All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[At30wecashout]

Women worth a damn are married by that age. That's why I'm glad I still look 20. #youngforever.

Not always, breh. There are wifeable women in shyt relationships who will one day become single mothers. Doesn't make them any less of a partner.

I said that at the beginning of this thread myself. On the other end, there are women who would make potentially great wives who are perpetually single for one

reason or another. So bottom line: No, you don't HAVE to be with a single mother to find a good woman. Yes, a single mother can be a good woman.

No, not every marriage type woman is locked down. She might not have met the right guy yet. Yes, she can be older and without child.

 

[At30wecashout]

Only way to solve single mother hood is remove the safety net, they should be unwifeable, unfukkable to any male person.

So you gonna leave your husband and you're not a widow? But nobody else would want you, better stay with that nikka.

Breh, what is with all this? This is why these threads never work. This type of shyt is the only thing people acknowledge in "single mother" threads.

Not everybody hates singles mothers (hell, I was raised by one), but this over-the-top shyt gets quoted, and people be all "Ya'll this and ya'll that" lumping these knucklehead
comments in with the logical ones.

 

[AB Ziggy]

Not only am I a woman but for all intents and purposes I am also a single mother. Please believe me, my stock didn't decrease the moment I gave birth nor the moment I decided to separate from my husband. For every arrogant prick who believes he's somehow better than me because he was lucky enough to not knock someone up, there's someone else out there who sees my value and my children are an added bonus.

fukk what you heard....I'm choosing.

An established single father with a kid or two would have no problem with single mothers like yourself. But no decent man with no kids and major things for himself will put himself with such predicaments

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Look at this quote. Now read the following scenario.

Breh Brehterson Jr. is your typical Coli nikka; pro black (but smashes PAWGs to avenge slavery), has 6 Cisco certs, is 6'6, drives a 6 Series, and at 26 makes well over 6 figures. So he decides to "settle down" with a black woman because PAWGs are just for smashing. But Breh is on his #GMB shyt so he is just going to have her move in to his 6 bedroom crib. So Breh and Brehetta (who is 23 and childless) have two kids Breh Jr. Jr. and Colette. Four years later they break up. So Breh is 30 and Brehtta is 27.

Breh plays the field for about two years and while he's real in the field shyt gets real. At 32 he has a kid with a chick, LeWench (26), who was just supposed to be a one night stand (she don't really fukk with brehs like that ). Damn. So Breh Jr. III is born and he tries to make it work with the baby mama. They are off and on for the next five years and in that time LeWench has twins; Septymm (the second m is silent) and Swyrl. Shortly after Breh and LeWench break up. So Breh is 37 and LeWench 31.

Off Breh goes again. Playing the field for another three years (an abortion happened ) and finally meets someone who makes him toss that #GMB into the bushes; PAWGqueisha, a half German-Black 28 year old. So her marries her and they have three kids; Six, Certs, and Series.

So Breh Brehterson Jr, a college educated black man with a doctorate and position as VP of Regional Finance for a multinational has eight kids. Five of which live in single parent households. Breh is a good father. Spends as much time as he can. Supports financially. But five of those kids will not have a male role model in the house full time because like Breh Jr, most men don't want to date women with kids already. Whoops. Such is life. Not a thug, not a jail bird, college educated. Even tempered. Good job. Didn't cheat or beat. Just grew apart. But hey, those women should have chosen better, right?

What in the entire fukk is the point of this

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

An established single father with a kid or two would have no problem with single mothers like yourself. But no decent man with no kids and major things for himself will put himself with such predicaments

Yeah I don't know where she got having a kid for another man as being an "added bonus"

To a man with no kids that is a burden
Like a handicap

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

You're choosing what's available to you. Whether you keep these men around or not when you get flabby remains to be seen.

In that case, everyone is choosing from what's available to them. I have turned down plenty of men for various reasons, who have known I had kids. It's not an issue, Sweetie.

The stock doesn't get to decided its own value to the masses

Thats like an ugly person saying that they are not ugly to the majority

When. Truthfully they are

That doesn't mean there are others who don't value the stock value
Or think that ugly person is cute

Things are subjective

A new car is more valuable to the masses than a used one
But some others may like used cars

Bottom line is this...

ANY woman with a shred of confidence is not jumping on the first dikk that pays her attention. Which brings me back to my original statement. The majority of you motherfukkas are not the pick of the litter. You underestimate you ability to be dismissed.

I'm very aware of my worth...

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I expounded on that statement in Tinychat. Context, playa pimp. Don't try to use what I say against me without the whole story.

In any case, what you are saying is, because a childless woman did me wrong, I have to accept single mothers? Single mothers don't have the capacity to treat me wrong?

The desire not to have saturday nights cancelled due to no baby sitter, or potentially being the FIRST man to give a particular woman children, or seeing a growing family
that I am not really truly apart of is something to be ashamed of? You act like I'm asking for a virgin:mjpalm:Your entire point is lost on me right now. Don't get petty for the sake

of getting me to step off my position.

Who are you trying to convince? Me, or yourself? You're creating and diffusing arguments which I have not put forth. But realistically speaking you live in a city where much of the black crime rate is perpetrated by the fatherless generation of black male youth. You see firsthand the need for positive male role models in the lives of these of black children but you're worried about a date being cancelled because of a lack of babysitter.

Other races/nationalities show what happens when there are positive male role models in the household to build something. Why do you think white people are at the number of single parent black households?

 

[Daio]

As an 33 yr old. . . the options are limited

 

[At30wecashout]

What in the entire fukk is the point of this

Think he is trying to convey that single mothers are people too, and can make wonderful partners, but the way he puts it is in some
"Date em or else!" type fukkery. It is disingenuous.

The #1 reason I ain't worried about single mothers: SOMEONE will date them! Single mothers get coupled up everyday, B. Don't mean everybody
has to participate. How the women without kids supposed to get play if we clamoring over the ones with kids

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

An established single father with a kid or two would have no problem with single mothers like yourself. But no decent man with no kids and major things for himself will put himself with such predicaments

Yeah. Okay, Breh.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

In that case, everyone is choosing from what's available to them. I have turned down plenty of men for various reasons, who have known I had kids. It's not an issue, Sweetie.





Bottom line is this...

ANY woman with a shred of confidence is not jumping on the first dikk that pays her attention. Which brings me back to my original statement. The majority of you motherfukkas are not the pick of the litter. You underestimate you ability to be dismissed.

I'm very aware of my worth...

Your worth to yourself
Does not equate your worth to others


It is what it is
The worth u place on the dude u with may not be the same for another woman

It is what it is

 

[AB Ziggy]

As an 33 yr old. . . the options are limited

Move to a more vibrant city and date younger. Case solved.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

What in the entire fukk is the point of this

Life. You think dudes in their prime reproduction years are just going to stop fukking raw because they left their first baby mother? You're usually a pretty astute dude so I don't see how you can't understand that scenario.

 

[Will Ross]

Most brothers settle for less.

 

[At30wecashout]

Who are you trying to convince? Me, or yourself? You're creating and diffusing arguments which I have not put forth. But realistically speaking you live in a city where much of the black crime rate is perpetrated by the fatherless generation of black male youth. You see firsthand the need for positive male role models in the lives of these of black children but you're worried about a date being cancelled because of a lack of babysitter.

Other races/nationalities show what happens when there are positive male role models in the household to build something. Why do you think white people are at the number of single parent black households?

Breh, I asked you, what is the solution? You haven't given one. "Opening my perspective" or some shyt. To what? Realistically, if someone comes into my life that I can't
ignore, and she has kids, then I gotta swallow the fact that life don't always come out as planned. And thats ok. But in the meantime, I don't entertain any woman with children from the gate
cause I am not on that level of thinking. I don't have kids, so I am not interested in paternal pursuits. I mean I volunteered with young kids for years so

I'm not against being a big brother. What I am trying to understand is, are you saying I SHOULD wife a single mother, or I should be open to it? If it's the latter, I will cross that
bridge when my options become primarily single mothers. If households need a positive male influence, that is the fault of the father and mother, or the fault of fate, and it isn't
MY problem. When I have a family, that is my priority. Till then, I don't get what you are trying to say. I'm young and don't want a single mother. Answer the fukking question:
what is wrong with that?