Go to college to "find yourself". No. Find yourself before college, even if that means taking time off. Otherwise you waste time and money
Advice that you later learned was BS?
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A lot of lying and cheating people making crazy bank in sales, law, and finance completely removed from prison. Hell, every c-suite and director level guy ive ever met in corporate was heavy with lies and deceit , which is ironic because they would be the same ones demanding "integrity" from their subordinates.They say that to keep you out of prison.
Id argue the folks in the correctional system were just the stupid cheaters and liers.
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I’d say closer to 99%Yeah, that’s bad advice for 95 percent of people.
If you’ve been being “yourself” and aren’t getting the results you want in life….shyt ain’t workin…whether you’re the nice guy, not getting promoted, not passing interviews, friendships/relationships aren’t lasting…it’s time to reflect and take another approach… stop being “yourself” instead, create your new self to get further in life and overcome these situations
There’s a reason there are frameworks, trainings, guides, etc
Way too much “I’m a queen. I’m perfect”
Yea. I wouldn’t limit it to natural positive qualities. Even when it comes to leadership, etc… there are things about “yourself” you have get rid of and develop/adopt new characteristics—speech, language, appearance, presentation, behaviors, etc
I highly doubt someone who is gonna go to a leadership training and they’re told to just be yourself in order to make it to the top
This..seen so many lose out on good situations by doing too much asking on some closed mouths don’t get fed shyt..sometimes you gotta play your role
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Anything preaching forgiveness. A lot of people won’t change and don’t want to change so best to move on from them. Family included
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Giving advice is a form of complicated projection. Like when folks just blindly tell kids to get an education....any education. They just wish they had and at least in part blame that on their own shortcomings. A lot of times it's the only way they know to wish someone the best.Be a nice guy because that's what women like (said by women)
As far as females wanting a 'nice guy', some females(who aren't full blown sociopaths) know they choose to deal with a lot of bums but they know admitting such something like that will open up for a truth about how they view themselves. Self reflection is scary for a lot of folks. Like more terrifying than jumping out of a plane not knowing if you remembered a parachute scary. It's easier to blame others and place oneself on a pedastal. Even if it isn't a very high one? Anything beats the floor.
Self reflection(some might be familiar with a term called ego death) has value for the mind. Can change your life. Not just blabbing shyt off I don't know with that one. Personal experience which led to personal growth.
IMO, you forgive for your own mental and spiritual peace. That doesn’t mean forget or be friends with them, but as people, we need to get rid of that hatred before it destroys us from the inside