All my homies are wifing up single moms...

ill_will82

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I have no problems with the single mother or the child, its the separated father that gets on my nerve. Men are territorial as hell, and I'm not sure if I want to deal with that for the rest of my life. Men see you moving in on their girl ( no matter how bad he treated her) , and wars breakout.

Yup. Exactly why I don't want to deal with women w/kids. Then if the father treated the mother like shyt during the relationship/pregnancy he still thinks he have the right to still try and hit on the low. If dudes gave a fukk about the woman they knocked up they wouldn't have put her through a bunch of bullshyt.
 
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Where all these virgins at breh?
:justgodude:I was making jokes cause that shyt was funny. Also, like for most things we talk about on the coli, go outside.

Just because things take time, that don't mean you can't find em:manny:If a breh wants himself a virgin, he can find one, even if it takes him days, weeks, months, or years.

Not all relationships are meant to last, so a breh can ignore getting into some until he finds what he wants.
 

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At the end of the day, I'm not disrespecting single mothers because shyt does happen, but there a lot of naive men that need to know the potential pitfalls of wifing a woman with kids. Dudes go into these relationships with positive intention (good chemistry, she's attractive, "I can save her" mentality, etc."), but are completely unaware of the challenges of being in such a relationship, such as the baby daddy always being in the picture, the mother putting her children first before you, always having to find a babysitter if you want to go out and have fun, the mother secretly missing the man shes shares a human being with, not to mention the economic costs they may not be prepared for. It's like how people join the military without seriously considering that they could potentially be maimed for life or killed. :francis:These aren't the type of relationships you should just jump into without some serious insight. :yeshrug:
 

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At the end of the day, I'm not disrespecting single mothers because shyt does happen, but there a lot of naive men that need to know the potential pitfalls of wifing a woman with kids. Dudes go into these relationships with positive intention (good chemistry, she's attractive, "I can save her" mentality, etc."), but are completely unaware of the challenges of being in such a relationship, such as the baby daddy always being in the picture, the mother putting her children first before you, always having to find a babysitter if you want to go out and have fun, the mother secretly missing the man shes shares a human being with, not to mention the economic costs they may not be prepared for. It's like how people join the military without seriously considering that they could potentially be maimed for life or killed. :francis:These aren't the type of relationships you should just jump into without some serious insight. :yeshrug:

You shouldn't jump into any relationship without serious insight. The problem is most people don't intend to get serious and then "things happen."
 

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You shouldn't jump into any relationship without serious insight. The problem is most people don't intend to get serious and then "things happen."

Yes all relationships are hard. Relationships with single parents are 10 times harder and involve more than just the man and the woman.
 

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It's a weird conundrum with a single mother. It is their biological obligation to take care of their kids. They still want to meet the ideal man, have romance, have more kids whatever. But they are almost always mothers first. If not then they are just another shytty parent.

So you can't blame some by the way they operate.
 

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Where you meet these pawgs at in the A bruh :skip:
All over bruh. Networking events, Bars in Buckhead and Virginia highlands, East Atlanta Village, Edgewood, Piedmont Park, jogging at Stone Mountain, Perimeter and Cumberland Mall, Happy Hours at various restaurants, Food Truck Festivals, Wine/Beer Festivals, Bar Crawls, EDM Parties...They are all over the A
 

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this is some bullshyt lol. People be like "single father, wow.. it's amazing how he raise them kids all by himself like that" like they just assume he a good dude but when its a woman she ain't shyt and must be looking for handouts :dead: :pachaha:

That's because black males are stereotyped as sorry, absentee parents. So if a black man is interacting with their child it is automatically assumed, until proven otherwise, that he's a good father.
 
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Yes if you date black women. I date PAWGS and most of the ones I meet wouldn't dare have a kid out of wedlock or they'd be disowned byt heir family.

Date Black women brehs

I don't know where you live but out here it be the "PAWGS" who are all on welfare and shyt, got multiple kids, multiple fathers, and they walk around in flip flops and Abercrombie sweatpants thinkin they look cute pushing that carriage until you get close and their face is caked with make up, they got a bad tan and they smell like cigarettes.

:pachaha:
 

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This is what I see

Before kids

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After kids

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Its not her kids. Its her crazy bd that the problem. Im 31 with no kids so im willing to date one. But most say they dont want to have any more kids that a problem too they bd or do they want to have more kids. But most single moms I met was cool. They never asked me to be a father figure or financial help I would do it on the strength tho if I ever dated them. It depends mindset and where u at in life. Its not for everyone. Just for some cats.
 

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I met my wife 12 years ago, she was young single month with a little girl.
Her daughter is grown now but we have three little girl's together an building a empire being married 10 years. Easily the greatest discision I've ever made
 
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