A MAJORITY of Single Women in America Are Not Looking For Marriage, A Committed Relationship, or Casual Sex. They're Just Not Interested. (STUDY)

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So much denial in this thread. There are people who don't like dealing with the drama that comes with having a relationship. They have found other ways to create community and enjoy the company of others without sex. There's always a thread posted in here about how unnatural monogamy is for men, yet some of y'all find it hard to believe some women just have opted out of dealing with the inevitable heartbreak of a partner who will not stay faithful. Did it ever occur to you that perhaps women also believe monogamy is unrealistic and don't want to deal with the drama/pain that will eventually rear its ugly head? Then there's the fact that asexuality is a real thing. Yes, there's empirical evidence, and examples of attractive people who don't have any desire to have sex or get this, they are actually grossed out by sex. People need to start realizing their priorities and desires are not universal. They never were, things are just more transparent now and people no longer have to find or stay in relationship to survive.

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It's as if people actually have personal preferences. :leon:

Some of the finest women I've ever met were homebodies when they were 22 while their friends and everyone else their age were going out every week.

I don't mean they were fine because they were homebodies, but actually fine af physically yet didn't really like going out. I knew two off the top with different circles of friends that preferred staying at home and playing MMORPG's/Final Fantasy on a Friday night and another two who loved to sing/make music and stayed going to the studio every chance they got instead of going out. Actually having made music for years, I realize many people who walked into the studio to record did so at night time, many of which were weekends.

So you can imagine there are people out there who'd rather paint, draw, cook, read, learn something new, etc. than meet people.

My wife's friends took a road trip to see the Grand Canyon and other natural monuments last year.

Even a simple drive around Hollywood on a Friday/Saturday night will show you only a small subset of people compared to the total population of the city and surrounding areas partake in the nightlife.

Everyone not realizing this most likely thinks the world is smaller and less diverse than it really is.
 
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the problem is most of them want to fukk but not date. and if the dude they were fukkin wanted to marry them they’d do it in a miami minute

“i don’t want a relationship” just means “i can’t get the relationship i want”. we all gotta cope somehow
 

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But then why are women still having kids? Not just Black women either, all.
 

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I kept telling brehs those days of shaming women into marriage are over. They don’t care anymore because they have independence and plenty of options.

Attempting to go back to traditional values was a stupid mission and will only leave a lot of you upset and jaded.

Adjust to the current market and shifting culture. TLR supposed to be HOH and GMB right? Or was that just a front?

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The shifting culture is anti family, anti black man, anti longevity...

Alot of women understand this and are not good with it and want to build with a decent man with his head screwed on straight...

Problem is cats still act like we in high school on their infinite pursuit of ass and cool points...

Be a responsible adult, go where responsible adults congregate, meet responsible adult females...the end.
 

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I kept telling brehs those days of shaming women into marriage are over. They don’t care anymore because they have independence and plenty of options.

Attempting to go back to traditional values was a stupid mission and will only leave a lot of you upset and jaded.

Adjust to the current market and shifting culture. TLR supposed to be HOH and GMB right? Or was that just a front?

:mjpls:
TLR is a bunch of dudes that don’t get p*ssy . they just be mad at women . Hard on hoes that they wouldn’t be able to fukk anyway
 

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Single men are far more likely than single women to be looking for a relationship or dates – 61% vs. 38%. This gender gap is especially apparent among older singles.
Those women are lying. The girls of today don’t want to admit they don’t want to be single and/or are looking bc they see it as not feminist and desperate. Todays version of feminism likes to act like women who like men are self hating misogynistic pick me’s. These numbers don’t match up with the rest in the article.
 

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bullshyt ass survey :dead:

no one under 40 isnt looking for marriage, a relationship, OR casual sex

and even if they're lying to themselves about that, theyd drop it in a second if the opportunity presented itself, in the form of the right person
 

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I kept telling brehs those days of shaming women into marriage are over. They don’t care anymore because they have independence and plenty of options.

Attempting to go back to traditional values was a stupid mission and will only leave a lot of you upset and jaded.

Adjust to the current market and shifting culture. TLR supposed to be HOH and GMB right? Or was that just a front?

:mjpls:
The only ones I see trying to shame women into marriage are the women who always try to bash other women for having kids oow. No one else seems to care much until people reach a certain age then they question both genders, men get called gay/leftovers , women used up/leftovers . And the single people be the main ones calling each other that.

Both genders have many options for casual sex, not relationships. And it is women who require tradition from men despite being modern and calling men/women who like the traditional woman role pick me’s and misogynistic.

Out of the current selection of people (both genders), majority aren’t even relationship material, let alone marriage material. So it’s probably better that they aren’t getting married.
 
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