ultraflexed
Superstar
You didn't have any children before your wife though.
I think if you are of a certain age, maturity, got ya hoeness out of your system etc then I don't see too much of a problem with it.
I wouldn't recommend people doing what I did, I had no business stepping into the role I did at that age with no experience.
However my wife at that time had the least out of all the women I had dated Prior, her potential to be great was through the roof, she was the underdog but she has beaten pretty much everyone i had prior to her, with exception of the doctor, but in terms of total fulfilled life she's beaten her too. So it was the right choice but I was stil too young...should of just finished college first then see what wanted to do next.
Man, I had so many options..lol
The ex before I met my wife was a legit 10 in the face and she was school to be a doctor and is one now
Then I this superbad biracial chick from UC Berkeley was trying to get me to commit but I wanted to move to LA. I had every reason to not go thr direction I did but it worked out...shyt those option are just ones I mention there were at least 3 more legit childless ladies I entertained