I like this mentality.
When it comes to courting, I always pay for everything. If I am going to put the effort into courting a woman, she has to be worth it. I know this mentality isn't popular here (i've been lurking for a while on these forums) but honestly its just how I roll.
Yes guys... there ARE some woman out there who are worth spending money on.
I don't think any man is against traditional courting if the woman is worth it.
It's just that, in today's society, a lot of women aren't worth it but still want that treatment.
As a man, you'd be a fool to wine and dine a woman when 3-4 other nikkas are getting more from her for less.
Once women have to start putting more effort in to attract the man they want, they'll get to experience this.
Can you imagine a woman throwing down in the kitchen and doing wife-like shyt for a nikka who has only taken her to TGIF, only to find out he's secretly taken another chick on a trip to Miami, complete with fine dining who has never so much as warmed up a tv dinner for him? The chick in the former situation would lose her shyt!
Women don't understand this shyt because they've never been in the shoes of men.
@LadySimone , you don't know what work that other woman has put in, right? Maybe she's earned that treatment.
