Always wanting new p*ssy is the cruelest joke

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The shame of society.. Even at work, they'll look at a married man as more stable and invite him to the dinner vs the better working single guy. Single guys can't be President of the US. Divorced women are looked at as broken. Dudes on their 3rd marriage are considered suckers. Men and women who sleep around are immature. If you're not married with a family by 35, something is wrong with you.


I just saw that asian actress come out and say she's getting a divorce and her mom begged her to wait until she died. Like people would rather you fake your way through a marriage than be divorced and happy
Something I wonder about do married men get more raises than single/never married men?
 

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You a beast of burden spiritually stunted. It's not on god. That's one of life's trials. To be absorbed and consumed by ultimate pleasures or to be above their hold.

I type this bullshyt after I just finished depositing seed on a demonic captivating young woman's tonsils. I'm not above shyt.
 
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It has diminishing returns FOR YOU.. Or for someone not living right. Nobody said cheat. Nobody said fukk every humpback whale raw. Or don't get tested.

But having sex with multiple women isn't a bad, wrong, or less than type of decision. Hell, you can be in an open relationship... Then who's being hurt if everyone is honest? Your lady could be bi and bringing home select women. Y'all could be swingers. You could be single.

But society has deemed 1 to 1 forever as good and everything else as less than. Not nature. Not instinct. Just pick one person and no matter what the fukk goes wrong, don't get divorced. Cause that'll be looked down on too.. So will having more than 1 marriage.

It's all clown shyt. A rating system of personal relationships. As long as everyone is open, honest and nobody is getting hurt, they all on the same level
i never said that it was wrong anywhere in my post
said its a lifestyle choice
I'm not married or monogamous and leaning toward staying that way
but having multiple women is diminishing returns because if u need more and more how are you being fulfilled
you are trying to convivence yourself its okay
plenty of people have no desire to be with someone other than their partner
having one partner there is a level of intimacy you can't get being with multiple partners
of course people want to be around people that are like minded
if you don't smoke why u wanna be in a room of smokers
just like married people usually rather be around couples
Why should everyone conform to your way of thinking?
 

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The shame of society.. Even at work, they'll look at a married man as more stable and invite him to the dinner vs the better working single guy. Single guys can't be President of the US. Divorced women are looked at as broken. Dudes on their 3rd marriage are considered suckers. Men and women who sleep around are immature. If you're not married with a family by 35, something is wrong with you.


I just saw that asian actress come out and say she's getting a divorce and her mom begged her to wait until she died. Like people would rather you fake your way through a marriage than be divorced and happy
just like people are shamed for being too conservative
there is more stability in a person with one partner
if have a different person give you a haircut every time you got one, it way different than having the same barber for years
if you have a new girl every time you hang out with friends they have to adjust to the person too
you really self serving with your thought process, your actions effect others
you can do what you want but people are free to have their opinions on how you move
 

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Talking to a chick now that I met on a dating app and I was ready to do the right thing. Be exclusive, delete the app, bc I know me if I juggle multiple I’ll neglect em all. But she on some ‘ I don’t believe in the ‘exclusive’ stage :gladbron::ehh:


So here we are ffwd 5 months we’re doing couples shyt but not a couple, she stay nitpicking I’m wondering if she know who she dealing wit :heh: she didn’t lock it down so I strayed. Messed with a few chicks off the app, bagged a gorgeous chick out n about that I’m meeting. Now she’s slightly hinting that she’s ready and I’m :patrice: Bc now it’s a different ball game. That offer may no longer be on that table. It takes a concerted effort to not chase more women and it is way harder to ignore with dating apps bc now you can ‘chase’ passively
 

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Why not just get with the chick you really want?
It's not a specific girl

It's girls man....it's girls.

Maturity is about looking at the bigger picture

Is she a good person? make a good wife? be a good mother? someone worth building something with? for the most part, yeah

Are there significantly finer, curvier, more established women who are sending pics, "checking in" and begging to suck me bone dry?........yea

But would those women be great in the long term? nah, hell nah

Maturity
 

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Wanting something new to lay in is human but to truly be great men
we can't spend all of our time, energy or money chasing it.

There is an abundance of women. Like literally so many fukking women
we can never fukk them all.

Spend that energy that's being spent on sending text messages, cold approaching,
hitting them on IG/Tinder/Hinge/FD Dating/Ok Cupid/POF etc. on yourself.

I'm putting that part of myself away to get to the next level. It'll always be there
those opportunities for growth will not.
 

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It’s funny I swore off new p*ssy for Lent and spent the whole morning chatting a bytch up to try and get new p*ssy next weekend. I got legit things to do but I am compelled to chase new p*ssy.

I’m going to go take a walk and think about this shyt
 

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We've all been there breh.
There's a stripper whose head I've been on cause she just broke up with her man.

I'm trying not to pursue and stay focused on handling my business but.......
 

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It's not a specific girl

It's girls man....it's girls.

Maturity is about looking at the bigger picture

Is she a good person? make a good wife? be a good mother? someone worth building something with? for the most part, yeah

Are there significantly finer, curvier, more established women who are sending pics, "checking in" and begging to suck me bone dry?........yea

But would those women be great in the long term? nah, hell nah

Maturity
Sounds like you are battling who you are at your core. Commitment ain’t for everyone :manny:
 
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