7 Things We Truly Miss About Old-School Dating

[ExodusNirvana]

You Coli dudes, I swear.

"I'm not taking her out when I can Netflix and Chill"
"Why should I pay for dinner so she can go home to the dude who Netflix and Chills her"


now it's
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Which one is it? No dates and free sex? Or free sex then dates? It's OK if she's F'ing someone else as long as she is F'ing you, too right? That's when she becomes worthy of being bought some food? Too much shyt talking on here.

Stop it. Lets not be childish.

If we go out on a date, I'm not paying for your food until we have some kind of sexual relations. Please don't play stupid, we both know that you yourself or at least one of your homegirls has been treated to a meal by a dude that you had ZERO intention of giving any play to and you weren't clear about that shyt neither. And if you yourself or your homegirls has never done it cool but don't be equally as foolish to think that such a thing is not an occurrence.

And it's not a rare one either.

 

[VFib]

Stop it. Lets not be childish.

If we go out on a date, I'm not paying for your food until we have some kind of sexual relations. Please don't play stupid, we both know that you yourself or at least one of your homegirls has been treated to a meal by a dude that you had ZERO intention of giving any play to and you weren't clear about that shyt neither. And if you yourself or your homegirls has never done it cool but don't be equally as foolish to think that such a thing is not an occurrence.

And it's not a rare one either.

If this is what you keep coming across, then choose better. It's food. I can cook. Free food will NEVER be that serious where I'm wasting time with a man I don't like.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Eh.....

 

[freetroit]

I will buy you a drink but no food until my dikk get fed

I know its not about food. But I refuse to satisfy your attention craving by buying dinner giving extra attention that you haven't earned

You have to earn a dinner date

 

[Larry Lambo]

If this is what you keep coming across, then choose better. It's food. I can cook. Free food will NEVER be that serious where I'm wasting time with a man I don't like.

"Choose better" is oversimplifying the game big time. It's not like the girl is really going to tell you whether she's interested or not. If you want to "court" a woman, chances are you will be "courting" several women that have no interest in you, until you finally find the one that is.

I will say as women mature they tend to stop accepting dates from men that there is no interest in. But girls from 22-26 will take that offer to PF Changs in a heartbeat, if for no other reason than boredom.

It is what it is, tho. Once I shifted my focus to finding a life partner, I've gone the "dating" route. Running through jumpoffs is cool, but not my steez anymore, so I'll just suck it up and take some L's on the way.

 

[Dev2103]

Hmm, seems like chicks were satisfied with much less in terms of what is considered a good date. Having more money doesnt mean you have to spend more. I don't keep up with Jones and less vain gram types.

 

[Gold]

I will buy you a drink but no food until my dikk get fed

I know its not about food. But I refuse to satisfy your attention craving by buying dinner giving extra attention that you haven't earned

You have to earn a dinner date

I mean.. if that works for you


I'm just old school with how I treat women I guess. $15-$25 extra at dinner twice a week won't kill me if she's wifey material.

But if she's not...

 

[freetroit]

I mean.. if that works for you


I'm just old school with how I treat women I guess. $15-$25 extra at dinner twice a week won't kill me if she's wifey material.

But if she's not... [/QU
OTE]

Just some random chick you trying to fukk or your actual girl

Because i feel you it aint shyt to me to blow bread for dinner for a chick im fukking

But fukk all that dinner two times a week getting to know her

We can do that over drinks

But if thats what you on gone and cook breh

 

[Gold]

Oh i feel you on that. If its some random they get nothing.

I'll admit, I was a simp-up until college, I know how this game is played... You pay for dinner and go out on dates and do all this just to hear that you friend fukked her last night at the party .





They get nothing now... nothing

 

[jwonder]

I mean.. if that works for you


I'm just old school with how I treat women I guess. $15-$25 extra at dinner twice a week won't kill me if she's wifey material.

But if she's not...

It definitely goes for the type of women. I mean I'm pretty good at spotting the "free meal" bytches. So I generally haven't had a problem like that.

Drinks after work is usually how I start tho

 

[Gold]

It definitely goes for the type of women. I mean I'm pretty good at spotting the "free meal" bytches. So I generally haven't had a problem like that.

Drinks after work is usually how I start tho

Yeah, happy hour was made for this. You can send 6 drinks to 6 different ladies and not feel it too heavy in your pockets.

EDIT: I feel like a lot of people are saying how hard it is to date/talk to women these days... but I think its easier now than ever.

So many men have 0 real life confidence. Almost every woman I approach tells me the same thing "men never approach me, they look but they never say anything"

shyt is ez in 2015

 

[Dameon Farrow]

it's easy. all they gotta do is only go for dudes who will treat them that way. at the end of the day, they are choosing.

So true. Kats pick and choose when to have responsibility.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

These relationship/dating threads plus personal experiences are the reason I don't trust women

there better women on the other side of the ocean my dude

- blackierobinson

 

[jwonder]

there better women on the other side of the ocean my dude

- blackierobinson

Wish I can retire early and move to Belize

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I never have. I didn't even know there were men out there that expected women to pay for at least half until I joined internet forums. (But I also don't waste space in my life for bitter, heartbroken, disrespectful men like some of these Coli posters.)

In MY reality, the men had no problem paying. I tried paying for some food my ex and I were getting on the way back home, and he looked at me like I was crazy.

I just thank God for my reality, because if I didn't live it, I'd think Coli life was real life.

I can't believe there's women who actually think like this!