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[calixprynce]

Shout out to the OP. I been single for 7-8 months and was thinking of getting back into seriously dating but then I realized this single shyt is goat, especially for a breh that doesn't want kids. My ex is in her last year of med school so I might cave and give in eventually but for now Im enjoying it.

I thought getting bacc with an ex was a no go

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

Im doing my masters right now and as you know, there isnt much guys that end up going into high education. Thus, im mostly friends with females.

my girl is constantly jealous of girls that text my phone, even if it’s business related. And im not hiding shyt, i open the messages right in front of her because there is nothing going on.

Shes mad at me right now because im in a group chat with my close friends who are two females that i also have worked with for 4 years now. Do i drop them or drop her?

i been debating this for this past two weeks.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[King Khufu]

Breh you on your wrong account. Go log on to @Typical Simp and come back so I know you joking.

I'm not joking and my advice does not make me soft.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Breh she acted a complete fool yesterday and now she acting like nothing happened

I'm not showing any outside emotion but on the inside I'm like

Yup

My girl hit me with that shyt too.. Literally mind blowing

Hit me up the next day talking about she wanted to have sex and talking like i didnt just damn near kick her to the curb this week.

Im like " you're crazy af".

I told her im good, i need space. So now she trying to act like shyt is going down at her place, trying to get me to talk on the phone or go over there and im just sitting here rewriting my paper for communications class before I go to work tonight

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Women will put you through all types of shyt if they don't think you'll leave and not come back

 

[Mr Rager]

I've had time to cool down, I'm glad a lot of brehs contributed to the thread because I was BIG mad yesterday.
I definitely won with my girl. She does whatever I want, is accommodating, loyal, is not a thot (right ?), very caring, p*ssy and head on demand, takes care of me (cooks/cleans EVERY day), does not nag.
Basically everything I ever asked for in a woman. AND she's a BW
But the thing that has really got me thinking God is a practical joker, is that despite all these these positive qualities, she still annoys me to no end just by doing things the majority of women apparently do. Talking too much, being clingy at times, sucking the fun out of things I enjoy, and the worst one, not knowing when to leave me the fukk ALONE!...brehs...it just seems like we can't win.
I understand that relationships are full of compromises, etc and that expecting a whole separate person to behave the way you want them to is impractical but I really wish these women had an 'off' switch sometimes...

a wise man once told me "if you want to go fast, go alone. if you want to go further, go together"

I love this.

How so breh?

Breh, when you get into a relationship with someone you truly care about, you feel like it will be forever. You can't see yourself without that person. I'm certain you felt that way at the beginning of your LTR. I just worry that after 11 years, I won't feel the same way about my girl. Right now, I can't see my life without her (despite all my complaining on here). But it scares me that you can be with someone for 10+ years and then...not be with them. I'm talking in circles right now but bottom line I want to go the distance with her, I don't trust anyone else the way I trust her, and if this relationship falls through I'm done with close personal relationships with females

I just would like to say this thread is church and therapy.

Breh this was true therapy, I didn't realize how frustrated I really was until I let it out on here. And to see that other brehs were dealing with the same frustrations was huge for me, man I thought I was trippin for real . We need forums like these to keep ourselves sane.
The thread was great until @BlackPearl The Empress came in here derailing...Listen: Let us have our space to vent, damn! Everything doesn't need to be an argument--you just further proved the points that some of the dudes in here were bringing up!

 

[Mr Rager]

honestly seems like alot of yall dont pick your bytch well. And don't say that shyt "ive dated tons of women."

nikka you can pick the wrong mf every time too cus ive witnessed women do the same shyt since 9th grade n we in our mid 20s now.


I mean, ive only been with my girl about 2 months officially and 6-7 months total so it's hella early but i honestly think this the girl im down to live long n raise kids with . We'll see how it goes


Not gonna lie, as an introvert, i kinda miss being single, but like bob marley said you gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Homie one thing I've learned is there is NO such thing as a perfect woman. Some people are in bad relationship situations. I guarantee you I am not, and I STILL get annoyed as fukk by my girl. Stay with yours for 5+ years...you'll see

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Breh you really did just take the four wude to heart and applied it to his real life.

In the bible it says that its better to live your life alone than be with a quarrelsome woman.

Keep living your life by the Lord's word

I'm waiting on Shenmue 3 to teach me more life lessons.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I just miss the quiet. No issues to deal with but my own
Now I gotta hear about people i don't know doing shyt I don't care about

But that loneliness does creep up on you...


I don't know which one is worse anymore

Yo she just hit me with some shyt like this now.

I mean i guess i should care but i don't... I didnt hire them nikkas and had no say in the process.

I always got to hear about some random person that i barely know or care about

Only thing i might vent about is my lazy ass coworker/manager who doesn't want to do shyt all night (but im always stuck with lazy nikkas), and she barely gives a fukk so i barely say shyt...

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

These hoes be acting up

These hoes be acting up

These hoes be acting up

Because spineless Coli dudes be letting em

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Payday23]

I hear you brehs, my girl be on one sometimes

What girl

 

[seabreeze80]

I think most of you chose wrong. Why be with someone you can't relate to and then complain about them making your life hell? Does that sound sane to you? It's like some of you settled with the first woman you were attracted to, and despite all the warning signs you still stay and try to make it work. Life is too short for that.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I think most of you chose wrong. Why be with someone you can't relate to and then complain about them making your life hell? Does that sound sane to you? It's like some of you settled with the first woman you were attracted to, and despite all the warning signs you still stay and try to make it work. Life is too short for that.

Women as a general rule make men who love them miserable.