All my homies are wifing up single moms...

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Lot of times single moms are way mature and focused than a lot young hoes. That kid made em grow up. Im not fukking with no chick with 3 or 4 kids. But if a chick has a kid and her head on straight, we can do something.
 

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:stopitslime:Then stop telling me. I said my reasons for not dating single mothers, and none of it is that goofy shyt the coli likes to pretend we all think. I'm young and without children.
I would rather build from the ground up than take over with a family that someone else started, and thats assuming I am even accepted by that family, which is another can of
worms entirely.

We can talk about building up black families all we want, but the fact is, nobody HAS to do that with someone elses. Yes there are benefits to the community, but individually, I am sure
most folks would rather take care of children that they brought up from the womb.

nikka's a clown. In most African cultures and Caribbean cultures, the men would slap his silly ass for trying to act like people are immature for not wanting single mothers. People are supposed to get married, stay married and have their children. It aint natural to expect some other man to care for kids you had by another man. That's why it's not accepted in virtually every culture on EARTH. We're the worst example of community building so we allow this bizarro world shyt to have legitimacy.
 

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How many men or women here are in a serious long term relationship with a single parent? Or married one?
 

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I made it a point to not date a man unless he has custody of his kids. Ended up marrying a guy with zero kids and he's an internet weirdo like me. :pachaha:


As much as dudes on the coli love to publicly shyt on black women for being single mothers, we still out here winning, maintaining successful relationships, and the kids get to have a male role model around.
 

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nope, once again your interpretation is way off

and even your logic is way off, because even if I wanted a woman with nothing but free time, but that sheer virtue the kid would be taking up her free time ergo another reason I wouldn't date a mother.

but like I said that's not why I wouldn't want a woman and her bastid, I listed plenty of reasons
just because she's a single parent doesn't make that kid a b*stard....
 

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What are you gonna do? nikkas don't wanna be lonely :yeshrug: When you get to your mid 20's damn near all of the attractive chicks have kids so if you ain't fukking with single mothers it's gonna be a desert out here
 

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Lot of times single moms are way mature and focused than a lot young hoes. That kid made em grow up. Im not fukking with no chick with 3 or 4 kids. But if a chick has a kid and her head on straight, we can do something.

Much of those same "mature and focused" single moms giving you play now years ago would've clowned and rejected your ass for even getting near their presence before the kids came along. :mjlol:
 

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Breh I wouldn't even want to date a girl whose friends or still is cordial with exes, let alone seeing a little squirt that looks like the negro she allowed to squirt in her raw




Mafukkas don't even want to finish another person's saved season on 2K17
But act like finishing another man's child raising duties should be something people should automatically do
 
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