So much denial in this thread. There are people who don't like dealing with the drama that comes with having a relationship. They have found other ways to create community and enjoy the company of others without sex. There's always a thread posted in here about how unnatural monogamy is for men, yet some of y'all find it hard to believe some women just have opted out of dealing with the inevitable heartbreak of a partner who will not stay faithful. Did it ever occur to you that perhaps women also believe monogamy is unrealistic and don't want to deal with the drama/pain that will eventually rear its ugly head? Then there's the fact that asexuality is a real thing. Yes, there's empirical evidence, and examples of attractive people who don't have any desire to have sex or get this, they are actually grossed out by sex. People need to start realizing their priorities and desires are not universal. They never were, things are just more transparent now and people no longer have to find or stay in relationship to survive.