[AGENDA] Why I Stopped Dating Black American Men When I Decided I Was Ready For Marriage

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Going out to restaurants and mindfully ordering the cheapest item on the menu, bringing a form of payment just in case a date is unwilling or unable to pay, being expected to pull additional weight in relationships while women of other ethnic groups marry to alleviate these same pressures

:mjpls: She isn't wife material..
 

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Another day, another black men ain't shyt article sigh. Do these chicks got anything else to do.
:russ: she didn’t even say that. She actually didn’t shyt on black men at all and pointed a lot of blame to herself and got therapy. Y’all read a line, got emotional and took it out of context. You can tell who didn’t read it.
 

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Like the breh @ezrathegreat said; This only a problem for you “nobody but black women” nikkas:yeshrug:

We eatin takeout, brehs:blessed:

Chinese on Monday :takedat:

Korean on Tuesday :wow:

Pawg on Wednesday :ohhh:

Philipinoe on Thursday :shaq:
Indian on Friday :whoo:

And for the weekend; it’s a sample plate of everything :damn:

:yeshrug:My girl is Croatian. The brehs who only date black women are gonna get froze out of the dating game in the next couple of years.
 
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I can dig it, now will you admit that black women are attracted to dysfunction? I have about 5 friends all under the age of 35 with give or take 18 kids, and none of them nikkas struck me as the type to marry. Some even have 3 to 5 kids. Why would you shack up with a dude who has 5 kids, That you know isn't married?
 

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Her #2 is the reason for #1. Black American men are less stable therefore arent going to marry as much through no fault of their own. I think brehs are mad at her lack of empathy? Guys need to stop seeing every BW as some kind of queen or ally. You will see more of this in the future. Not everyone gonna want to be with the demographic pretty carrying all the negatives of blackness on their backs.
 

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:gucci: says who? I know a couple brothas who doin that. Plus, lemme get this straight. And while we @ it, are you LOOKING to be a stay @ home mom, our do you simply want the option? I just need to know what the intention is.
AA men basically dont get married at all, now they want to be single income providers? I don't see it. Yes I'd want to stay home with a child under 2-3.

I'm not trying to attack AA men:mjpls:
but I do think there needs to be a dialogue and acceptance from AA women that marriage and nuclear families are not part of our culture and not to have that as a goal.
 

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I can dig it, now will you admit that black women are attracted to dysfunction? I have about 5 friends all under the age of 35 with give or take 18 kids, and none of them nikkas struck me as the type to marry. Some even have 3 to 5 kids. Why would you shack up with a dude who has 5 kids, That you know isn't married?

I wholeheartedly agree. I attract baby fathers with dysfunctional ass relationships like whoa-the drama unveils after we start sexing though :francis: off that for good
 
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