks please.
M: Please, allow me to pay.
F: What? You don't think I can pay for it?
M:No I'm just...
F: What? You think I need a man to take care of me?
M: No no...
F: I'm an independent woman who can make it on her own without a man thank you. I can pay for my own thank you!
M:
F:
Waiter:
Not this again.If you really want something, make it a requirement then. There are guys out there who still do some, and is probably willing to do all, of these things but they most likely aren't what many women want in regards to appearance, personality, status, etc. You can't have it all.
The fact is a lot of women who would agree with the things listed are still giving up the box to guys who do the minimum.
Damn stories like this make you feel withdrawing from dating and focusing on you is the best. I've been the other dude on many occasions. SMH I'm going to do everything I can to become the other dude( you).Y'all indirectly set the standard for courtship so.....
And like another poster said, people, not only men are going to put in the least amount of effort to attain something.
"If she's worth it I'll go the extra mile"
But I've seen it first hand the actions listed above has gotten a nikka no play while I ate by literally doing nothing. Back when I was in college there was this fine slim athletic chocolate chick that went to my high school. She had this dude that was pursuing her for the longest. Always calling her beautiful and stuff on her IG pics, always walking her to class, using his meal card for her at the cafe. He wasn't ugly or anything (no homo) and was a legitimately good dude. Now here comes me on the other hand and I don't consider myself a bad dude, but I am the type of nikka who will put in the least effort possible to get in some draws if I can. So I've casually talked to this girl a few times, she's a friend of a friend and went to my high school, I always tease her about shyt yadda yadda I can tell she's feeling me.
So one night she ask me out the blue if I wanted to get anything to eat and she would buy. That night I didn't feel like going out because I had already made plans for another girl to come through the spot, but she said she would pick up Chinese food for carryout. She got dressed all nice under the presumption that we would be eating together in my room, but at this point the other girl had already arrived and we were watching TV on the couch. Her face just dropped to complete disappointment. She flashed a fake smile dropped off the food and left. Despite all that she was still fukking with the boy and a few weeks later I smashed
One day I asked her about the other dude basically telling her, you know he really likes you and she just said she wasn't interested and he was doing too much
Moral of the story. I'm not saying she was obliged to fukk with that other dude just because he gave her attention, but as a heterosexual male, I'm looking at this situation like I never want to be that guy. Especially since I was able to attain everything he pined for with little to no effort. This wasn't a bum bytch either, this was beautiful college educated girl who got a degree in Petroleum Engineering. This is just my example, but I'm sure most brehs on the Coli have been on one of side of a story similar to this and realize that a lot of things in the OP are simply unnecessary.
I'll play along.
What incentive do men have to out in "Herculean efforts?" Besides sex obviously, which many guys get without putting in much effort.
Male: Check please sir
Female: Separate checks please.
M: Please, allow me to pay.
F: What? You don't think I can pay for it?
M:
F: What? You think I need a man to take care of me?
M: No no...
F: I'm an independent woman who can make it on her own without a man thank you
M:
F:
Waiter:
., shoutout to #HOHI think alot of women are retarded with things like that. They complained about not having careers and when they get them they feel entitled still NOT to pay for anything.
So basically you are supposed to support her funky ass and pay for everything why she stacks dough and just spend on herself?
