A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[hayesc0]

Everyone on this site says they hate her but somehow nikkas follow her every move

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Nah that's not true. Some women have standards and refuse to settle. And you can't tell somebody to settle cause I'm not settling for an aint shyt chick so women shouldnt have to settle for aint shyt nikkas or somebody they arent compatible with.

Miss the point brehs

 

[OG Talk]

Yea I thought she made a good point actually..

You can meet a chick that's bad as hell, got her shyt together, she's really feeling you, does things to show you how much she's feeling you, sometimes even completely submitting to what you want in a woman..

And its still not enough to make you commit back on that level

No homo but you are probably a good looking guy with a desirable career. Just from how you describe your options in women.


There’s a long line of Black men that would love to commit to a woman like her. Would change her oil, rotate her tires, cut her grass and hand wash her dirty draws.

But the thing is there is something physically, financially, educationally or socially that doesn’t live up her standards. I think that’s what a lot of women need to be honest with. Ugly broke people fall in love with each other everyday.

I see the same thing with Claudia Jordan. She’s always on social media crying about how Black men don’t want to commit to her and every one of her exes look like Boris Kudjo.

At the end of the day most men are only as faithful as their options.

 

[Barnett114]

Aint this bytch Caribbean?

#ACL nikkas / @GodinDaFlesh come get this bytch

Y'all got to stop with this corny ethnic beef shyt in every thread

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I don’t really follow her and I ain’t watch the video, but that quote is true to life with what I’m dealing with right now. Then I can also look at one of my homies from college who let a good relationship/woman go because of this. Not sure what the issue is with this generation but I’m about to go white

 

[saturn7]

In this day and age how does committing to one of these emotional wrecks in any way benefit a man (one that has something going for himself not a dusty nikka with nothing to lose)?

 

[hood b. goode]

shes 100% right and im the poster boy of this

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I know y'all hate her but let's keep it real. There's a lot of us who even if we met the perfect woman we would be hesitant to commit and give up the option of what we may perceive as freedom.

And honestly there is nothing wrong with feeling that way as a man. There's some women who feel the same way.

She asked a good question that's being ignored, which is, where does that leave everyone else who are willing to commit?

My answer: Just find someone you like who's willing to commit as much as you are.

The problem here is that the people get stuck on what they cannot have instead of focusing what's in their control.

Hard not to when if the only issue between y’all is that someone is simply scared/unwilling to commit. Would be one thing if that person didn’t like/love you, treat you right, etc.

Anyway. I’m out this one

 

[xCivicx]

So basically she wants a breh with options, to give up his options

 

[Astroslik]

I don’t really follow her and I ain’t watch the video, but that quote is true to life with what I’m dealing with right now. Then I can also look at one of my homies from college who let a good relationship/woman go because of this. Not sure what the issue is with this generation but I’m about to go white

I imagine your requirements cannot be achieved by regular brehs.

The problem is, the men you want already has loads of options. Really hard for a top tier breh, single and no kids to be locked down..

 

[Barnett114]

I’m about to go white

 

[xCivicx]

The low rate of black marriages tell you what you need to know about black men and committing.

It also tells you a lot about the pool of females available for brehs to commit to...

 

[DPresidential]

We literally have a dedicated GMB contingency and nikkas like Alpha Male Strategies talking about fukking bytches to sleep for life and we still giving her a hard time for saying an honest complaint that black woman genuinely have?

So many of my brehs in my circle - I'm talking nikkas who have their shyt together, attractive, making money, professionals, etc - and they enjoy the bachelor life so much it's hard to break away from it.


shyt it took me way too long to commit to the best woman I've ever met. I literally gambled losing the best woman for me because I enjoyed being THAT nikka for a gang of women.

She has a point that should begin atleast an amicable discussion.

 

[Cadillac]

Y'all got to stop with this corny ethnic beef shyt in every thread

just having fun and poking at a hole in their logic. nikkas be claiming X so they should claim this chick to

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I actually prefer being single so that I can focus on my well-being (mentally & physically) plus I'm the type of man that doesn't mind being alone, one time a woman once told me that by me choosing to be single I'm being selfish I didn't understand at first what she exactly meant by that but I'm guessing this Amanda woman has similar thoughts.