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CarmelBarbie said:
If they did one for the fellas are y’all going to pretend that you’d pick the woman who looks like Lizzo? Or that if you did pick Lizzo to wife that your not going to secretly smash the sexy woman? Come on now lol.
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Men put a high premium on looks and it ends up fukking us over in the end. Women move past that early on. Aftet a certain age, looks aren't enough, they want security too after a certain age. They want looks AND financial security, and for the man to just be the kind of person they can parade on social media without embarrassment. Crisp hairline, nice expensive outfits, taller than her, looks good in swim trunks because he obviously works out diligently, has a house and a nice car etc. The kind of nikka that makes other women envious and makes mamma go 'ooooh you got a GOOD one' .

You can't really do an equivalent comparison because men aren't conditioned to look at a woman for security, or to inspire envy in other men. Its just not a factor when men are choosing who to date because the idea of a man who is financially dependent on a woman fills both men and women with disgust and most men don't care if anyone thinks their girl is fine. If anything, we hate it because it means other dudes tryna fukk. Hell yeah I'll be jealous if I know my girl is a dime and other men are constantly trying to smash.

Yes, even the enlightened feminists aren't cool with a situation where shes working 80 hrs a week and he does the basic chores in the house and spends the rest of his day going to the gym, playing 2k and posting online. Lot of men are fine with their girlfriend or wife spending her day posting on Twitter, gossiping online and shopping and doing yoga while he's putting in 50-60hr weeks in the office so long as she treats him with basic dignity, cleans up after herself and doesn't cheat.

The best comparison you can give is maybe a Michelle Obama vs a meg the stallion. Michelle Obama isn't seeing meg in the looks department, but she's still a beautiful woman who can handle business. Men are more likely to choose a woman who won't give him headaches but doesn't look like a dime over a woman who looks outstanding but is toxic as hell.
 
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Scustin Bieburr said:
Men put a high premium on looks and it ends up fukking us over in the end. Women move past that early on. Aftet a certain age, looks aren't enough, they want security too after a certain age. They want looks AND financial security, and for the man to just be the kind of person they can parade on social media without embarrassment. Crisp hairline, nice expensive outfits, taller than her, looks good in swim trunks because he obviously works out diligently, has a house and a nice car etc. The kind of nikka that makes other women envious and makes mamma go 'ooooh you got a GOOD one' .

You can't really do an equivalent comparison because men aren't conditioned to look at a woman for security, or to inspire envy in other men. Its just not a factor when men are choosing who to date because the idea of a man who is financially dependent on a woman fills both men and women with disgust and most men don't care if anyone thinks their girl is fine. If anything, we hate it because it means other dudes tryna fukk. Hell yeah I'll be jealous if I know my girl is a dime and other men are constantly trying to smash.

Yes, even the enlightened feminists aren't cool with a situation where shes working 80 hrs a week and he does the basic chores in the house and spends the rest of his day going to the gym, playing 2k and posting online. Lot of men are fine with their girlfriend or wife spending her day posting on Twitter, gossiping online and shopping and doing yoga while he's putting in 50-60hr weeks in the office so long as she treats him with basic dignity, cleans up after herself and doesn't cheat.

The best comparison you can give is maybe a Michelle Obama vs a meg the stallion. Michelle Obama isn't seeing meg in the looks department, but she's still a beautiful woman who can handle business. Men are more likely to choose a woman who won't give him headaches but doesn't look like a dime over a woman who looks outstanding but is toxic as hell.
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Y’all over play “looks” way too much. Of course women want the person they are most attracted too but that’s a really wide lane. Wide enough that any guy that’s in decent shape and knows what personal hygiene is shouldn’t think twice about it.
 
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CarmelBarbie said:
If they did one for the fellas are y’all going to pretend that you’d pick the woman who looks like Lizzo? Or that if you did pick Lizzo to wife that your not going to secretly smash the sexy woman? Come on now lol.
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thats whats so silly about that post. Like their only options are deadbeat model or bankin biggie.

For the record, nothing Lizzo could be bringing to the table that would make me wife that.
 
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The ADD said:
Y’all over play “looks” way too much. Of course women want the person they are most attracted too but that’s a really wide lane. Wide enough that any guy that’s in decent shape and knows what personal hygiene is shouldn’t think twice about it.
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Dating has been boiled down to a job interview ESPECIALLY when you're online. Your profile pictures are the resume, the text exchanges are the interview and the subsequent dates are your probationary period where you feel things out and she does too. You either end up fired, or you quit and look for something that's a better fit.

You're not getting an interview if your resume is trash. Your pics need to demonstrate health and wellness. Thats physical wellness, financial, social, and emotional. A man who appears funny, fit, clever, paid and organized will win every time over a guy who is average but will 100% treat her well and be a good person. It is a dangerous myth that men need to let go of, that women don't care about looks. Get in the gym, learn to enjoy exercise and fitness, eat well, look the best you can for you and women will notice. They see that you care about yourself because it shows in your looks and how you carry yourself. Everyone cares about looks and everyone wants to have the best they possibly can, especially women who are spoiled for choice. If you aren't the best, you'll be replaced because its easy to replace you and women are encouraged to leave relationships for any reason. Its exceedingly rare to see a woman check another woman for disclosing she wants to leave a good man.
 
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Scustin Bieburr said:
Dating has been boiled down to a job interview ESPECIALLY when you're online. Your profile pictures are the resume, the text exchanges are the interview and the subsequent dates are your probationary period where you feel things out and she does too. You either end up fired, or you quit and look for something that's a better fit.

You're not getting an interview if your resume is trash. Your pics need to demonstrate health and wellness. Thats physical wellness, financial, social, and emotional. A man who appears funny, fit, clever, paid and organized will win every time over a guy who is average but will 100% treat her well and be a good person. It is a dangerous myth that men need to let go of, that women don't care about looks. Get in the gym, learn to enjoy exercise and fitness, eat well, look the best you can for you and women will notice. They see that you care about yourself because it shows in your looks and how you carry yourself. Everyone cares about looks and everyone wants to have the best they possibly can, especially women who are spoiled for choice. If you aren't the best, you'll be replaced because its easy to replace you and women are encouraged to leave relationships for any reason. Its exceedingly rare to see a woman check another woman for disclosing she wants to leave a good man.
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I didn’t say they don’t care but the tone here lends to making it way more complicated than it really is. The majority of things you should be doing for yourself is enough to check the box for enough females to find you attractive.

It’s really a waste of time to worry about a woman finding your physically attractive to the point that dudes in here are claiming Ugly Gang :snoop:
 
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