All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Are you kidding me? I say I don't even entertain single mothers, much less "prey" on them. You responding to someone else while quoting me, guy? Cause you way off the mark.

Not YOU. I'm saying in general. You got dudes in here saying all sorts of shyt about single mothers. Borderline predatory.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

IG of the chick in your avi
Pls

Fred

I'm on my phone
I don't even know who she is

I got this picture off pinterest

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Nothing wrong with dating females with kids
Some of y'all dudes are straight up weirdos

Fred

In other news (because this topic is bull shyt) I have been trying to rep you for DAYS!

I think someone caught wind of my plan. They don't want to see you be great, Malc!

 

[Houston911]

Half you dudes have limited options. Dont get too choosy fellas.

This whole "i would never date a woman with kids under any circumstances whatsoever" sounds very unrealistic

 

[Canon]

make sure to keep the wolves updated on this

 

[At30wecashout]

Not YOU. I'm saying in general. You got dudes in here saying all sorts of shyt about single mothers. Borderline predatory.

Then stop telling me. I said my reasons for not dating single mothers, and none of it is that goofy shyt the coli likes to pretend we all think. I'm young and without children.
I would rather build from the ground up than take over with a family that someone else started, and thats assuming I am even accepted by that family, which is another can of
worms entirely.

We can talk about building up black families all we want, but the fact is, nobody HAS to do that with someone elses. Yes there are benefits to the community, but individually, I am sure
most folks would rather take care of children that they brought up from the womb.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Statically that ain't even close to being true
The fukk is wrong with u

U stay posting some Sambo ass self hate shyt
And u really be acting like u dropping knowledge

Gtfoh with the clown shyt
Gah damm

So let me spell this out for you. This whole thread of thought started because some dude quoted me saying you can't compare bad debt to children as children are a life long thing. And I disagreed because as a black man you are statistically more likely to be trapped in poverty for your entire life than to date one single mom and raise the child of another man from diapers to cap and gown. Unless for some reason you think dating a single mom for six months somehow comes with an 18 year commitment to another man's child once the relationship is over. You nikkas will jump on anything criticizing black males but let all sorts of black women slander go by as long as another black man says it or it fits your viewpoint. Nothing I've said is some Sambo shyt.

 

[Matriarchy Refugee]

Statically that ain't even close to being true
The fukk is wrong with u

U stay posting some Sambo ass self hate shyt
And u really be acting like u dropping knowledge

Gtfoh with the clown shyt
Gah damm

Dude got half the posts in this thread by himself

He lowkey having a meltdown

This thread definitely struck a nerve

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

I don't piss on women. And I do not hold the piss of a childless woman in higher regard.

No, you just refer to black women as "darkbutts" on here. Remember that?

If you want to date single mothers, go ahead. If other brehs don't like that idea then whatever, do you.

All I know is, the girls I fukk with all know about birth control, and they understand their pregnancy windows. It's because they don't want to fukk up a career or their schooling.

If you fukk with girls who have something going on, they won't get pregnant so easily. However a hoodrat won't mind, she'll take that government assistance or try and trap you no problem.

Don't fukk with hood chicks.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Then stop telling me

nikka, you asked me what the solution was.

 

[At30wecashout]

Half you dudes have limited options. Dont get too choosy fellas.

This whole "i would never date a woman with kids under any circumstances whatsoever" sounds very unrealistic

I don't think most level-headed dudes are saying that. It's like thinking you are gonna ball out and have a dime when you are young but 15 years later, you are a happy
9-5 joe with an average wife that you think the world of. Just cause you like it now, that does not mean it was the ideal then. Things change. Many of us will be with a
single mother at SOME point, just maybe not in our 20's and early 30s, which most dudes will admit to.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

No, you just refer to black women as "darkbutts" on here. Remember that?

You're right. I did refer to someone as a darkbutt to rile them up. I tend to do that. Go ahead and pull up the quote.

 

[At30wecashout]

nikka, you asked me what the solution was.

The solution that applies to meYet you address me with a counterpoint about not assuming all women were shytty decision makers and not preying on them, things
I already don't do. My question is still left unanswered as of 6:28pm Chicago time.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

You're right. I did refer to someone as a darkbutt to rile them up. I tend to do that. Go ahead and pull up the quote.

You wrong for that..

 

[Rell Lauren]

Props to them for looking beyond the baggage, but I can't do it. I'd want my own progeny before I'd take on someone else's.