All my homies are wifing up single moms...

Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha

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Who said it was? Most of your age group isn't ready mentally ready for parenthood. So avoiding those issues is actually smart, at your age. But trust and believe a man like me is always going to have options. You're 21. You don't even know what a good woman is yet. With child or not.
as a person a woman can be good if she is a single mother

but as a potential woman for a relationship... no such thing as a good single mother.
 

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As long as they're not settling because they feel they have no other options, I see not big deal.

On a side note, nobody can define love and happiness those are just aribrary terms to give people excuse. You dont find happiness in somebody else. That's too high an expectation to put on somebody. Keep it simple. Just find a decent person whos compatible with you that you enjoy being around all the time and doesnt bring you down. They may not support everything you do but as long as they're not discouraging or stress you out then they should be to partner with.
 

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Rule #1

Never wife a woman with a ready made family. #nobebeskidsallowed

If you are desperate then:

The only exception is if the baby father(s) are dead, no exception.

Her body must be flawless, size 8 or less, no exceptions.
 

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You legit posting some of the stupidest shyt on here :dead:
And u stay trying to get at people like u over their heads and mature
Shame on u

Shame on me. :mjlol: I know when it comes to the black man he can do no wrong but you're lying to yourself if you think that statistically speaking a black man has more of a chance of taking on a life long responsibility of raising some other man's child than being caught up in the quagmire of generational poverty? You all hate women so much you're willing to toss logic out of the window.
 

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Breh, here you go. :comeon: Where did I say date them or else? You're being disingenuous. Stop trying to twist my words. I don't think you all really understand how single mothers are created. You think all single mothers produced kids with nikkas in jail, no jobs, ain't shyt etc etc. If you're with a woman for 10 years and you all have four kids together and poof, it's over, you've created a single mom of four kids. Technically, you're a single father of four kids but that's not a burden you have to bear. It's generally not frowned upon for nikkas to have multiple kids by multiple women. So whenever you all have children and if you break up with that mother then she and your children are going to be looked at as pariahs. But it looks like you guys are okay with that.
:shaq2:Not all single mothers chose obviously dumb ass partners. Not all relationships are meant to last, and often, that realization comes sometime after children.

Sometimes(very rarely) the mother is widowed as well. Or the husband ends the marraige (again, not usually). Or O.N.S or something. Basically, not all women fukked up

with some knucklehead. Plenty of decent women and men have had to end their shyt cause it just wasn't working. It ain't that simple.
Said that in another thread. I told the coli I have a low bodycount. Why?:sas1:cause I prefer, ideally, the chick I choose to be with intimately is going to be my partner
for the long haul. Trust me when I say I don't have kids NOT through luck, but through very shrewd choices in who I deal with. I am 29, childless, own a business(It ain't paying the bills
yet, but its a process), never had an STD, pregnancy scare, and have never seen the inside of a jail cell. All because of very conscious decisions about who I associate with and what I do.

Quote me once parroting that "Single mothers always choose bad partners" shyt. I don't edit or delete comments, so go ahead:coffee:What you are doing is using the fukkery other numbskulls on
her say to refute my position, and it ain't a good look.

Are you seriously asking me what is the solution? :dwillhuh: Not to look at single black women with children as something to prey on and an easy lick, perhaps? :what: The attitude some dudes have on here is almost predatory and that's just okay? :dahell:
:what:Are you kidding me? I say I don't even entertain single mothers, much less "prey" on them. You responding to someone else while quoting me, guy? Cause you way off the mark.



STOP SAYING YA'LL! Read my posts only when addressing me, cause just cause I don't want to date a woman with children don't mean my reasons are the same as these other cats. Stop fukking up the game, right now:ufdup:
 

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Look if your under 26 or unless you want no kids yourself brehs, trust a :flabbynsick: breh, don't waste your time dating women with kids. I love kids but it just brings a different emotional, physical and financial complexity to a relationship that most younger dudes ain't ready to or need to handle
 

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facts :mjlol: people move out here just to find somebody to settle down with if they ain't bout to settle already

Bruh, I couldn't tell you how many times i'll be talkin' to some broad and she ask me: "Do you have kids?"
I say "No..."
and she be like "NONE? Why not?" like that's some crazy chit.

When I wanna play with 'em sometimes, i'll say "I've never even been married..." and wait for the look on their face...
 

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Shame on me. :mjlol: I know when it comes to the black man he can do no wrong but you're lying to yourself if you think that statistically speaking a black man has more of a chance of taking on a life long responsibility of raising some other man's child than being caught up in the quagmire of generational poverty? You all hate women so much you're willing to toss logic out of the window.
Statically that ain't even close to being true
The fukk is wrong with u

U stay posting some Sambo ass self hate shyt
And u really be acting like u dropping knowledge

Gtfoh with the clown shyt
Gah damm
 
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